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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Youngpo413: 10:08am On Jun 07, 2016

rosieluv:

so sex is necessary for dose dat r sexually active,hmmmm

The guys i rejected r guys dah i avnt seen in my life bfor oooo,sm were evn havin sexual fantasies abt me,i clearly rejected dem n dey changed it for me. Y wud a guy prophesy love to someone he has neva seen bfor? y wud a guy sexually fantacize over a gal he has neva seen bfor? This tynz dznt hppn to ladies,i cn tlk for myslf tho

those are boys not guys......
No sane guy will fall for someone he hasn't seen, how can I have sexual fantasies about a lady I haven't touched to know how soft her ass is, that will be absurd you know...

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by rosieluv(f): 3:06pm On Jun 07, 2016

meisterkitan:

Big deal.. i graduated at 16

From one of the best secondary schools around

lols really? tell me more

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by rosieluv(f): 3:06pm On Jun 07, 2016

meisterkitan:

Big deal.. i graduated at 16

From one of the best secondary schools around

lols really? tell me more

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by MrImole: 4:15pm On Jun 07, 2016

Youngpo413:
those are boys not guys......
No sane guy will fall for someone he hasn't seen, how can I have sexual fantasies about a lady I haven't touched to know how soft her ass is, that will be absurd you know...

The fact that it hasn't happened to you does not mean it's not really happening. You can fall in love with someone you've not seen, in as much as you have seen her pictures and heard her voice.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by ucheokpara100(m): 6:24pm On Jun 07, 2016

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iLUMeN8(m): 6:25pm On Jun 07, 2016

Twaci:
1. What really is the right way to a guys heart?

2. Why are most guys scared of commitment?

1.
a lot of folks have pinned this to food which is a cliche if you ask me. truth is, there ain't no right way as a guy can fall madly in love with the most lousiest of girls regardless of the number of homely decent girls around him. usually most guys can't help the kinda girls they fall for.
2.
depends on the guys age, financial status, exposure and number of single/married friends he has. the younger a guy is the more precious his freedom. usually older men with a lot of married friends tend to commit a whole lot easier as their world can get really lonely at times.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iLUMeN8(m): 6:48pm On Jun 07, 2016

Ishilove:

Why are some guys such dicks?

Why is it so difficult for some to commit to a relationship?

Why do men find b00bs and ass so facinating?

Why are a lot of men polygamous? They just can't stick to one woman. I mean, puzzay is puzzay, right? What is the enjoyment in sticking yer jabulani into different holes. Women are anatomically identical down there so what's the enjoyment is dunking your junk into different puzzays which are more or less the same and must surely feel the same?

Let's start from there

1.
I think the answer is already in the question, you said some guys just like some girls can act like real bïtches. it is basic human nature.
2.
I guess most guys have this funny fantasy of living and exploring the world of girls before we eventually seal the deal. we don't wanna resent our partners after we are committed so it's best we actualize all the nasty shït we have seen in all the porn flicks we have been watching since we were 14.
3.
I don't think any guy can satisfactorily answer this. we are just amazed by them.
4.
it's not that we are polygamous, the problem is women are making it very difficult for us to remain faithful. we are all sexual beings so it ain't easy to see butt cheeks and cleavage almost every where ant not react. the more decently women dress the less cheating among us.
5.
puzzzzay ain't puzzzzay! trust me, they all feel and taste different.

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iLUMeN8(m): 7:03pm On Jun 07, 2016

Laveda:
1. Is it really right to open up to a guy that I have a crush on him?

2.Why do some guys lead girls on claiming they love her when they don't? Why not tell her from the beginning shít won't work?

3. Do guys really believe in true love?

1.
depends on the guy. if the guy is the extremely shy type, he is gon love you for it. however, if the said guy is popular with the ladies which is most likely the case I suggest you saliently make him aware of the possibility of being his girl. guys like that usually tend to be jerks though.
2.
it is rare for a guy to turn down advances from a girl cos the truth is we don't get many so we often date these girls for sex and the fun of it. no girl wants a virgin so when someone is offering to help us practice our stroke we don't refuse rather we do the opposite by telling her all the shït she wants to hear.
3.
I don't cos the truth is it doesn't exist.

