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EVILFOREST:
The LADY is 46, since her 1st born is 16.
Don't mind the reporters with their Fire-brigade approach.

'Wife of 26 years' means she has been married to the man for 26 years. It's clear from the article that she isn't 26 years old.

queenfav:
Is it that most persons here lack the ability to comprehend properly ?She is not 26 years old!They have been married for 26 yrs,so she should be in her late 40's ,judging from the age of their first child.

Thanks girl. Surprised to read through so many unintelligent comments. This is what we've turned to...People cannot analyse simple issues properly how much more complex ones.

No one shuld loss their life due to being married. This woman's life wuld hav been saved if she was allowd her divorce. I hope I neva divorce my wife but an abusive marriage is worse divorce.

See what watching too much Spartacus can cause

If I had adviced her to leave that marriage when she was Alive, many would have said I was cray cray.
People! do not stay in abusive marriages. Many men are groomed only to expect SEX, RESPECT and SUBMISSION in marriage. They are not trained to be husbands, fathers, lovers and supporters of dreams
Some wives are trained to follow the jones' and if their husband can not meet up, then it's dagger drawn at him such women don't know what a wife, mother, lover and supporter of her family mean.
Abeg, marriage is meant to be a union. It ain't easy making it work in this present economy and societal moral decay. Look for a man/woman brought up in a humble home and who respects all no mater their degree, economic level, race, gender or creed.
Look for a man who shows mercy, who forgives, who wants to see you happy. Any woman that finds such a man should Love him with all her heart, make him relaxed and comfortable to the best of her ability. When a good man finds a good woman, their home is always happy and rich. Note I say GOOD man, not just any man.

Idleness is a big disease sotey the murderer dey smell sperm for im wife pant when she come back from cotonou where she go buy market.

name checkers what's your take?

RIP to the deceased.

Lesson learnt:- Flee from an abusive marriage.

crazymod:
Is good to marry your age or close to your age so that you can command some respect.............The age difference is too much. The man will always see the wife as a small girl.

crazymod:
Is good to marry your age or close to your age so that you can command some respect.............The age difference is too much. The man will always see the wife as a small girl.

crazymod:
Is good to marry your age or close to your age so that you can command some respect.............The age difference is too much. The man will always see the wife as a small girl.

Note, the wife can't be 26 yrs, if you had read it well, she's 46 yrs old

But the man sef... go dey smell pant iranu

indeed, things are happening in Nigeria....
is it synonymous with the prevalent 'Change'??

AngelAhnie:
Jobless man, see how wicked he is. Who will feed your sorry aßs now that you've killed her.

She left the house, some family members that felt its a taboo to divorce asked her to return to him cos of their kids. Now she's no more, won't the kids survive? Quit abusive marriage!

Am a guy and I say this proudly. If your man beats you bounce from the marriage faster than a bullet. It's only a matter of time before he kills you.

Forget that broken marriage taboo at least you'll be alive. Better alive and printed to as a divorcee than dead and forgotten after some "eyahs" and shaken heads.

If he hits you beat it. Also take your kids. Men aren't genetically primed to look after kids. They are better off with you.

Sweetestrose:
thanks for the observation, I'll quickly edit my post, I hope the op edits his news as well. But pls is your source concrete? Do you live around the area of the incidence or are you close to the person in question, its possible for the child not to be biologically hers, its also possible for her to have given birth at the age of 10. Just want to be sure.

And they meant they've been married for 26 years

bewla:
Now no more food only prison await u

Who is taking him 2 prison?
He should be sentenced to death by hanging. Mumu husband.
Mtchewww

crazymod:
Is good to marry your age or close to your age so that you can command some respect.............The age difference is too much. The man will always see the wife as a small girl.

The article said his wife of 26 years, so I think what it means is that they have been married for 26 years, remember the 16 years old son said he has an elder brother who is in the university.

Manueleee:
Hmm an idel man is d devil workshop. It happen in lagos again. Wen i say i dont like lagos, many will tink i just hate lagos for no reason.

