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Hi peop!!!

They say that friendship(Best friends) between woman and man doesn't exist... Will you accept that ur girlfriend/boyfriend has a best friend female/male? Let's Share your opinions!!! (btw I have a best friend male It's been 8 years now and we are close as big bro and lil sis)

Good for u. As for me, naaaaah, i'm so not engaging in that!

Tapping of current will be the order of the day cos the huys mind will always be busy!

Does this friend of yours have a GF? If yes, then what does she make of your friendship?

It'd be a bone of contention for me because I have jealousy issues

I use to have one but her great jealous attitude between she & my puppy(ex-gf) made me gave her a great sex & dump her jealous àss.

Have a lady bestie since 012, we are still close! She visits my Family in lagos from PH even in my absence! My wife and kids really love her!!

I also relate well with her fiance! So no big deal just define the boundaries well and carry each others partners along!!!

U cnt deceive nature



D attraction will b dere

sinaj:
U cnt deceive nature



D attraction will b dere

Definitely ...
I once had a Bestie ( male), we've been friends for like 5 years. Never knew all this while that the nigga was dying in silence

It is very possible because your cousins or distant cousins can be your best friend

Debbywills:
Definitely ...
I once had a Bestie ( male), we've been friends for like 5 years. Never knew all this while that the nigga was dying in silence

Its been a while. Were have you been?

BrideOfDracula:
Does this friend of yours have a GF? If yes, then what does she make of your friendship?

It'd be a bone of contention for me because I have jealousy issues

Yes, He just got married last year and he told me that his wife knows about our friendship and accept it...but sometimes he text me secretly I don't know why and when u make some activities he doesn't say anything to his wife... we don t talk everyday like before bcuz is a married man now and I respect that.

Even your in-laws can be your best friend

theEYe21:
It is very possible because your cousins or distant cousins can be your best friend

lecturerdabo:
Have a lady bestie since 012, we are still close! She visits my Family in lagos from PH even in my absence! My wife and kids really love her!!

I also relate well with her fiance! So no big deal just define the boundaries well and carry each others partners along!!!

True dat !!!

Debbywills:
Definitely ...
I once had a Bestie ( male), we've been friends for like 5 years. Never knew all this while that the nigga was dying in silence

Yes same like me!

Why will my girlfriend have a male as her best friend?

Maybe before I surface she can, but once I come up, I should be her best friend.


In a nutshell, NO

gabinogem:
I use to have one but her great jealous attitude between she & my puppy(ex-gf) made me gave her a great sex & dump her jealous àss.

Then it wasn't ur Bestfriend but ur fuckfriend!!! cuz I guess you made it more that once

damilareoye:
Why will my girlfriend have a male as her best friend?

Maybe before I surface she can, but once I come up, I should be her best friend.


In a nutshell, NO

I agree but we can have more that 1 bestfriend no?

diamantnoir:
I agree but we can have more that 1 bestfriend no?

in that case, I would prefer the rest to be female friends.

They are fvcking each other bad bad just da they av each 2 demsef.
Talkin 4rm xperience

It exist, just few. you'd be lucky to find a true one amongs hundreds that there don's exist a slightest form of attraction. They just try to supress it

damilareoye:
in that case, I would prefer the rest to be female friends.

OK so if she had a bestfriend longtime ago before you meet her u Will break her friendship?

David25:
It exist, just few. you'd be lucky to find a true one amongs hundreds that there don's exist a slightest form of attraction. They just try to supress it

Are u this kind of rare person?

diamantnoir:
Are u this kind of rare person?

no no.. I won't lie, I'm not.
The only way there won't be any form of attraction between me and a female friend of mine if she is ugly. But I can keep those attractions at bay just not to ruin our friendship.

David25:
no no.. I won't lie, I'm not.
The only way there won't be any form of attraction between me and a female friend of mine if she is ugly. But I can keep those attractions at bay just not to ruin our friendship.

Lool ok

diamantnoir:
OK so if she had a bestfriend longtime ago before you meet her u Will break her friendship?

not breaking her friendship with anybody but she should give it a little distance.

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damilareoye:
not breaking her friendship with anybody but she should give it a little distance.

OK I got ya!

I'm my girlfriend's male friend any other male friend is null to avoid story that touch.

I Wouldnt mind having a good male friends. I can control my emotions not to fall in love with my best friend unless we're both singles and I wouldnt mind if my boy friend has a best friend as well. After all, it's all about trust and honesty.

My best friend is a female. Since 2009 till date we have been like that, though we had a misunderstanding in Nov 2013, we resolved it and we still rocking. I have a girl, though she feels jealous about my bestie , it still hasn't ended my friendship with her. I had my best friend first before my girl came on board. All I did was to bring them together, once in a while they talk with each other.
Any time, I make some serious jokes about ending the friendship with my bestie she always feel down. From her actions I know she does not want it to end. She has confessed to it as well, even her mum is so fond of me. But is so bad that the previous boyfriends my best friend has had and the present one, we do not get along.

ForeverYoung197:
I Wouldnt mind having a good male friends. I can control my emotions not to fall in love with my best friend unless we're both singles and I wouldnt mind if my boy friend has a best friend as well. After all, it's all about trust and honesty.

True dat