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Got these 3 female friends. They're quite cool. Lately they've been breathing down my neck in an effort to be more social like showing up at my place most times unannounced, unnecessary phonecalls and much more, asking very personal questions. Is there a way to nicely let these ladies know i need more personal time and less, much much less of their presence around me without creating problems?

My dear, I really do appreciate your calls, visits, care and attention but please I think you can cut down on it, it's really making me uncomfortable. Thanks for understanding.
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#MaLady

yes send them death-notes . On a serious note, asking them nicely to give u some alone time is the key. Talk to them MATURELY..nd not opening teeth oo be calm, stay cool act like 'the man'

Agybabe:
My dear, I really do appreciate your calls, visits, care and attention but please I think you can cut down on it, it's really making me uncomfortable. Thanks for understanding.
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#MaLady

ah gee thanks.

The more you ignore them the more they will get the message, telling them off will make them hate you.
You may need their assistance in the future

Agybabe:
My dear, I really do appreciate your calls, visits, care and attention but please I think you can cut down on it, it's really making me uncomfortable. Thanks for understanding.
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#MaLady

Ma Lady!

JoeCutie:
Ma Lady!

I miss you too. . #MaLady

mrhansome12:
The more you ignore them the more they will get the message, telling them off will make them hate you.
You may need their assistance in the future

appreciate your input. But i'd have to disagree. There's a point it gets to when avoiding just isn't enough. Ignoring phonecalls would be somewhat rude to an extent. Best i can do i pretend to not be around when they come knocking. It has to be addressed, in the way agybabe perfectly put it.

Agybabe:
I miss you too.
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#MaLady

I never said I missed you.

JoeCutie:
I never said I missed you.

I expected this response but are you sure? Talk true now o.
#MaLady

Agybabe:
I expected this response but are you sure? Talk true now o.
#MaLady

I've missed you so much, sweetheart. And you'll still have to explain to me why you'd let me miss you that long.

How've you been?

JoeCutie:
I've missed you so much, sweetheart. And you'll still have to explain to me why you'd let me miss you that long.

How've you been?

Very good. Let's not derail. Add me up and send a message to my box on Facebook, let's catch up. Check my signature for my FB ID.
#MaLady

AccidentalGenius:
Got these 3 female friends. They're quite cool. Lately they've been breathing down my neck in an effort to be more social like showing up at my place most times unannounced, unnecessary phonecalls and much more, asking very personal questions. Is there a way to nicely let these ladies know i need more personal time and less, much much less of their presence around me without creating problems?

Anytime dey come or call, just start talkng bout ur gf, even if u have none. Just say swt things bout her, aw nice she is, aw u lve her, things u do wen ure together and all.....I bet, they will leave u to be....gradually

mrhansome12:
The more you ignore them the more they will get the message, telling them off will make them hate you.
You may need their assistance in the future

Thats it....U dont have to say it to them cos it might sound blunt and deyl feel hurt.

AccidentalGenius:
appreciate your input. But i'd have to disagree. There's a point it gets to when avoiding just isn't enough. Ignoring phonecalls would be somewhat rude to an extent. Best i can do i pretend to not be around when they come knocking. It has to be addressed, in the way agybabe perfectly put it.

You are right, ignoring them and still picking their calls but not calling any of them (that one can frustrate like hell) can still do the magic unless one of them is obsessed with him. Pretending not to be around when they come knocking may not work much because they may come unexpected. I think the best way is to start fronting a girl as your girlfriend even if they are not dating. nothing chase girls away more than that.