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Why Do Most Women Do This? by ArinzeAlec(op): 9:32am On Jun 06, 2016

Most ladies are the architect of their misfortune.
You meet a nice guy, A really nice guy. You both seem to hit it off. He asks you out for a date, You oblige. Everything is going smooth. He invites you over, You both got frisky the intimate moments were bliss, Then you do it.
Afterwards, You download every problem you have to him from how Your mother is sick, Your younger brother needs to get an admission, Your rent is expired, You need to change your hair and the host of other 'needs' that manifests in a twinkle.
THAT IS SO UGLY!, A Very ugly character. I have a friend who does this. She meets a new guy and almost immediately, her financial needs finds it way of popping up. The relationships never last. She ends up complaining about how men are unserious. What does she expect really?
You do not put money upfront in a new relationship. It's a red flag for anyone who wants to take you serious.
Simply enjoy the moments and the joy of a new relationship. Bask in emotions that is budding at the moment.
There are good men out there. You ask yourself why your relationships do not last and wonder if the winches in your village is either using your picture for DP or something. Just check within. An ugly character is an ugly one. Good men exist. Don't buy into the stereotype of 'good men being extinct'
Sometimes, all you have to do is Slow Down.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by ikbnice(m): 9:40am On Jun 06, 2016

some girls should just mould their own dream man, the man of theirs they will milk till eternity that won't feel it. They are insatiable.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by ArinzeAlec(op): 10:16am On Jun 06, 2016

ikbnice:
some girls should just mould their own dream man, the man of theirs they will milk till eternity that won't feel it. They are insatiable.

Ladies like that dont get me tied down with sh*ts. I move on like its a Right.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by ikbnice(m): 10:21am On Jun 06, 2016

ArinzeAlec:
Ladies like that dont get me tied down with sh*ts. I move on like its a Right.

sure, they are use and dump materials.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by David25(m): 10:45am On Jun 06, 2016

ikbnice:
sure, they are use and dump materials.

Tho that kind of stuff can be annoying. But if she is a lady you truly love and loves you back truly, her problems will become yours and vice versa and together, you two will find a way to make things workout. Unless she wants all the problem to be yours alone. Then in that case, walk away.. unless again, you have the strength to carry her burdens.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Spicycat(f): 11:04am On Jun 06, 2016

Well all i can say is that "I have the puss.y i make the rules"

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Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by 3rdlegxxx(m): 2:53am On Jun 09, 2016

Spicycat:
Well all i can say is that "I have the puss.y i make the rules"

That goes both ways dear, what matters most is whose better @ smashing, d guy with d 3rdleg tool or d lady wif d P... trust me blabbin and making mouths are boring, experience speaks 4 itself, wish we met off Nland tho, online community has everyone looking @ everyone funny, people feeln fly and forming what they are not, guys messing up n more.... nice name tho wonder what led to it

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Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Spicycat(f): 10:34am On Jun 11, 2016

Sunnypar:
Digits please.

What "in English please"

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Flashh: 10:48am On Jun 11, 2016

Spicycat:
Well all i can say is that "I have the puss.y i make the rules"

[color=#000033]Now proven. The reason why they said you people have nothing to offer men apart from sexuality.

Just take a look at yourself.[/color]

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Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Spicycat(f): 10:53am On Jun 11, 2016

Flashh:
[color=#000033]Now proven. The reason why they said you people have nothing to offer men apart from sexuality.

Just take a look at yourself.[/color]

Anybody that denigrate women to sex object really lacks proper home training from his mum, and about looking at my self, i do that everyday okay dude.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by falconey(m): 10:57am On Jun 11, 2016

Spicycat:
Well all i can say is that "I have the puss.y i make the rules"

wow I love this statement. that's a fact all should digest.

I don't complain because I know how it works.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by falconey(m): 11:03am On Jun 11, 2016

Flashh:
[color=#000033]Now proven. The reason why they said you people have nothing to offer men apart from sexuality.

Just take a look at yourself.[/color]

I know why you condemned her remark, I wanted to but disregard. I saw something most guys whom read her statement would ignore.

I saw a lady that posted what most wouldn't about what they think about courtship/relationship. be frank how many would post that? she is being honest,bold and blunt.

what we should be doing is encouraging them to tell us more and counter it,use it against them to get what we want. most ladies here will probably bash her because she just told us one of their hidden thought.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Flashh: 11:08am On Jun 11, 2016*

Spicycat:
Anybody that denigrate women to sex object really lacks proper home training from his mum, and about looking at my self, i do that everyday okay dude.

[color=#000033]Nobody wants to turn you to sex object, you decided to be, because you have a brain and should able to make use of it.

When you see man who is ready to spends on you, no matter how little it is, you loss your senses (no offense meant).

A man who has it in mind and knows the easiest way to get you laid is to flaunt money at your face, because he knew when your gender sees money, you loose your dignity with ease.

Don't let anybody deceive you by saying men turns you to "sex object". You're the one who let yourself to be, it depends on how you tender yourself to him.

Btw, don't try to tell me you're also one of the dummies who keeps ranting "men turns you to sex object". [/color]

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Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Flashh: 11:16am On Jun 11, 2016

falconey:
I know why you condemned her remark, I wanted to but disregard. I saw something most guys whom read her statement would ignore.

I saw a lady that posted what most wouldn't about what they think about courtship/relationship. be frank how many would post that? she is being honest,bold and blunt.

what we should be doing is encouraging them to tell us more and counter it,use it against them to get what we want. most ladies here will probably bash her because she just told us one of their hidden thought.

[color=#000033]Sorry to say man. Your reply isn't it at all.[/color]

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by falconey(m): 11:20am On Jun 11, 2016

Flashh:
[color=#000033]Sorry to say man. Your reply isn't it at all.[/color]

ok ........continue criticising ladies that post a fact .

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Flashh: 11:23am On Jun 11, 2016

falconey:
ok ........continue criticising ladies that post a fact .

[color=#000033]You called that criticism? Definitely, everybody arguing are criticising themselves.

Phew! Some guys mehn![/color]

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by falconey(m): 11:29am On Jun 11, 2016

Flashh:
[color=#000033]You called that criticism? Definitely, everybody arguing are criticising themselves.

Phew! Some guys mehn![/color]

oh! it is a laud

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by Flashh: 11:34am On Jun 11, 2016

falconey:
oh! it is a laud

[color=#000033]When you see a sissy you will notice with his replies.[/color]

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by falconey(m): 11:35am On Jun 11, 2016

Flashh:
[color=#000033]When you see a sissy you will notice with his replies.[/color]

lwkm .......alright move to the next.

Re: Why Do Most Women Do This? by baranzy(m): 12:14pm On Jun 11, 2016

True talk bro....sometimes I wonder no be the same reason man dey go skool no be samething woman dey go skool for.....the money demanding issue is getting out of hand...our ladies no longer get diginty at all.....since anything wey hold money na wetin dem desire...dear guys I dont blame ladies sha once u hv the money to give her help her out but chop the toto wella and move on......cuz uve paid for the services rendered....those type aint worth keeping bro....

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