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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 10:25am On Jun 06, 2016
Alezy:
lolz. ..E no dey pain me but am very sure he is 100% or at least 80% believing he has a gf now that he might just end up with.



Lol

Abeg forget my matter. I dont trust him dats it.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kaboninc(m): 10:36am On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:



I dont trust him at all.

K
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by kaboninc(m): 10:38am On Jun 06, 2016
Alezy:
lolz. ..lemme not believe what i just heard sha cos I don't see indomie as food and for a gurl that knows how to cook? u should be eating something cooked, not indomie.

like some of us who don't kw how to boil water. We can eat anything. smiles
You no dey tire?

Oya flash me make we yarn
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 11:49am On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:



Lol

guy I no trust am if dats wat u wat to hear. I dont trust him.
lol.. And do you love him?? why are you dating him if you don't trust him??
won't you be subjecting yourself to torture with negative thoughts anytime u guys are away??

Go work on the trust thingy..

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 11:51am On Jun 06, 2016
Odunharry:

lol.. And do you love him?? why are you dating him if you don't trust him??
won't you be subjecting yourself to torture with negative thoughts anytime u guys are away??

Go work on the trust thingy..




Did I say I love him, he is my hand bag oooo.


Lolz!
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 11:52am On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:



Lol

guy I no trust am if dats wat u wat to hear. I dont trust him.
Lol.. why date him if you can't trust him at all??
why do you keep subjecting urSelf to torture with negative thoughts anytime you are not together??

You both should build the trust together or you trying say he has given you any reason to doubt him??
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 11:54am On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:





Did I say I love him, he is my hand bag oooo.


Lolz!
Hand bag abi??And you call him your bf right??
evils women do.. And im sure he loves you and think same of you..

Anyways, not my business.. I hope you don't become another guy's wallet and handkerchief tomorrow.

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 11:59am On Jun 06, 2016
Odunharry:

Lol.. why date him if you can't trust him at all??
why do you keep subjecting urSelf to torture with negative thoughts anytime you are not together??

You both should build the trust together or you trying say he has given you any reason to doubt him??

Ok boss
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 12:06pm On Jun 06, 2016
Odunharry:

Hand bag abi??And you call him your bf right??
evils women do.. And im sure he loves you and think same of you..

Anyways, not my business.. I hope you don't become another guy's wallet and handkerchief tomorrow.



Lol

abeg forget my matter.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 12:07pm On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:

Ok boss
lol.. madam
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 12:08pm On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:



Lol
abeg forget my matter.
Lol.. I Don forget ur matter since.. So how are you today??
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by unapapadeycraze: 12:14pm On Jun 06, 2016
1.Why are ladies so cheap these days? Na now you go hear "one night stand", fling, side chick, e.t.c. It nvr used to be so, ladies were loyal like dat song by chris brown.


2. Ladies, why are most of you photo freaks?


3. Why do we have a lot of money oriented ladies these days? What happened to surulere?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by raphrinco: 12:42pm On Jun 06, 2016
smiley wink cool cool dear whats up with you? Would like to hala you ,take care dear smiley
refiner:

smileysmiley
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 2:34pm On Jun 06, 2016
Odunharry:
Lol.. I Don forget ur matter since.. So how are you today??

Am good Dear nd u?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Odunharry(m): 3:20pm On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:


Am good Dear nd u?
not doing bad either... So how's the work/studies going??
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Calmwaters(m): 3:41pm On Jun 06, 2016
Twaci:
True. Do not think that they are not there.

But here's what should count, we chose you guys over them. We chose to spend our time and affection on you not them. We love you not them.

Just joining d thread hw will it feel if d guy has an asssistant gal-frnd
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jun 06, 2016
optional1:



Happy Sunday my dear.


Hw was service?

It was very inspirational and bedazzling. Hope you are peppersouping.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jun 06, 2016
joshysmartie:
erhm.. I got a question..
* do ladies see p@r# If yes what do they fantasize about when seeing it.. wink
Nobody go ansa me abi.. Is the topic over.?
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 4:06pm On Jun 06, 2016
Odunharry:
not doing bad either... So how's the work/studies going??


Studies is cool.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by optional1(f): 4:17pm On Jun 06, 2016
Dongata:

It was very inspirational and bedazzling. Hope you are peppersouping.

Lol peppersouping ke
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by MrImole: 5:43pm On Jun 06, 2016
Twaci:
Welcome sisters cheesy
[b] Hello

There's this girl I have been asking out, we have gone on a lot of dates, she once told me that I'm on probation, now she's saying that she's not said yes, that she has an imaginary boyfriend. She made me promise her to stop drinking, and I did, but since she started acting strangely, I had to stop talking to her for like a week, after then she met me at a bar 4days ago, we didn't say hello, her street sister that owns the bar has even started suspecting that it's not well between the two us. I did the unthinkable by ordering for a bottle of beer, she looked at me badly at that minute after which she left. What I saw next was her WhatsApp message telling me that I have made her angry, that I have disrespected her and that I have hurt her by taking beer again in her presence, I had to reply her that I did that because I'm sad.

My questions is that, do you think she is still within my grip, do you think I should continue asking her to date me and do you think she has any feelings for me...?


I have been single for the past 21months though I agree that I'm not handsome but I still think I deserve the best, I'm scared I may have fallen in love with a lady with too much beauty and sense.

