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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by 124mumsy: 3:09pm On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:


Bros you no lie o0o!! And to think that almost all the guys that are commenting are actually hailing this mumu, is quite appalling!
another Romeo spoted!
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by dikeigbo2(m): 3:10pm On Jun 16, 2016
AoM3b:


what are you typing? Did he tell the girl that he was paying for any of them?


Even kindergartens can understand this wella,....there is no way you will pay for your guest's bills and leave the bill of whom he or she came with.....its never done bro

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by topeorekoy(m): 3:11pm On Jun 16, 2016
dikeigbo2:

Even kindergartens can understand this wella,....there is no way you will pay for your guest's bills and leave the bill of whom he or she came with.....its never done bro

So if she pack all her village people come, you will pay for them all and trek go home?

Do you know how much the guy hold for pocket?

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jun 16, 2016
Julietcutie:
grin the guy tho lol ...but he would have told the gal not to bring her friends along when she told him she would be coming with friends... he didn't act right

You wrong honey
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by freekick: 3:21pm On Jun 16, 2016
I wonder o
topeorekoy:


So if she pack all her village people come, you will pay for them all and trek go home?

Do you know how much the guy hold for pocket?
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by fF01(m): 3:30pm On Jun 16, 2016
this thread is fuckiing hilarious! bur really girls be crazy!!
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by kikayboss(m): 3:32pm On Jun 16, 2016
Ezeego1:
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The guy think say him be sharp guy but in all honesty that nigga is not a real man. You gave her a go-ahead to invite her two friends when you know you can't even act like a gentleman and foot their bills just for that day only grin grin

Sometimes ladies dey suffer i swear cheesy

when ladies begin to behave honourably they'll get some respect from guys....you hardly see a female that'll happily sponsor a date...but when a guy asks you out they bring their family and friends.

guys are not money bags..we gat things to take care of.....GOD forbid i make myself uncomfortable for a woman if she ain't my mama or sister...

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Riichyy(m): 3:44pm On Jun 16, 2016
The guy acted wisely, by understanding the economy of his pockets.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by lovingyouhun: 4:02pm On Jun 16, 2016
I don't know why people don't like good things, how can someone say the guy isn't man enough because he refused to buy those tickets? That girl is just a spoilt Brat!!! In this Hard times? It's obvious the guy is working hard for his money so people like that spend wisely, for crying out loud seed of tomatoes is 1000#, she shouldn't worry, shey na mugu she set sort for to pay her friends bill lol I'm happy the boy isn't one, na how to buy land dey emmm mind just 3k indeed, she will soon join the league of thosebdoing fasting and prayer to get a husband even if she is to pay for the wedding, Agbaya girl, if I meet such a girl with this Nigeria economy one date and one Bleep then I'm done!!! By the way I'm not a guy........... I for like dash that girl slap, you want a guy who will always pay, I sure say she fine small else with this emm character of minusing from guys she for don turn lesbykoko... Lol
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by valkaka(m): 4:06pm On Jun 16, 2016
[quote author=OlujobaSamuel post=46622675]seems some people don't read before commenting.
I see the guy as an irresponsible dude, he was informed before the lady even decide coming along with her friends, yet the ediot accepted the offer, and we have girls here insulting the lady and some guys like the dude praising him.
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I literally concur to your remarks. The guy in question is totally lame and irresponsible.. He should have objected to his date coming along with her friends in the Primus place. You accepted the third party and you couldn't even afford the ticket for the so-called third party and the pillocks in here are even supporting him. It's high time most hombres on this platform halt using predetermined mindset in judging matters.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Smeeky(m): 4:10pm On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:
Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Oya Bashiru!!! Ngwanu, coman bash me!! I dey wait!! I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised tongue)

I knew it!!!! I talk am!!!! Bashirus never fail to disappoint! cheesy cheesy 23 BASHING mentions in just 20 mins!!! Gush!!! Guys dey Para o0o!! (Mumu guys I mean)

Buh some guys can be so foolish just to bring cover their shame o0oo!! So cos she didn't say "can my friends come with me and you'll pay for their tickets" now means he's exonerated from any allegations??!! C'mon fellas!

Olamide came on stage and was hitting on the organisers of a particular event. He never mentioned Don Jazzy buh we all knew (including The Don himself) that he was referring to Don baba Jay! Why??!! It's an IMPLIED STATEMENT kiddos!!

She needn't mention the paying of tickets part to the boy na.... since he agreed that she bring her friends along, then he should know what that implies!!