No b only u bro...I can't live in lagos

gbengaunited:
No b only u bro...I can't live in lagos

Thank u bro. Evrybody s nt d same. I cnt live in lagos. Sum1 was just abusin me because of dis post o.

otiigba1:
what the f......k! Are you on about? Seek God, bla bla bla bla! Wether God or not, fine boy or ugly, tall or short, humans can change from good to bad, to evil even, and were did you get the idea that divorce leads to enternal death? You ignorant slowpoke! If the poor dead woman divorced her Abusive husband earlier she would still be ALIVE! Now how does Divorce lead to enternal death?! Or no turning back in marriage,In your warped imagination? i am guessing
And oh! I have divorced 3 times, so who told you that there is no turning back in marriage?

I wasn't gonna reply you but i was moved to, not everyone who say stuffs here are ignorant ok, from your reply i can see who's ignorant. As you don't know God. People change that's for the ungodly who never knew God and if you were moved for marriage through God you won't find yourself in that situation eventually.

Marriage is a no turning back thing not just earthly wise, we have liberty on earth but you'll be brought to book in the hereafter if you don't repent of it. You've married 3 times, but your first wife is your recognised wife until either leaves this world. Divorce is the most suicidal attempt in life because it can be had to correct but once you dwell here and live it out till you die you cannot escape eternal death. It is written I HATE DIVORCE. Marry for the right reason.
Marriage is not meant for pleasure alone, it's of divine purpose which you and your spouse are meant for, so be ye unequally yoked with an unbeliever who will lead or make you end up in hell!!

It's better one stays single if you can cope because without marriage, no sex with no one, than marrying that will lead one to eternal damnation. Marriage is a very sensitive institution but people have become too worldly to know that it's written, "HEAVEN AND EARTH WILL PASS AWAY BUT MY WORD WILL NOT"
HE'S THE SAME YESTERDAY TODAY AND FOREVER.
When you leave this world you'll know.

#AMnoSlowpoke
#AMnotIgnorant

shaybebaby:
What was fine or rich about the perpetrator in this instance?
She was the one doing all the providing, putting up with abuse and what has she got to show for it now?
Death and her children having to live for the rest of their lives knowing that daddy murdered mummy.

I meant for whatever reason not limited to those you mentioned. This is the outcome of a wrong choice in marriage. You ladies marry for several reasons which doesn't involve God.

[quote author=alujonjonkijon post=46045507][/quote]Bro this is it, whether she was still alive or not, if she was divorced being a Christian divorce is a sin. If one divorce and realizes it's wrong, going back if the partner isn't having same view will be difficult especially when the other is long tied to another, ones married, nothing on earth should separate you with your spouse. If one divorces then dies without correcting it, that's where the eternal suicide lies. No matter how righteous you are you won't escape hell.

Jesus taught
Matthew 19
4 And he answered and said unto them, Have ye not read, that he which made them at the beginning made them male and female,
5 And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
6 Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
7 They say unto him, Why did Moses then command to give a writing of divorcement, and to put her away?
8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
10 His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
11 But he said unto them, All men cannot receive this saying, save they to whom it is given.
12 For there are some eunuchs, which were so born from their mother's womb: and there are some eunuchs, which were made eunuchs of men: and there be eunuchs, which have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven's sake. He that is able to receive it, let him receive it.

I always believed nothing can come between marriage, but seeing the word in verse 9, except it be for fornication, it becomes hard to explain because it seems if wife or husband is caught having an affair then divorce is acceptable but also take proper note of the word "fornication".. This only means it's not exactly so, as the married don't commit fornication, they commit adultery.
We must know the Bible wasn't written in English and the jews always had a form of courtship which during that period they are in a pre-marriage process and in that period such like fornication is what can break the couple.

The rule of the bible is that we must compare Scripture with Scripture so according to Matthew 5:32 divorce causes one to commit adultery if they then remarry.
Above all, as even within Christians they have different understanding of the bible and can want to be stock to whatever it is they understand even if it's not so. The most important thing is being driven with doing God's will and in that regard it's important to know He hates divorce.

26yrs of torture, pain n then leaving this world this way. And to d family members that said stay bck for d sake of ur children----hpe ur happy nw? The children r still alive n ll survive bt mum is gone forever albeit painfully. She would hv bn alive today n doin well for herself if u guys had allowed her to leave wen she wntd to. May God neva give us patners dt end up ruining our lives--amen. Painful, sad, anger stimulating story.

