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Let's get back to basics, what attracted you to date him in the first place? Surely there were warning signs that led to red flags like him being constantly dependent on you from the beginning?

Enahi:
Hi

Nothing much really. I just thought i'd tell you how much of a good heart you have, even though some guys shove it down your throat. After reading your story, me i just dey wish you happiness sha

yinkeys:
Nothing much really. I just thought i'd tell you how much of a good heart you have, even though some guys shove it down your throat. After reading your story, me i just dey wish you happiness sha

Awwww..... thank you so much. How are you?

Adanna86:
Let's get back to basics, what attracted you to date him in the first place? Surely there were warning signs that led to red flags like him being constantly dependent on you from the beginning?

No dear I didn't show him any sign, I am a very simple person.

takink advantage of u being a nice person lol.u better confesss urself,u dey look for husband

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

A wise man once told me you can't complain when you have a choice.

who told you to try all nigerian men

Op Can you make it to Ghana?

Enahi:
Awwww..... thank you so much. How are you?

In God's hands. Thank you

Oga o epic narrative story of there life in a sentence.

shigo20:
takink advantage of u being a nice person lol.u better confesss urself,u dey look for husband

You dont just understand and I guess you probably didn't read all I wrote.

alobright17:
Op Can you make it to Ghana?

Sorry to do what in Ghana?

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

Now u see how we feel with all these over demanding girls all around naija, just 2k and 3k and u are complaining.

Albeit, u must have fùcked a whole lotta naija men to conclude they ain't good?

Just 1 outta +ver 100million doesn't mean naija dudes are mean, u are jsut with d wrong guy.


2ndly ask urself a question, is the problem actually from the guys? Or am I @ fault?

There shouldn't be anything more justifiable dan being always used and dumped by men @ will.

There is a problem somewhere. Figure it out

Enahi:
You dont just understand and I guess you probably didn't read all I wrote.

lolz

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

I think its about choice
when you won't consider a reasonable man because they are not flashy

my opinion

Enahi:
Sorry to do what in Ghana?

To spend some time here in Accra believe me you'll like it here

alobright17:
Op Can you make it to Ghana?

lol..why?

We ghanaians are here,especially when men like me lives both in Ghana and Nigeria.



U are very welcomed and appreciated ok

makydebbie:
lol..why?

One week visit here will give her a good relaxation of mind and soul,with all expenses paid trip.

Meanwhile you no dey try kraahhh and me no go mind you,just keep it up.

alobright17:
One week visit here will give her a good relaxation of mind and soul,with all expenses paid trip.

Meanwhile you no dey try kraahhh and me no go mind you,just keep it up.

chaii...call me make we discuss am..

makydebbie:
chaii...call me make we discuss am..

I know you'll be in class by now as usual,you know what I mean na So let the call be after class to avoid the Normal Normal

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

2minths into the relationship. Of course he is taking advantage of you. Some guys play that game well too

Stupedinluv:
Honey there are better and bigger reasons to be tired of Nigerian men/black men in general.

I can understand what you passing through. Many guys out there are coded golddiggers. The moment they notice you earning, they start looking for a way to leech you dry. Thats why i dont let any of them know am earning, those parasites that is. And i try to keep a very low profile too. I advice you to do same if you wish.

Dating a guy who is not workingwould most times lead to heart breaks and disappointments.

And what stop you from taking care of a man who is not working without complaining?... I thought you Feminists are looking for equal rights?...

After all men always take care of their girlfriend or wives whether she is working or not. So stop sulking, and assume responsibility too.

Pele derie... dem plenty outside... watch carefully...

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

Try us na

MrCork:
..kaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii...you have nyansh.....so u get automatttic .....

[size=20pt] ...PASS MARK!!!!!!!!!!!!![/size]

u see ur life. everybody for this land don sabi u finish

Enahi:
Hi

U again? babe u get plenty time for ur hand sha.

i won't add to what a lot of people have already said but u need to work on urself. if u can't read books, watch videos and listen to audios. attend every relationship seminar around u and most importantly have a mentor or visit a psychologist.

u need to understand urself and what u want so that u can spot it a mile away. don't just roll with any guy, get a spec and stick to it. look through a guy's physique to his personality and mental prowess. for as a man thinks so is he. learn to assess and analyze a guy's thinking pattern before deciding if u can roll with him.

life is too short, don't waste ur time rolling from one rotten egg to another. some people cannot be help from close proximity as they will infect u with their problems. relationships are supposed to be enjoyed not endured. don't endure relationships, talk to ur partner about issues u are not comfortable with and if they don't considered ur opinions then walk.

Most times some doors have to be closed for others to open.

Lol I just dey follow quietly,gals and their wahala,who we wan ask the truth??call the guy to come defend himself,don't crucify him with the so called flaws.if you're tired,go ni abi them use juju tie u??

Enahi:
Why me? Why are you men very manipulative?
I am tired, tired and irritated.

It hasn't been up to Two months I met my new boyfriend and he keeps asking me for little money that at the end of the day he won't pay back. The other time he had a little problem with his car I had to fix it since d cost was very little.
The other time he called me to give someone 2k on his behalf and that he would pay back, that one entered voicemail I didn't even bother to ask him to refund it wanted to see if he would like he said.

Just 2 weeks ago he came complaining about some stuff that has to do with him not having money and asked he wish I can borrow him 3k. Thank God for my friend that has met him and told me my man looks like a user and that I should be careful.

Painful thing is he doesn't care about me neither does he ask about my welfare, he wants me to cook for him always because he enjoys my meals and has even asked me to cook and bring to his house when he has a mom that's cooks for him always.

I think he is taken advantage of the fact that I am a nice person, I have made efforts to call off the relationship several times because it got to a point i was now the only one doing all the calling and communicating, he keeps saying he is sorry.

I am tired.

REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....


I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ?

Puresolutions:
REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....


I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ?

Sure we do 've other problems aside man problems

Enahi:
Sure we do 've other problems aside man problems

@Enahi the forum is flooded with this same issues over and over...Is it so difficult to leave a guy? is it this difficult ?

Puresolutions:
REVERSE PSYCHE IS WHAT I WANT TO COMMIT HERE ....


I HAVE A QUESTION TO ASK DO WOMEN HAVE PROBLEMS ATALL BESIDES MEN PROBLEMS ? WHY DO ALL LADIES ONLY SEEM TO HAVE MAN PROBLEMS WHY ?

Aside men, women still have a lot of problems. Ranging from latest fashion, looks and so on.