"Honey, my friends wants to JOIN US in seeing the movie, are you comfortable with that?" Guys make una sef give unasef some level of respect na....If she wasn't matured enough to tell her friends NO, he should be matured enough to do that!!
In Psquare voice "no start watin you no go finish, I no be George Finidi, oh oh!!" cheesy cheesy grin grin grin cheesy cheesy
Dude, though your profile says M(ale)...but you type like a girl
Really girlie undecided
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by valkaka(m): 4:11pm On Jun 16, 2016
There is nothing incoherently wrong with a girl inviting he friends on her first date.. It's up to the dude to accept or reject cos you are still the man as long as she asked for a permission before doing so. I can only chastise her for saying just 3k, rather than that she did absolutely nothing wrong.. The dude is just not man enough to know what he wants period. Let's halt using predetermined mindset in judging matters..its quite lame.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Julietcutie(f): 4:28pm On Jun 16, 2016
ok u guys saying d gal was also wrong for not specify that the dude would foot her friends bills... fine! d guy would have jus saved her d embarrassment and jus pay... d guy would be seen as a selfish and incompetent guy by d girl's friends...so let's jus say both parties are wrong
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by teechudleyy(f): 4:31pm On Jun 16, 2016
you people are dull. So dull u cant see whats happening. It took kofo just 9 tweets to trend. Her posts are calculated. And she has trended for up to 4 times. And u think ur opinions matter. Shes social media savvy, and when she trends its for business.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by ericmor: 4:37pm On Jun 16, 2016
what i think about the guy's act is that, why invite friends on a first date? u should have get to know him better first before involving friends. girls and free things sha
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by mayorkyzo: 4:53pm On Jun 16, 2016
ICEFLAME419ja:


I'll add 4 bottles of origin
you too much...what made me mad,the girl was saying 'common 3k'...the girl fada wewe...
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by 2kurupt(m): 4:56pm On Jun 16, 2016
clogogo:


I wish the didn't inform him of her friends that would have be a thumbs up , but I guess he was to broke to pain for her friends ... Some guys self no get money but wan get babe... Just imagine First day ..I can't go on a first date and not hold excess incase.. " That guy is a broke Dude

How does the gal showing up with her bandwagon on a FIRST date sound to you? So what happens after she repeats the same thing on the second, third & fourth dates?? I guess you'll keep on "holding excess" abi.

So he's having a better plan and use of his finances automatically makes him a broke dude?
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by anigold(m): 5:02pm On Jun 16, 2016
mayorkyzo:
Correct guy...
Somebody shud pls give the guy 6bottles of heineken...
the same rubbish happened to me, i dont know whats wrong with some of our ladies, i planned taking a lady on a date and she came with 6 of her friends.. Though i paid for their meal and fare, i warned her not to ever try that rubbish again.. Economy is tough now,these ladies need to understand that money does not grow on trees...

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by anigold(m): 5:11pm On Jun 16, 2016
Julietcutie:
grin the guy tho lol ...but he would have told the gal not to bring her friends along when she told him she would be coming with friends... he didn't act right
am not saying the guy is completey right but some ladies are just plain foolish, u are going on a date with a guy in an open place and u park all your friends just to go and milk the guy dry financially mean while the guy is not your husband...

How will u feel if a guy invited u to spend a night with him just him, then u ended up being f*cked by 6 guys all through the night will u be happy...

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by dikeigbo2(m): 5:15pm On Jun 16, 2016
topeorekoy:


So if she pack all her village people come, you will pay for them all and trek go home?

Do you know how much the guy hold for pocket?


But she told that two of her friends will be coming with her and he said no problem, only to act otherwise..... That's where he failed it.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by opomulero(m): 5:17pm On Jun 16, 2016
Well I think the lady acted wrong initially, but my guy too should av told her that it's there first date since he's seen that the lady can't think rationally about "first date"..... hmmm but d lady Na on kind person sha.... she thinks d guy na maga
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Odunharry(m): 5:20pm On Jun 16, 2016
mayorkyzo:
Correct guy...
Somebody shud pls give the guy 6bottles of heineken...
Confirm nigga.. imagine the rubbish attitude.
if na me b the guy all of them go pay for their ticket including the gal I invited.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Odunharry(m): 5:27pm On Jun 16, 2016
ganaziah:


No one will bash you, it's just simple logic. The gurl told her bf she'll be coming with her friends, she didn't tell the guy he will also pay for her friend's tickets. Anyone can simply respond by telling her to bring them along, it's a date between two people for heaven's sake and not with friends.
That's been real, instead of acting like a gentleman without the gesture coming from your mind. That's being fake.
Your head get oil well well.. kudos.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Ebigbola(f): 5:35pm On Jun 16, 2016
Lets call a spade a spade what she did was wrong.it was a first date for crying out loud.the both of them get to know themselves better. she would Ve save herself de EBA n Rice ment.*my opinion dou*
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Obas101(m): 5:46pm On Jun 16, 2016
Feranchek:
Lol. I know guys will enjoy this story. Buh I think the guy in this story is quite a jerk!! For heaven's sake she mentioned that she'll be coming with her 2 friends, and the pomo gut Said YES! Since you know you weren't financially buoyant to cater for all of them, why agree to let her come with her friends? I'm sure she'd have still come if you told her not to come with her friends. Let's be unsentimental and say the truth biko. The level of immaturity in some guys in quite annoying