ObiOmaMu:
A 49-year-old man, Jafaru Sougie, pictured below, allegedly killed his wife of 26 years yesterday at Araromi Street in Oshodi area of Lagos State.

Jafaru reportedly slit his wife’s throat with a knife around 2am but she was discovered dead at 4am by one of their children named Richmond and his aunt who raised the alarm.

The suspect poisoned himself thereafter and was vomiting in the bathroom when Richmond woke up.

The Edo State indigene was reportedly rescued from a mob by policemen from the Akinpelu division and was rushed to a hospital while the wife’s corpse was deposited in a morgue.

Forty-six-year-old Roseline sold frozen foods in the Ijora area and was said to be the breadwinner of
the family as the killer husband was jobless.

Saturday PUNCH gathered that Jafaru had serially assaulted Roseline on the grounds of being unfaithful. Apart from the infidelity allegation, he reportedly beat the mother of five children for collecting gifts from her relatives for the upkeep of the family.

Richmond, 16, said that he could not explain what came over his father to have committed the act, saying he started behaving strangely afterwards.

He said:
“My three siblings, our aunt and I slept in the living room while dad and mum were inside. Around 4am, dad called me from the bathroom. I went to meet him but he did not say anything. I went outside to urinate and when I came back, I checked the bathroom and saw him lying down, vomiting some black substance and excreting on his body. I think he poisoned himself. I told my aunt to wake mum up to attend to him. But she didn’t wake up.
“I shone a flashlight on her and saw blood on the bed with a wide cut in her neck. I fainted when we discovered she was dead. We later asked dad how it happened, he said somebody entered and did it whereas the compound gate is always locked in the night.
“It was mum that took care of us. She was the one sponsoring my elder brother, Collins, who just gained admission into a university in Abia State. I don’t know our fate now.
“The landlord of our former rented house on Michael Street sent us out because dad always quarrelled with mum. We were also sent away from Banjoko Street for the same reason.”
The aunt, Veronica Imomoh, who confirmed the assault, said she was surprised the woman did not scream during the attack.

She added:
“Our family had warned him to stop beating her. He didn’t have any work and she was the one feeding him and paying the rent. Anytime she collected gifts from her relatives, he quarrelled with her. He would accuse her of sleeping with men and beat her up. There was a time he took her to our village in Edo State to swear whether she was cheating on him or not and she did.
“Yesterday (Thursday) he demanded N10,000 from the wife, saying he wanted to travel. She was trying to raise the money from her friends. But I don’t know whether that was the immediate cause of the incident.”
A neighbour, Simeon Nnoron, said he had tried to prevail over Jafaru to stop assaulting the deceased to no avail, adding that he suspected he was on drug and wanted to use the woman for rituals.

Roselin’s elder sister, Mrs. Kate Yakubu, said she had wanted to divorce the husband two years ago but was enjoined to rescind the decision.

She said:
“They fought two years ago because he wanted her to stop selling the frozen foods. During the argument, he held her in the neck and removed strands of hair from her head with his teeth. She left the house for a week to live with his brother in Masasa. She wanted to quit the marriage but we begged her not to because of the children. There was a time he said he smelt sperm in her pants after she returned from Seme where she normally bought goods.”
The Deputy spokesperson, Lagos State Police Command, DSP Damasus Ozoani, said the suspect had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department for further investigation.
“It was a murder case and the husband was suspected to be under the influence of drug. The case has been transferred to the SCID and investigation has commenced,” he said.

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/05/see-corpse-of-roseline-woman-husband.html

Just like in the game of thrones

Sweetestrose:
@ abbeyty, 4rmthewest, bannykel, histemple, freeze001, and Youngetskilz23, if you read the post earlier, you will notice that it was an error on the path of the op of which evilforest called my attention to it and I intend making necessary editing on my post but needed clarification. All the same, corrections noted.

aiit sorry.

This is tragic. Haha, how can a man be this heartless. SMH. african parents should stop the habit of forcing their daughters to return to their husband's house after she might have told them of the way she is being maltreated. Is it not better for you to have your daughter happy and alive in your house than to give her away to a monster to kill?. This is one case too many and we can't risk losing more of our women. This is also an eye opener to women, as soon as you discover that your man is becoming hostile to you, start planning to get your own apartment. It's better to be a single mother Oooo. It is well

Pure evil.

tosinjay:
I wasn't gonna reply you but i was moved to, not everyone who say stuffs here are ignorant ok, from your reply i can see who's ignorant. As you don't know God. People change that's for the ungodly who never knew God and if you were moved for marriage through God you won't find yourself in that situation eventually.

