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nifton:
Na FP and FTC dey cause am.I wonder how much these two positions earns dem,hence the rush. Maybe dem no do comprehension for highskul,1st son (collins)at the Uni. and obviously above sixteen since Richmond( probably second) is 16.
How then will the woman ever be 26?, Did she give birth to her first child when she was below 10? maybe 7 or 8 yrs?.
Even if someone did not get to see where 46yrs Rosaline was well spelt out on the article,common sense shud av sufficed.

I find it hard to believe that some people keep saying the woman was 26, there is nowhere in the article says that she was 26, the article only says his wife of 26years.

jodeci:
Some men are just animals

So are some women. Go to Cameroun and find out.

Woman: Shamless Man! Your mates are working hard to support their family and you are here sleeping all day, common to wash my cloths u can't. Fo..ol.


Man: Listen the way you talk to me is getting out of hand and its begining to make me depressed. The other day you went to tell your relatives how unsupportive I have become to the family. I have been trying my best all this years hopfully its turns good again like when i married you pls be understanding.



Woman: Child I think You were told to wash that plate and you didnt do it. Do you want to become as lazy as your dad?



Child: Not@all mummy god forbid!



Male Customer: Madam the Madam,I don come again o, how market.(then he hugs her abit and taps current and goes ahead to get her number likewise others then @home her phones keeps ringing like Mtn CC Agent. Husband attempts to still hold control but she is even threatens devorce...)


Haaaaaaaaaaaa. This man don think tire and belived Gomeo&Julietto Partern would be best.

May God never let us fall too low in life if not, Man would eat all sort of rubis.h.
But killing wasn't the Right option Ssooo to all main Men DONT KILL ! Instead Walk away from your source of depression in Nigeria!

This is a case of satanic bewitchment.

The economy is not helping marriages.

The Bible says
Perilous times shall come.

More prayers, counselling are needed to help failing marriages.

abbeyty:
I find it hard to believe that some people keep saying the woman was 26, there is nowhere in the article says that she was 26, the article only says his wife of 26years.

Can u imagine,it was even in the 1st sentence of the write up. We need to organize comprehension classes cuz our educational system is truly disfunctional.

Am still single and getting married is not easy to see a compatible best friend for marriage...some say am not responsible...
A big thank you all, it better to be single than go through hell in marriage.

queenfav:
lol..Bros abeg no kill me with laugh.I have been meaning to ask whether there is a prize for being the first to comment;people just take it to a different level!

Hehe,me too oh,maybe if mega money dey dia person go dey try am for weekends like dis.

Its a pity..may her soul rest in peace.bbut sometimes women could push men to do this..they are soo anoying..personally i think the world would be a better place if there were no women in it..just saying tho

In this recent times. I believe my igbo brothers , will see to why marriages crack , this is not not the battle of tribe , but of life , when one person will just wake and spew trash aboit yoruba women , that are no longer in their marriages

lastpage:
This is the first and only comment, that did NOT FOLLOW THE CROWD!

First, No one should kill another, for ANY REASON! Life belongs to God and it is ****

For some, this thread is another evidence that "just MEN", are Animals!

For some, this thread is just a good weapon, to propagate DIVORCE agenda (ofcourse, the Fly will always back someone with sores)

For some, Joblessness is to be blamed but l wonder what will happen if and when all jobless people start committing Murder?

For some, it is the jealousy angle that ticks their fancy! jealous men are evil!

For some, the fact that the man has been taking hard drugs and behaving strangely, Drugs need to be blamed!

For some, it is either age-difference or a reason why one should not marry a "fine spouse"!

For some, it is the religious angle, why did they not seek the face of God before marriage?

For some, it is those who asked her not to divorce, that should be blamed! But even the Bible says "blessed are the peace-makers"!

- But if a man ask to divorce his wife because according to him, she is violent, a lot of Women will condemn him saying its because he wants to marry another wife.....then he is forced to continue living with her and the violence continues!

- But if a woman wants to divorce her husband, she is condemned by more women saying she is already carrying man-friend......... and she is forced to stay with him and the violence continues!