(Oya Bashirus!!! Ngwanu, coman bash me!! I dey wait!! I know Y'all! So I won't be surprised tongue)

I knew it!!!! I talk am!!!! Bashirus never fail to disappoint! cheesy cheesy 23 BASHING mentions in just 20 mins!!! Gush!!! Guys dey Para o0o!! (Mumu guys I mean)

Buh some guys can be so foolish just to bring cover their shame o0oo!! So cos she didn't say "can my friends come with me and you'll pay for their tickets" now means he's exonerated from any allegations??!! C'mon fellas!

Olamide came on stage and was hitting on the organisers of a particular event. He never mentioned Don Jazzy buh we all knew (including The Don himself) that he was referring to Don baba Jay! Why??!! It's an IMPLIED STATEMENT kiddos!!

She needn't mention the paying of tickets part to the boy na.... since he agreed that she bring her friends along, then he should know what that implies!!

"Honey, my friends wants to JOIN US in seeing the movie, are you comfortable with that?" Guys make una sef give unasef some level of respect na....If she wasn't matured enough to tell her friends NO, he should be matured enough to do that!!
In Psquare voice "no start watin you no go finish, I no be George Finidi, oh oh!!" cheesy cheesy grin grin grin cheesy cheesy

undecided U sure you are not a girl.. Just asking
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Electroweb(m): 5:53pm On Jun 16, 2016
FlirtyKaren:

tweets from very bottom to top:

Smh! "Its the gesture that matters not the money" but money will be spent. You are ranting because the guy did not foot the bill of the parasites that came along with you. Look up the definition of parasitism.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Antina(f): 6:00pm On Jun 16, 2016
Serves her right. Why dem no carry money for hand. If I go on a date with a man, I don't eat more than I can afford to pay for.

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Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Antina(f): 6:06pm On Jun 16, 2016
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anigold:

am not saying the guy is completey right but some ladies are just plain foolish, u are going on a date with a guy in an open place and u park all your friends just to go and milk the guy dry financially mean while the guy is not your husband...

How will u feel if a guy invited u to spend a night with him just him, then u ended up being f*cked by 6 guys all through the night will u be happy...
[b]
anigold:

am not saying the guy is completey right but some ladies are just plain foolish, u are going on a date with a guy in an open place and u park all your friends just to go and milk the guy dry financially mean while the guy is not your husband...

How will u feel if a guy invited u to spend a night with him just him, then u ended up being f*cked by 6 guys all through the night will u be happy...
anigold:

am not saying the guy is completey right but some ladies are just plain foolish, u are going on a date with a guy in an open place and u park all your friends just to go and milk the guy dry financially mean while the guy is not your husband...

How will u feel if a guy invited u to spend a night with him just him, then u ended up being f*cked by 6 guys all through the night will u be happy...

Let them answer the last paragraph.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by mayskit4luv(m): 6:10pm On Jun 16, 2016
Meanwhile getting a hoe z not so cost last tym I checked. D gurl b forming how much be 3k.... Omo ale jati jati, why is she ranting after all. Sharp dude, God bless u for ur parents.... you will go out and return home safely.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by Aroh48(m): 6:13pm On Jun 16, 2016
I love this guy
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by emiye(m): 6:14pm On Jun 16, 2016
mamachizzy:
Am a lady, but I support that guy. Did the guy ask to go on a date with the gal, or with her friends; Ladies need to stop this nonsense. A guy asks u out, and u want to go with ur entire kindred just to see if he will impress u, does that sound normal
Beside since the money was "just 3k", why is she complaining. While u are busy thinking he needs to impress u, u forget that u also need to impress him . Bringing all ur gal frnds along for a date with a guy, says a lot about u as a lady!!!!!
The part in bold is what many girls curiously fail to understand. That a guy shows interest in you to invite you on a date does not mean he is not eager to see your good qualities beyond physical.
Re: Guy Refuses To Pay For Friends Invited To Their Date By His Female Friend by sevantex(m): 6:15pm On Jun 16, 2016
" My friends are coming along o, u got extra cash on u?"
This wulda been a subtle way to let the guy knw wassup and if he doesnt, bros wuld say, i only have plans for both of us only oo.

This wulda saved her the so called embarassment instead of packing her friends and using the overated "gentlemen" to box the guy into paying.

Na this tight buhari government, person go do family and friends ontop date?

I blame buhari also sha
grin"

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