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Ladies and gents, how many of you support this?

Nigerian born Jennifer Jacobs recently went on a rant blasting Nigerian men that borrow money from their girlfriends. Do you support her thoughts?

http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/05/ladies-how-many-of-you-support-this-see.html

Mtcheew. This one no get talk. Your are just making something irrelevant popular

Nonsense

The lady is speaking like someone who is heart broken.

hmmmm this type of ladies can never stay in marriage

useless shegoat

I hate it wen guys borrow money frm their gf.



Itz jux nt kul.


See d way d posters above me r bashing d gurl, had it bin it's about gurlz that borrow money frm their bfs, they wud av being insulting girls.




I dnt think I will b able to do dat, except d guy iz my hubby.

SMH: na this type of lady that can leave their spouse when he goes broke.

UrWorstNitemare:
I HATE GILKZ THAT ALWAYS BORROW/ TAX THEIR BF.

xme here too.


Begging is xo degrading nd embarrassing

sinaj:
xme here too.


Begging is xo degrading nd embarrassing

hmm...
VERY IMPRESSIVE. "wit this coming from a girl".
I kno 99.9% oda girlz will disagree.
but it's encouraging DAT there is still atleast 0.1% DAT totally agrees.. #YOU.

#TeamIndependentLadies. *claps*

Some guys can't even do it because of their ego and pride.And I respect such guy .






But it doesn't mean I can't give to him if he I'd in dire need of it

I guess she just had a bad experience with a guy who probably borrowed some money from her and broke her heart. But seriously, relationships are supposed to be two ways "give and take".
I bet if she was in a fix and ran to her boyfriend for help, only for him to say to her "be independent or ask your girlfriend" she will come and open a thread that "why are men greedy"

There's a clear difference between a gold-digger and a bae in need. If my bae NEEDS the money (different from wants money) and I have enough, why not? Gold-diggers on the other hand DEMAND money for their daily wants and materialistic maintenance.

If the subject isn't comfortable helping out her bf in his time if need, then she's supporting the notion that men and women are not equal. Why can't a woman equally help out her man when he needs it? Constantly expecting a man to be superior to you technically means you're expecting yourself to be inferior to him. You women are your worst enemy. Good luck being treated as equal with your ill-advised set of thoughts.