The alarming rate of childlessness in africa with Nigeria as a case study can not be over emphasized these days.......

My debate is this.... Do we prevent this unforseen predicament by making sure( with evidence) that we can produce before visiting the alter.....

Pls note ::: your advice could save or mar....

Go to your village.. Ask one old woman to sit on the girl's womb till she finds a man.......they do it in Nollywood all the time...

slyIsaac:

Go to your village.. As one old woman to sit on the girl's womb till she finds a man.......they do it in Nollywood all the time...

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The real essence of marriage is not for children, Children are gifts from God, so who ever he feels like blessing wit a child is lucky.

Yes I agree children are gifts from God



But the question still remains, are children from rape gifts of God? I'm not tryna sound irrational tho. I'm only askin based on mere human thinking

It should be pregnancy after marriage, not the other way round

enshi:
The alarming rate of childlessness in africa with Nigeria as a case study can not be over emphasized these days.......

My debate is this.... Do we prevent this unforseen predicament by making sure( with evidence) that we can produce before visiting the alter.....

Pls note ::: your advice could save or mar....

I use to be a strong advocate of marriage before pregnancy, but recent discoveries and stories I've heard has changed my mindset. Sometime ago, I overheard two ladies, one probably in her late twenties and the other in her thirties, discussing. I can't write everything I heard here, but from what I heard, it was clear to me that that both of their wombs have been destroyed beyond repair. And I said to myself ``so na person wan marry all diz ones now''! Well, the Bible says we should pray for God to direct us...But it was the same Bible that also says ``faith without works is useless''. Be wise, brothers, cos most of these women ain't gat no wombs!

Pregnancy b4 marriage is a sin unto God, cus it's fornication dat led to dat. Childlessness in marriage has notn to do with whether u get preg b4 marriage or nt. Some of dose who got preg b4 marriage always suffer d consequences. Hav a positive mind towards ur marriage. So far dat sm pple are facing it doesnt mean, u wil av d same problem.Fornication is a sin b4 God.

tee59:
Pregnancy b4 marriage is a sin unto God, cus it's fornication dat led to dat. Childlessness in marriage has notn to do with whether u get preg b4 marriage or nt. Some of dose who got preg b4 marriage always suffer d consequences. Hav a positive mind towards ur marriage. So far dat sm pple are facing it doesnt mean, u wil av d same problem.Fornication is a sin b4 God.

Pls can you be explicit enough to underlist those problems faced by people who became pregnant before marriage

It would interest you to know that about 49% of infertile couples have no known problem.

Pregnancy before marriage NOPE.

lovingT:
It would interest you to know that about 49% of infertile couples have no known problem.

Pregnancy before marriage NOPE.

Its not about medically checking to be fit rather its about practically becoming pregnant

Pregnancy before marriage is not right but we don't need to condemn those that find themselves in such situations. There is no problem connected to them.Let's not doubt our partners instead we should believe in God. Sometimes,this issue of childlessness can come from the man or even from the woman,what really matters is doing the will of God? Fornication is not right before God. Marry first and then born as many as you can train well in ways of the Lord. Thank you.

enshi:


Its not about medically checking to be fit rather its about practically becoming pregnant

Pregnancy before marriage NOPE. A big nope.

philismary:
Pregnancy before marriage is not right but we don't need to condemn those that find themselves in such situations. There is no problem connected to them.Let's not doubt our partners instead we should believe in God. Sometimes,this issue of childlessness can come from the man or even from the woman,what really matters is doing the will of God? Fornication is not right before God. Marry first and then born as many as you can train well in ways of the Lord. Thank you.

Ok, let't say I agree with what you are saying...but what about those that their wombs are nolonger there as a result of multiple abortions?

osesology:

Ok, let't say I agree with what you are saying...but what about those that their wombs are nolonger there as a result of multiple abortions?

Their only option as to having kids remains adoption.... And these people pose 75% of the problem in discus

disgrace.

There is nothing God cannot do. Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness and all other things will be added unto you that includes a good woman choosen by God :imself for you. Just believe,Thank you.

osesology:

Ok, let't say I agree with what you are saying...but what about those that their wombs are nolonger there as a result of multiple abortions?

For me is very shameful and I can't try it , you have no reason or whatsoever to do it.

What if the girl lost the pregnancy after the marriage ? What of if the child you married her for later die, Will you divorce her ?
You have to realize ladies (woman ) are not child manufacturing company
What if the problem is from you ?

I don't agree with you