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She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 1:53pm On Jun 09, 2016
The new gal I'm seeing is not trying at all, she's pretty no doubt buh she managed to see some of the pics I and my ex took at the beach n swimming pool and several fun places we've been to
She has seen my ex is so very pretty and so she does things to demean her before me cos she heard me talk to her on fone the day she called me after a while of break up,
She keeps tellning me to take her to all the places I took my ex to, and when she talks she'll be like even ur ex gf dami is not even half as fine as me even though evryone I know has said dami is the finest gal I eva dated,even the day she heard a friend say dat dami s the most pretty gal I've dated she stopped greeting the guy, some times she say things like " don't think I'm dami ooo, I'm way different" as if she's in a competition wth her,
Okay now there was a time I gave my ex when we were still dating five dollar note for partnership in her church cos I hve a mallam at sabo yaba who sells it to me,cos I'm teaching her how to be rich towards God,
Since she got wind of that information,she has always used it against me and keep attacking this gal more,I'm not happy and I wish she cld jus understand that I wldn't want her insulting my ex dami everytime.
I try for my current gf, she makes her hair as at when due, I do her internet for her, I follow her for manicure and seat till they her done, i changed her fone for her when she needed another, I cuddle her often, I peck her often,and I don't starve sexually, so what on earth does she jus want , I'm gettn tired and the more she calls dami's name I fall in love wth my ex more!
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by queenoflafia(f): 1:55pm On Jun 09, 2016
Just go back to dammi
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by dewhaley: 1:56pm On Jun 09, 2016
Hmmm
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by ForeverYoung197(f): 2:03pm On Jun 09, 2016
Your present girl is damn insecured. If you can't solve your problem, we can't either.
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by histemple: 2:11pm On Jun 09, 2016
From your unspoken words, it is obvious you still love you ex more than your present girlfriend.
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by ErnieSmallzz(f): 2:12pm On Jun 09, 2016
Hmmmm this ur bae get problem ohuh Maybe she's just jealous of ur ex.

Op, i think u should sit her down and talk to her that you will never go bak to ur ex.



Maybe the reason y she keeps saying she is prettier than ur ex is because she thinks u myt leave her 4 ur ex 1day



so make her trust you smiley
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 3:46pm On Jun 09, 2016
histemple:
From your unspoken words, it is obvious you still love you ex more than your present girlfriend.
ehn ehn really,how do you know?
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 3:47pm On Jun 09, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
Hmmmm this ur bae get problem ohuh Maybe she's just jealous of ur ex.

Op, i think u should sit her down and talk to her that you will never go bak to ur ex.



Maybe the reason y she keeps saying she is prettier than ur ex is because she thinks u myt leave her 4 ur ex 1day



so make her trust you smiley
I don talk sotey spit don dry for my mouth!
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 3:48pm On Jun 09, 2016
queenoflafia:
Just go back to dammi
lipsrsealed
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by peter(m): 3:55pm On Jun 09, 2016
op...what have u been sayinghuh? undecidedop...what have u been sayinghuh?
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by histemple: 3:57pm On Jun 09, 2016
jonaifame22:
ehn ehn really,how do you know?
You confessed that she heard you talk to your ex when she called after breakup-------what she heard you say may be responsible for her apprehension.

When your friend remarked that your ex remains the most beautiful girl you have dated in her presence------and that is very demeaning you know? What did you say to make her feel comfortable.

Deep within you, you may still have a place for your ex
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 4:42pm On Jun 09, 2016
histemple:
You confessed that she heard you talk to your ex when she called after breakup-------what she heard you say may be responsible for her apprehension.

When your friend remarked that your ex remains the most beautiful girl you have dated in her presence------and that is very demeaning you know? What did you say to make her feel comfortable.