God bless you ladies as you answer [/b]

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Alezy(m): 5:48pm On Jun 06, 2016
kaboninc:
You no dey tire?
Oya flash me make we yarn
lolz. ..right away boss
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Debbywills(f): 6:14pm On Jun 06, 2016
MrImole:

[b] Hello

There's this girl I have been asking out, we have gone on a lot of dates, she once told me that I'm on probation, now she's saying that she's not said yes, that she has an imaginary boyfriend. She made me promise her to stop drinking, and I did, but since she started acting strangely, I had to stop talking to her for like a week, after then she met me at a bar 4days ago, we didn't say hello, her street sister that owns the bar has even started suspecting that it's not well between the two us. I did the unthinkable by ordering for a bottle of beer, she looked at me badly at that minute after which she left. What I saw next was her WhatsApp message telling me that I have made her angry, that I have disrespected her and that I have hurt her by taking beer again in her presence, I had to reply her that I did that because I'm sad.

My questions is that, do you think she is still within my grip, do you think I should continue asking her to date me and do you think she has any feelings for me...?


I have been single for the past 21months though I agree that I'm not handsome but I still think I deserve the best, I'm scared I may have fallen in love with a lady with too much beauty and sense.

God bless you ladies as you answer [/b]

Halo,
i think am going to be a bit blunt here, If she had the nerves to tell you to the face that she hasn't said yes to you and that she has an imaginary boyfriend, you should have deduced from that statement that she doesn't love you, she'll only end up friendzoning you. She has feelings for some other person, what she's tying to do is figuring out between you and her boyfriend.
Another thing is that, when she had acted strange, you would have called her and asked what the problem was, you can't just cease talking to each other just like that, Its completely childish.
I think the Op will make that better

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by MrImole: 6:39pm On Jun 06, 2016
Debbywills:


Halo,
i think am going to be a bit blunt here, If she had the nerves to tell you to the face that she hasn't said yes to you and that she has an imaginary boyfriend, you should have deduced from that statement that she doesn't love you, she'll only end up friendzoning you. She has feelings for some other person, what she's tying to do is figuring out between you and her boyfriend.
Another thing is that, when she had acted strange, you would have called her and asked what the problem was, you can't just cease talking to each other just like that, Its completely childish.
I think the Op will make that better

That's what I thought too but I was confused when she told me she was hurt and sad the last time I drank.

Thanks for the advice.
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Debbywills(f): 6:45pm On Jun 06, 2016
MrImole:


That's what I thought too but I was confused when she told me she was hurt and sad the last time I drank.

Thanks for the advice.

Maybe she likes you, but she doesn't love you enough to leave her boyfriend for you.
You welcome anyways!
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by MrImole: 6:48pm On Jun 06, 2016
Debbywills:


Maybe she likes you, but she doesn't love you enough to leave her boyfriend for you.
You welcome anyways!

Now I understand
Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Debbywills(f): 6:49pm On Jun 06, 2016
MrImole:


Now I understand

You should#

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 10:40pm On Jun 06, 2016
MrImole:

[b] Hello

There's this girl I have been asking out, we have gone on a lot of dates, she once told me that I'm on probation, now she's saying that she's not said yes, that she has an imaginary boyfriend. She made me promise her to stop drinking, and I did, but since she started acting strangely, I had to stop talking to her for like a week, after then she met me at a bar 4days ago, we didn't say hello, her street sister that owns the bar has even started suspecting that it's not well between the two us. I did the unthinkable by ordering for a bottle of beer, she looked at me badly at that minute after which she left. What I saw next was her WhatsApp message telling me that I have made her angry, that I have disrespected her and that I have hurt her by taking beer again in her presence, I had to reply her that I did that because I'm sad.

My questions is that, do you think she is still within my grip, do you think I should continue asking her to date me and do you think she has any feelings for me...?


I have been single for the past 21months though I agree that I'm not handsome but I still think I deserve the best, I'm scared I may have fallen in love with a lady with too much beauty and sense.

God bless you ladies as you answer [/b]
Your issue is...complicated.

So, she has accepted you but you are on probation... Probation which included rules like "dont drink". And u broke it...

Here what I will say, good job! cheesy

I know a lot of feminists will hate what I am about to say, but its the truth. Never give a lady the upper hand when laying foundations of a relationship. She can't handle so much power and in time, will probably turn into a thing of just herself.

Another truth here is that, the lady may not actually be in love with you, but she likes u. That I know.

So here's what you do, set up another date. Apologize ( dont grovel, just apologise) for drinking the last time (so that she would listen). Don't drink this time. Then be open. Tell her how you feel in that probation state and how uncomfortable it is. Remind her you are human and can not wait for long for an approval. Tell her she has to make a decision soonest.

She might throw in the "if-you-care-about-me-you-will-wait..." card, ignore it and stand on your proposition. Be a man.

Let the relationship start on your terms not hers.

Am I making sense here?

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 10:45pm On Jun 06, 2016
Twaci:
Your issue is...complicated.

So, she has accepted you but you are on probation... Probation which included rules like "dont drink". And u broke it...

Here what I will say, good job! cheesy

I know a lot of feminists will hate what I am about to say, but its the truth. Never give a lady the upper hand when laying foundations of a relationship. She can't handle so much power and in time, will probably turn into a thing of just herself.

Another truth here is that, the lady may not actually be in love with you, but she likes u. That I know.

So here's what you do, set up another date. Apologize ( dont grovel, just apologise) for drinking the last time (so that she would listen). Don't drink this time. Then be open. Tell her how you feel in that probation state and how uncomfortable it is. Remind her you are human and can not wait for long for an approval. Tell her she has to make a decision soonest.

She might throw in the "if-you-care-about-me-you-will-wait..." card, ignore it and stand on your proposition. Be a man.

Let the relationship start on your terms not hers.

Am I making sense here?


why did u study BC

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Twaci(f): 10:48pm On Jun 06, 2016
Cutehector:
why did u study BC
Because I like lab coats lipsrsealed

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Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by Cutehector(m): 10:50pm On Jun 06, 2016
Twaci:
Because I like lab coats lipsrsealed
lol lab coats arent sexy...

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