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iLUMeN8(m): 7:22pm On Jun 07, 2016

safarigirl:
LOL....I think I already know too much, that's why nobody wants to near me

On the real though, why are guys so obsessed with boooobies and assss? I mean, they ignore brains more often than not and just want a girl that looks like Nicky.

2) why are guys hypocrites? They say they want a smart, independent woman, but they always end up with the dependent, not-so-smart woman

1.
we can't explain why we are in awe of them. funny but when a guy is checking a girl out its as if our dïcks and eyes are in unison at that moment as it gives us a funny-sweet sensation all over. I don't think anyone can satisfactorily answer this. we are just amazed by them!
3.
no sane guy wants a leech, we all dream of an intelligent, intellectually sound and independent girl the problem is most guys detest being emasculated which a lot of independent girls are guilty of doing to their men. there is a tad of narssism in every guy. dependent girls and bimbos tend to easily spot and appreciate that part of us. that's why it seems like we like them more.

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by DharmyYinks: 7:59pm On Jun 07, 2016

Laveda:
1. Is it really right to open up to a guy that I have a crush on him?

2.Why do some guys lead girls on claiming they love her when they don't? Why not tell her from the beginning shít won't work?

3. Do guys really believe in true love?

1. Depends on the type of guy. Most guys ego will flare up. Before you tell a guy you have a crush on him.. try to know if he likes you first!

b. Either he's a player or he's afraid to hurt her feelings

3. Most guys don't and very few believe innit

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iLUMeN8(m): 8:01pm On Jun 07, 2016

Twaci:
Another question:

Why are guys uncomfortable with success of a woman?

we are not. the problem is most successful women tend to let their success get to their heads and they start acting like men. more often than not most of these women are emotionally unavailable. men usually get uncomfortable around such women.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by DharmyYinks: 8:06pm On Jun 07, 2016

safarigirl:
LOL....I think I already know too much, that's why nobody wants to near me

On the real though, why are guys so obsessed with boooobies and assss? I mean, they ignore brains more often than not and just want a girl that looks like Nicky.

2) why are guys hypocrites? They say they want a smart, independent woman, but they always end up with the dependent, not-so-smart woman

1. Not all guys... personally I'll choose brains bfor other attributes nd too much back nd front.. turn off lipsrsealed

Guys naturally like to have upper hands... want to be able to provide, protect etc. An independent woman doesn't need all that... infact she keeps the guy on his toes nd due to the pressure nd inability to do some stuffs for her.. they opt for lesser targets.
Some guys are capable tho

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by meisterkitan(m): 8:36pm On Jun 07, 2016

Twaci:
Ola

Yea dearie grin

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by meisterkitan(m): 8:40pm On Jun 07, 2016

rosieluv:

lols really? tell me more

Is this supposed to b part of get to know guys question? sad

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by rosieluv(f): 8:56pm On Jun 07, 2016

meisterkitan:

Is this supposed to b part of get to know guys question?

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by iLUMeN8(m): 9:47pm On Jun 07, 2016

ogorwyne:
Okay for the guilty ones. Why will your girlfriend be so transparent to you and yet u still use security code on ur phones. Maka y?

a mobile phone is meant to be personal. women should learn to hold back at times. most guys don't fancy the idea of putting it all out on the table. personally, I'm of the opinion that a little mystery adds spark to a relationship.

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Emodeee: 12:02am On Jun 08, 2016

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Drknocks(m): 4:32pm On Jun 08, 2016

MrImole:

Can someone with not "too big dick" make it up for his girl using mouth action.
**************************************************
Good morning guys, how're you? I have been meaning to ask about this...
Guys, how do you cope with ladies that want mouth action in a situation where you don't like it?
How do you also compose yourself during sex, I mean when you are in cloud 9 because that's when girls have power to ake guys do their bidding, as for me I can't lie, I can do anything during sex, I can lick anything, how does one compose himself during such period.
Why do some girls don't like their vagina being licked? Why do girls scream during sex and mouth action, is it a reflex action? Can't they endure it like people endure pain? Is it all girls that scream during the exercise?
And lastly, what're the disadvantages of mouth action?
I'll appreciate a well detailed explanations as I plan to try this.