Deep within you, you may still have a place for your ex
well, I tel lher words to make her comfortable and I do things to make her happy,left for me that should matter and she shouldn't focus on what I and my ex discussed on fone,cos I feel it doesn't really matter
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 4:43pm On Jun 09, 2016
peter:
op...what have u been sayinghuh? undecidedop...what have u been sayinghuh?
I've been saying wat I've been saying
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by schumastic(m): 6:12pm On Jun 09, 2016
am sure you and your friends are saying things relating to your ex on purpose, which is why she gets upset...forget jealousy or insecurity because if the situation was to be the other way round, you won't like it either..if you have plans of going back to your ex then do so and if not, then make your relationship work out and forget your ex who must have moved on by now.
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 6:52pm On Jun 09, 2016
schumastic:
am sure you and your friends are saying things relating to your ex on purpose, which is why she gets upset...forget jealousy or insecurity because if the situation was to be the other way round, you won't like it either..if you have plans of going back to your ex then do so and if not, then make your relationship work out and forget your ex who must have moved on by now.
I'm not saying anything on purpose,I love my current gf and she knows it,it's jus that she listens to stuffs a lot frm my hommies
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by schumastic(m): 7:00pm On Jun 09, 2016
jonaifame22:
I'm not saying anything on purpose,I love my current gf and she knows it,it's jus that she listens to stuffs a lot frm my hommies
problem solved, tell your friends to stop saying stuffs about your ex in her presence
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 7:03pm On Jun 09, 2016
schumastic:
problem solved, tell your friends to stop saying stuffs about your ex in her presence
she likes to make them say things,not like they jus start saying! She goes on her search for informtions abt my past life as if she's a police
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by pedrilo: 7:48pm On Jun 09, 2016
see mugu! only u dey sub her monthly data, do her hair as and when due, follow her to do manicure and wait till she's done and fcck her! chai! for dis buhari era of economic disaster! guy u nor get sister or mama? abi ur babe na ss3 student? dis kind boys suppose disappear from earth because una dey make tins hard for we
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 7:53pm On Jun 09, 2016
pedrilo:
see mugu! only u dey sub her monthly data, do her hair as and when due, follow her to do manicure and wait till she's done and fcck her! chai! for dis buhari era of economic disaster! guy u nor get sister or mama? abi ur babe na ss3 student? dis kind boys suppose disappear from earth because una dey make tins hard for we
sorry bro, work hard,pay ur tithe,and there'll be more than enough blessings that'll bring money to take care of ur girlie if u have any or many!
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by pedrilo: 8:06pm On Jun 09, 2016
jonaifame22:
sorry bro, work hard,pay ur tithe,and there'll be more than enough blessings that'll bring money to take care of ur girlie if u have any or many!
fool i have better tins to do wit my money
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 8:14pm On Jun 09, 2016
pedrilo:
fool i have better tins to do wit my money
Aiit!
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jun 09, 2016
Your girl is simply insecure, it happens! but its left to you to tell her that you love the way she is and always compliment her looks.
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 8:18pm On Jun 09, 2016
Vickyydera:
Your girl is simply insecure, it happens! but its left to you to tell her that you love the way she is and always compliment her looks.
yea,thanks lemme start by comimenting you first, " u're pretty" thanks for the advice,
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by niyot124: 8:46pm On Jun 18, 2016
jonaifame22:
The new gal I'm seeing is not trying at all, she's pretty no doubt buh she managed to see some of the pics I and my ex took at the beach n swimming pool and several fun places we've been to
She has seen my ex is so very pretty and so she does things to demean her before me cos she heard me talk to her on fone the day she called me after a while of break up,
She keeps tellning me to take her to all the places I took my ex to, and when she talks she'll be like even ur ex gf dami is not even half as fine as me even though evryone I know has said dami is the finest gal I eva dated,even the day she heard a friend say dat dami s the most pretty gal I've dated she stopped greeting the guy, some times she say things like " don't think I'm dami ooo, I'm way different" as if she's in a competition wth her,
Okay now there was a time I gave my ex when we were still dating five dollar note for partnership in her church cos I hve a mallam at sabo yaba who sells it to me,cos I'm teaching her how to be rich towards God,
Since she got wind of that information,she has always used it against me and keep attacking this gal more,I'm not happy and I wish she cld jus understand that I wldn't want her insulting my ex dami everytime.
I try for my current gf, she makes her hair as at when due, I do her internet for her, I follow her for manicure and seat till they her done, i changed her fone for her when she needed another, I cuddle her often, I peck her often,and I don't starve sexually, so what on earth does she jus want , I'm gettn tired and the more she calls dami's name I fall in love wth my ex more!
I think it's obvious you still love your ex. Stop contacting your ex for a while so that she can get comfortable and less insecure. Do you think you can do that?

If your answer is NO,you are not over your ex and there is no point in being with your current gf.
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 10:22pm On Jun 18, 2016
niyot124:
I think it's obvious you still love your ex. Stop contacting your ex for a while so that she can get comfortable and less insecure. Do you think you can do that?

If your answer is NO,you are not over your ex and there is no point in being with your current gf.
u're right, I love my ex to shreds!
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by niyot124: 2:41pm On Jun 19, 2016
jonaifame22:
u're right, I love my ex to shreds!
Seriously with the answer you just gave, i don't think your relationship with this current gf of yours will last long cry
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 2:43pm On Jun 19, 2016
niyot124:
Seriously with the answer you just gave, i don't think your relationship with this current gf of yours will last long cry
it won't survive a week after I and my ex kiss our self again!
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jun 19, 2016
jonaifame22:
I'm not saying anything on purpose,I love my current gf and she knows it,it's jus that she listens to stuffs a lot frm my hommies
If ur hommies cannot respect ur gal in her presence then it simply mean u have belittle her in her absence. Make ur hommies understand they are causing trouble in ur relationship by talking about Dami in ur gals presence.
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by Nobody: 3:31pm On Jun 19, 2016
[quote author=niyot124 post=46719356]Seriously with the answer you just gave, i don't think your relationship with this current gf of yours will last long cry[/

Ur love your ex! So why are u disturbing NL. Ok the simple solution is go back to ur ex
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by jonaifame22(op): 4:37pm On Jun 19, 2016
lawrenzooo:
If ur hommies cannot respect ur gal in her presence then it simply mean u have belittle her in her absence. Make ur hommies understand they are causing trouble in ur relationship by talking about Dami in ur gals presence.
pls don't call my ex's name jus like that, I'll get offended, next time pls say miss Dami,not jus Dami
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by SurefireFashion: 4:44pm On Jun 19, 2016
The matter heavy for mouth
Re: She Keeps Comparing Herself And Abusing My Ex Everytime by niyot124: 8:39pm On Jun 19, 2016
jonaifame22:
it won't survive a week after I and my ex kiss our self again!
Mind if I ask why you broke up with your ex in the first place?


Just curious
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