Marriage is a no turning back thing not just earthly wise, we have liberty on earth but you'll be brought to book in the hereafter if you don't repent of it. You've married 3 times, but your first wife is your recognised wife until either leaves this world. Divorce is the most suicidal attempt in life because it can be had to correct but once you dwell here and live it out till you die you cannot escape eternal death. It is written I HATE DIVORCE. Marry for the right reason.
Marriage is not meant for pleasure alone, it's of divine purpose which you and your spouse are meant for, so be ye unequally yoked with an unbeliever who will lead or make you end up in hell!!

It's better one stays single if you can cope because without marriage, no sex with no one, than marrying that will lead one to eternal damnation. Marriage is a very sensitive institution but people have become too worldly to know that it's written, "HEAVEN AND EARTH WILL PASS AWAY BUT MY WORD WILL NOT"
HE'S THE SAME YESTERDAY TODAY AND FOREVER.
When you leave this world you'll know.

#AMnoSlowpoke
#AMnotIgnorant

more Rubbish! Were is heaven? In your back yard? Who invented marriage? Who say marriage is just for sex? Which God says a woman must stay with an Abusive husband just for the sake of marriage? Who wrote the bible? What did African worship before the white man brought Religion to Africa? How did your Ancestor live before christianity? Can you not see the Damage Religion has done to the world?
Lastly, you must think you are more Righteous than every one else, yes! I am not a church Goer because church has become a way of making a lot of money,(like business) from the Gullibles, just so you know it's not every body who claim to know or worship God like you will go to the so called heaven. I apologise for calling you a slowpoke but you are ignorant, Have a nice day

otiigba1:
more Rubbish! Were is heaven? In your back yard? Who invented marriage? Who say marriage is just for sex? Which God says a woman must stay with an Abusive husband just for the sake of marriage? Who wrote the bible? What did African worship before the white man brought Religion to Africa? How did your Ancestor live before christianity? Can you not see the Damage Religion has done to the world?
Lastly, you must think you are more Righteous than every one else, yes! I am not a church Goer because church has become a way of making a lot of money,(like business) from the Gullibles, just so you know it's not every body who claim to know or worship God like you will go to the so called heaven. I apologise for calling you a slowpoke but you are ignorant, Have a nice day

You're close to an atheist or even one, who told you everyone like me will go to heaven? You don't know me or what I think or what I understand so keep up. You're inconsistent, sounding like an atheist and a church goer too.
I have no business pointing out sin to you. That's not the basics, when the roots is rotten we don't tell the leaf how to stay clean, you gotta check your roots sir. Remarrying remains a sin and that's not the point, the point is if you're not an atheist you do not know God. You need to repent. May God have mercy on you and enlighten you before it's too late bye

tosinjay:
You're close to an atheist or even one, who told you everyone like me will go to heaven? You don't know me or what I think or what I understand so keep up. You're inconsistent, sounding like an atheist and a church goer too.
I have no business pointing out sin to you. That's not the basics, when the roots is rotten we don't tell the leaf how to stay clean, you gotta check your roots sir. Remarrying remains a sin and that's not the point, the point is if you're not an atheist you do not know God. You need to repent. May God have mercy on you and enlighten you before it's too late bye

you sound sanctimonious, you did not answer any of my questions on my previous comment, shows proofs that you have no idea of any thing about christianity, why is it that people like you who like to preach and hassle others about heaven, sin and repent never seem to be able to answer any questions regarding your christian religion, you rather label me an atheist, i am not an atheist i do not claim to know every thing about christianity or heaven and i do not try shoving religion or my believes down peoples throat, label them atheist because they do not agree with my opinion on christianity. I think Rationally, i do not believe every thing the so called pastors like you preach out of fear of been told i will go to hell, i ask questions on issues i do not understand on any religion Unlike Gullible folks like you. As i said you sound very sanctimonious, i suggest you worry about how you will make your so called heaven and not about wether people like me as youhave mentioned and i agree on that day we will know who was really A good, and righteous one.
You do not know me either but you have concluded that i am an atheist and will go to hell. I SMH