Firstly I'm quoting u Cos ur questions are kinda much.. I'd try to answer them to the best of my ability as knowledge is a continuum.

.question 1.Guys, how do you cope with ladies that want mouth action in a situation where you don't like it?
If u don't like it then don't do it! But nothing wrong in giving it a try at least once. Be sure she's neat, shaved (highly suggested), and any smell that's fishy, maladorous or not usual for u den slowly tell her u ain't interested and advice her to do a test. Usually I advice u tell her to take a bath before you go down .

How do you also compose yourself during sex, I mean when you are in cloud 9 because that's when girls have power to make guys do their bidding, as for me I can't lie, I can do anything during sex, I can lick anything, how does one compose himself during such period.

Hmmmmm, been there but honestly no one can force u to do a bidding u don't wanna do.. Say she asks u to kiss her after a bj.. Simply kiss her neck instead and change position.. Nothing medically wrong with it though. If that doesn't work.. Simply pull out (easier said than done)

Why do some girls don't like their vagina being licked? Why do girls scream during sex and mouth action, is it a reflex action? Can't they endure it like people endure pain? Is it all girls that scream during the exercise?
And lastly, what're the disadvantages of mouth action?

Numerous reasons, for some the idea is dirty! Others can't take the feeling, still others from experience hace had a guy bite them during the deed so once bitten twice shy although for the most part u can talk just any woman into giving it a try. Why ladies scream, I'd to point out at this point that not all ladies scream.. Varied vocal response are found among various women at different times to a large extent I'd say it's both reflex and psychosexual .. For trivias, the labia of a woman is formed from the same tissue that forms the scrotum in males and the clit same tissue as the male penis.

Disadvantages of mouth action.. Hpv (human papilloma virus has been linked with throat cancer and mouth action, hiv can be spread thru same as means although I chances are ready really slim. and finally oral candidiasis can be gotten from mouth actions and some other STI but if ur lady is clean... Why not if not!, I hope I have been able to answer your questions

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 5:20pm On Jun 08, 2016

Twaci:
1. What really is the right way to a guys heart?

2. Why are most guys scared of commitment?

For your first question, respect and loyalty, treat him like a king and he will never let his queen down, you must as well earn self respect while doing this else you loose your value as well.

For the second question, I am not scared of commitment so I wouldn't know.

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Nobody: 6:29am On Jun 09, 2016

IamLEGEND1:
make i Siddon begin dey jot stuff too.

I miss u already sad

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:16pm On Jun 09, 2016

Freakypinky:
May I know what you guys find amusing in asking for nudies.
I mean is it better than the real deal?

It boast your moral and partially determines if the lady is into you by way of compliance

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:19pm On Jun 09, 2016

Laveda:
1. Is it really right to open up to a guy that I have a crush on him?

2.Why do some guys lead girls on claiming they love her when they don't? Why not tell her from the beginning shít won't work?

3. Do guys really believe in true love?

1) I won't advice that, just keep giving him green lights and push him to approach you instead, no mater how obvious it becomes
3) Sure, guys believe in true love

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:27pm On Jun 09, 2016

safarigirl:
LOL....I think I already know too much, that's why nobody wants to near me

On the real though, why are guys so obsessed with boooobies and assss? I mean, they ignore brains more often than not and just want a girl that looks like Nicky.

2) why are guys hypocrites? They say they want a smart, independent woman, but they always end up with the dependent, not-so-smart woman

Thing is, every one wants what is good, in order of preference, guys want respectful women with other attributes as added advantage.
Now a guy meets a smart, independent woman and a dependent, not-so-smart woman, both are respectful but because the former is independent, she does not rely on the man for guidance and direction in maters that involves decision making in the home, she does things she feels are right whether its ok by the man or not; but the later woman depends on the man, consults him in decision making and does things that are pleasing to him. Tell me whom you would end up with if you were the man

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:32pm On Jun 09, 2016

Twaci:
Another question:

Why are guys uncomfortable with success of a woman?