Law-makers need to pass an Act into law, allowing "no fault" divorce if VIOLENCE is INVOLVED i.e each or any of the party should be able to walk-out of the marriage with "automatic and equal access" to the children and whoever between them that is capable of housing and feeding the children, should have the children or they share the children ....but no one should pay any money to the other party who insists on keeping the children or share any property to the other.

This way, the "financial/property" incentive will be removed and we would be left with genuine divorce.




Okay, l see some people are already "boiling" .........because they see "divorce" as a "profitable business"!





Lastpage!


BTW: Lets stop these hypocrisy! Husbands kill their wives and much as Wives kill their Husbands. Examples abound.

thank you. I am honoured.

tosinjay:
from the picture you can tell the woman is beautiful. Make people no marry anyhow dem no go hear, marriage these days sha, death and murder every time. If God tell this woman say in so so year he'll murder you maybe she wouldn't have married him. That's why they say seek God before marriage people think it's a joke. You see fine boy, you see rich man, or whatever, you seal your heart for marriage. Later come and divorce thinking it's the way. Divorce is a suicidal process which leads to eternal death. So better be careful before marrying because no turning back.

What was fine or rich about the perpetrator in this instance?
She was the one doing all the providing, putting up with abuse and what has she got to show for it now?
Death and her children having to live for the rest of their lives knowing that daddy murdered mummy.

She wanted to quit the marriage but they begged her to stay because of the children, now she is DEAD! How has that helped the children? .
If she had left the herrendously Abusive marriage she would still be alive and the children will still have their mother. Its common sense! African mentallity boggles the mind!

ayokellany:
.... And that is all you learnt from that article. Woman ! Smh.

What she is saying isn't wrong or bad.... Man!!!

tosinjay:
from the picture you can tell the woman is beautiful. Make people no marry anyhow dem no go hear, marriage these days sha, death and murder every time. If God tell this woman say in so so year he'll murder you maybe she wouldn't have married him. That's why they say seek God before marriage people think it's a joke. You see fine boy, you see rich man, or whatever, you seal your heart for marriage. Later come and divorce thinking it's the way. Divorce is a suicidal process which leads to eternal death. So better be careful before marrying because no turning back.

what the f......k! Are you on about? Seek God, bla bla bla bla! Wether God or not, fine boy or ugly, tall or short, humans can change from good to bad, to evil even, and were did you get the idea that divorce leads to enternal death? You ignorant slowpoke! If the poor dead woman divorced her Abusive husband earlier she would still be ALIVE! Now how does Divorce lead to enternal death?! Or no turning back in marriage,In your warped imagination? i am guessing
And oh! I have divorced 3 times, so who told you that there is no turning back in marriage?

Sweetestrose:
Oh please! what was a lady of 26 doing with a guy of 49 all in the name of marriage, the gap difference is damn too much! RIP Young lady, May her murderer's husband's case not just die a natural death, May the children find helpers to see them through the hurdles of life. Hmm! Aye ma ni ika o

she's 46yrs not 26yrs, error

So people like u exist in planet earth? Is it by force to like lagos? I dont like lagos simple! [quote author=solaseunmatthew post=46044838]Oga shush your mouth jawe, I wonder if some people get sense of reasoning before typing on NL. Na lagos say make he kill him wife. If you don't have one go and get one ... I mean sense of reasoning!

freeze001:
Oh my God! May her soul rest in peace.

Now see this:



If they hadn't stopped her from breaking free and rather enjoined her to keep enduring evil she'd probably be alive today and better for it. At least the children would be sure of their fates.

Is it now that she's dead and the irresponsible father is probably jail bound that her staying because of the children will make a difference?

Women should never endure violence in marriage worst still with the abuser being a leech as well! Some are locked down because they're stripped of economic n financial wherewithal whilst still producing children but in this case, this woman was the provider. Family sentiments however consigned her to definite death! Probably if she had insisted and left the devil, her own family would have forsaken her and cast her aside. Now fear of losing family support has guaranteed her death.