otiigba1:
you sound sanctimonious, you did not answer any of my questions on my previous comment, shows proofs that you have no idea of any thing about christianity, why is it that people like you who like to preach and hassle others about heaven, sin and repent never seem to be able to answer any questions regarding your christian religion, you rather label me an atheist, i am not an atheist i do not claim to know every thing about christianity or heaven and i do not try shoving religion or my believes down peoples throat, label them atheist because they do not agree with my opinion on christianity. I think Rationally, i do not believe every thing the so called pastors like you preach out of fear of been told i will go to hell, i ask questions on issues i do not understand on any religion Unlike Gullible folks like you. As i said you sound very sanctimonious, i suggest you worry about how you will make your so called heaven and not about wether people like me as youhave mentioned and i agree on that day we will know who was really A good, and righteous one.
You do not know me either but you have concluded that i am an atheist and will go to hell. I SMH

You've married 3 times right? You must be elderly. You might need to ask yourself why i said that. Where in what i said did i state that you're an atheist abeg? Am not sure of what you are so i said things i perceive, either ways i actually got one right, if you're not an atheist you're the other. The gullibles are there but am not one because i don't fall under those you claim pastors sway, the bible is the only thing that's essence. If you think i didn't answer your questions then you probably didn't ask any other than statements, i don't even remember coming across a question i didn't respond to.

You claim i shove my opinions on people, please how was it so? I got on the post, read and commented and you came raining insults expecting a reply, and of course you should know if you got it from me the way you also gave it you'll be fuming on how much of an hypocrite i am.
Didn't aim my comment as preaching because i don't preach on posts aiming at the person the posts talks about who have no knowledge about it but i said what's happening today. I think you're concerned about how the bible is used to make conclusions, well that's the book that will judge us all, knowing this fact you should know i know better not to self-righteous.

You claim i said you're going to hell right. That's condemnation and i can never do such, but while you remain the way you aretoday, bragging about being married 3 times then you don't repent hows that me saying you'll go to hell? It's the bible that says so. And if you are rational about what pastors say, am not a pastor sir. The bible is what you should deal with and if you aren't certain/believe the bible then am i supposed to believe you're a Christian? The book already says who such person is!!

Dollyak:
Poor excuse. Should a man slit the throat of a small rebellious girl if that was how he saw her? It is good to marry a sane man more like.

Didn't u guys read the article? it said the man is 49yrs while the wife is 46yrs and they have been married for 26yrs

armadeo:
Am a guy and I say this proudly. If your man beats you bounce from the marriage faster than a bullet. It's only a matter of time before he kills you.

Forget that broken marriage taboo at least you'll be alive. Better alive and printed to as a divorcee than dead and forgotten after some "eyahs" and shaken heads.

If he hits you beat it. Also take your kids. Men aren't genetically primed to look after kids. They are better off with you.

@the bolded:
If there is an EMMY AWARD for Stewpid TALK........ this one should win it!

Wetin, mofos just engage their fingers and klap-klap-klap, type rubbish!



In Fela Anikulapo Kuti's voice: Na Crase-man talk be this o,....Na Animal talk be this Ooooo.......


I boldly and proudly say: I am genetically primed to look after my own kids! And the 'results' prove me right!



Lastpage!

That man is more than a devil

lastpage:
@the bolded:
If there is an EMMY AWARD for Stewpid TALK........ this one should win it!

Wetin, mofos just engage their fingers and klap-klap-klap, type rubbish!



In Fela Anikulapo Kuti's voice: Na Crase-man talk be this o,....Na Animal talk be this Ooooo.......


I boldly and proudly say: I am genetically primed to look after my own kids! And the 'results' prove me right!



Lastpage!

No matter how genetically primed to look after your kids you can't do it better than their mother
If you can do a better job looking after your kids than your wife can then am sorry for you.

I never said a man can't look after his kids what I meant was women do a better job at it. its a proven fact unless of course the woman was just an oven for the kid.

It's my opinion I have a right to it just as you have a right to yours. It doesn't mean you have to insult me for my own opinion.