Men has the nature of dominance, if a woman is more successful, she may tend to dominate the man without her knowing she's trying to dominate.
If you want to know whether a man is made to dominate or not, Imagine visiting you elder brother and you overheard his wife whom you are senior to rudely asking him to wash the plates used for dinner, how would you feel?

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:38pm On Jun 09, 2016

skarlett:
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What do African guys really think of anal sex?

Can they have period sex if bae requests it?

Erm..more questions loading[/size]

It's not bad, it all depends on what rocks your boat

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:43pm On Jun 09, 2016

Twaci:
Thanks for the answers guys.

Here's another one; why do guys term an opinionated girl, uncontrollable and uncouth?
Its either what they say, or nothing?

It's not always like that, but many guys have the nature of dominance. There is weak point to that for every guys trust me, that is submission, when you submit, you can humbly get him to do your bidding

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Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:47pm On Jun 09, 2016

refiner:
....oh!...I'm late!..

*walks hastily to the auditorium... picks up a mic!*

I've got a question to ask you guys!...

*....why do guys find it very difficult to leave you after sounding to him several times that you don't And will never love you!...

*....is it a crime for a guy to stay In a relationship without demanding for sex...is sex a prove that you truly love him?

cc jeffreyjamez
kingtom
naijaboiy
stfuareyoug0d......

Research has it that "MEN do not get over break ups", they only move ahead when it has finally seem that there is no light at the end of the tunnel.

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:49pm On Jun 09, 2016

ogorwyne:
1. Why will u get angry if I don't call in a day. Meanwhile have been asking you daily for the same thing and u use work as an excuse, then do it for sometime and then stop.

2. Also, for the jealous ones; you managed to call me today, u called 8 times and I didn't pick. Does it mean am in kinglekan 's room doing doggy?

3. In a gathering of three guys, one topic that must be discussed is babes. Why? (Some guys are exceptional though)

Guys wants to feel loved, just like children that likes affection

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 1:58pm On Jun 09, 2016

gifttracy:
1:Why do some guys always expect you to cook, clean, wash for them when your not even married yet

2:Who should spend more in a relationship

1. Things that cannot be done or discussed before marriage can hardly be done or discussed after marriage. If a lady spends a night in a man's house and the next morning cannot make the bed on which she slept, how do you expect her to make the bed she will sleep on after marriage.

2. Who ever has more should spend more na, relationship is about corporation. Both of you are almost one i.e before marriage and one after marriage

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Drknocks(m): 2:09pm On Jun 09, 2016

Viruses:

1. Things that cannot be done or discussed before marriage can hardly be done or discussed after marriage. If a lady spends a night in a man's house and the next morning cannot make the bed on which she slept, how do you expect her to make the bed she will sleep on after marriage.

2. Who ever has more should spend more na, relationship is about corporation. Both of you are almost one i.e before marriage and one after marriage

viruses u hv spoken well truth is many gals are guilty of ur instance in ur number 1 bullet.some guys wldnt mention it but sublimely it counts in the long run

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 2:26pm On Jun 09, 2016

adimloaded:
1) Why is it dat men dnt gv up easily on a lady wn she said No to dem?

2) why do men dnt aspect break up wn it comes fm a lady?

But wn dey said its over dey will expect de lady to move on n nver cm bk or even ask y but when its a lady dat said is over dey will ask f 100 reasons why she shld said dat.

I saw similar question above, research has it that "Men don't get over breakup", perhaps they see it as defeat that they should not conceal

Re: Know Us Better (Guys Edition) by Viruses: 2:30pm On Jun 09, 2016

arinolaa:
What do guys stand to gain by reading books like Art of Seduction? That ish is demonic.

I'm sure you read it hence you know it is demonic, men continually seek for knowledge, don't ask me what knowledge is used for. By the way, what's demonic about that book?

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