I hope this family will take full responsibility for her 5 children! Families should support their own especially in clear abuse cases like this. No man has any excuse or justification for being a beast!

Once more may her gentle soul rest on...

This is becoming a good topic for research work. Home violence. Spouse killing each other. Especially the husband killing the wife. One thing is common in all the narratives...the husband is out of job, he becomes frustrated and paranoid as a result, accuses wife of infidelity, take to heavy drinking and drug, easily get agree and eventually violently kills the wife...

My questions

Are all these avoidable?

Don't the wife notice or have clues of all this possibilities when dating b4 marriage?

Where things usually truly rosy when the husband had a job and was the bread winner?

Why then does the wife not completely submissive as it were when he was the bread winner?

Why does she wants to play the bread winner role sometimes to spite the man?

Why is she glued to the union in the face of obvious love lost?

Could her continued endurance be due to genuine love for the man or cultural and children involved factors as have been insinuated?

Condemn able no doubt is the man's violent act of killing the spouse, but considering other resultant factors (avoidable)...Especially to prevent re occurring of this ugly menace in our society, can't we consider strongly preventive measures rather than condemning the man after the evil has been done?

@ abbeyty, 4rmthewest, bannykel, histemple, freeze001, and Youngetskilz23, if you read the post earlier, you will notice that it was an error on the path of the op of which evilforest called my attention to it and I intend making necessary editing on my post but needed clarification. All the same, corrections noted.

Sweetestrose:
@ abbeyty, 4rmthewest, bannykel, histemple, freeze001, and Youngetskilz23, if you read the post earlier, you will notice that it was an error on the path of the op of which evilforest called my attention to it and I intend making necessary editing on my post but needed clarification. All the same, corrections noted.

ok noted

Mere looking @ d man's face one should know he is an intelligent killer

The ONLY WAY Marriage would work, is if both spouse "behave and act" they use to do, WHILE COURTING.




Lastpage!

No,not again!
When will women learn?

Soo sad she did no leave alive.

Dollyak:
Poor excuse. Should a man slit the throat of a small rebellious girl if that was how he saw her? It is good to marry a sane man more like.

either way a sane man could also go insane at some point, because of circumstances perhaps.
No one was born insane, i am still not condoning the brutal irrelevant murder of this poor woman.

BayLord01:
See wickedness here ... Ftc dedicated to one mind friends that will always wish others well. Olalekan Rayheem (Sage, Bryan Ekoja, Godwin (Zolon) and my cute daughter Amzat Abimbola.

oga I wonder why u are dedicating ur being first to comment on this kind of "terrible" thread to ur loved ones. Na wa o

She wanted to quit the marriage but we
begged her not to because of the children.

Typically African mentality. People should do what is best for them not because of what pple will say. Rest in peace

crazymod:
Is good to marry your age or close to your age so that you can command some respect.............The age difference is too much. The man will always see the wife as a small girl.

see them reading hastily,wife of 26 yes means marriage of 26 yes.
Tiwa that married her mate,what became if their marriage?
every marriage has its uniqueness and peculiarity.

crazymod:
Is good to marry your age or close to your age so that you can command some respect.............The age difference is too much. The man will always see the wife as a small girl.

see them reading hastily,wife of 26 years means marriage of 26 years.
Tiwa that married her mate,what became if their marriage?
every marriage has its uniqueness and peculiarity.

Poor kids.

I hope the anti-divorce crew will come now to give her her certificate of outstanding endurance.
Nonsense

Sweetestrose:
thanks for the observation, I'll quickly edit my post, I hope the op edits his news as well. But pls is your source concrete? Do you live around the area of the incidence or are you close to the person in question, its possible for the child not to be biologically hers, its also possible for her to have given birth at the age of 10. Just want to be sure.

Lol@age of 10. U are so fu**king funny

The belief in a supernatural source of evil is not necessary. Men alone are quite capable of every wickedness.

unikprince:
5 children at 26, hmmmm. RIP sha

She was 46 yrs old and one of her kids just entered the university. Try to read before commenting.