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good evening,pls I need ur advice on dis relationship of mine,we have dating for d past 3 yrs,I have a good job at least that is enough to sustain a family, in earlier April of dis month my girl has bn behaving somehow I mean picking calls and not responding well,and saying some kind of junk word I don't ilke to hear,I still continue with her till d first week of dis month dat she called me to inform me dat she is not interested in d relationship again that we could only b frds,in which I beg her to tell me y and wat I have done ,yet she could not hold one thing to b specific.after den I moved on with my life I cut the communication link between us, but to my greatest surprise she called me tonight now,telling me she is sorry ,that she has missed me a lot and she want me bk,now am scared cos she might have another ulterior motive for coming bk,pls house wat should I do In dis case

I thought you said that you have moved on? So what else do you need.

Brother!!!
Run for your life...
You are lacking something she saw elsewhere...
To her surprise,you are better off the new guy...

She is not contempted...

Follow what your heart told you the day you vow to forget her and not what you eyes is seeing currently

U ave to fathom the reason yo estranged gf left u b4 she thinks of coming back again (dats if u still going back in2 dat relationship) Other wise, run 4 yo dear life b/c she can still dumb yo ass for dat same reason...

Prolly, I'd advice u to move on.

My 2cent!! #peaceOut

Kudos9ja:
U ave to fathom the reason yo estranged gf left u b4 she thinks of coming back again (dats if u still going back in2 dat relationship) Other wise, run 4 yo dear life b/c she can still dumb yo ass for dat same reason...

Prolly, I'd advice u to move on.

My 2cent!! #peaceOut

Truth

forward ever, backward never

Girard ever backward neve

adeborode:
good evening,pls I need ur advice on dis relationship of mine,we have dating for d past 3 yrs,I have a good job at least that is enough to sustain a family, in earlier April of dis month my girl has bn behaving somehow I mean picking calls and not responding well,and saying some kind of junk word I don't ilke to hear,I still continue with her till d first week of dis month dat she called me to inform me dat she is not interested in d relationship again that we could only b frds,in which I beg her to tell me y and wat I have done ,yet she could not hold one thing to b specific.after den I moved on with my life I cut the communication link between us, but to my greatest surprise she called me tonight now,telling me she is sorry ,that she has missed me a lot and she want me bk,now am scared cos she might have another ulterior motive for coming bk,pls house wat should I do In dis case

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sorry to say op but if you go back to her then you might as wel cut of those two stuffs in between your legs..do you need a soothsayer to tell you that, the period she left you was to play away n she ended up being a side chick, now she wants to come back to you(good boyfriend)..better wisen up n the last time i checked girls are twice if no three times the population of guys..what are you scared of, you don't know how to break up or how to let go n move on?

Hmmmm

My brother the girl in question was not dating only you, she had another guy who she needed more than you, that is why she acted the way she did. Now the guy disappointed her and she on her own ended your relationship with her. She became lonely and decided to get back with you. The ball is in your court, you need to decide what you want for yourself.

adeborode:
good evening,pls I need ur advice on dis relationship of mine,we have dating for d past 3 yrs,I have a good job at least that is enough to sustain a family, in earlier April of dis month my girl has bn behaving somehow I mean picking calls and not responding well,and saying some kind of junk word I don't ilke to hear,I still continue with her till d first week of dis month dat she called me to inform me dat she is not interested in d relationship again that we could only b frds,after den I moved on with my life I cut the communication link between us, but to my greatest surprise she called me tonight now,telling me she is sorry,pls house wat should I do In dis case

My parlie accepting her back without prior and sound investigation will be one of the most avoidable mistakes you will make in your lifetime, i'm not saying ynu should not accept her back but please do some findings before making any rash decision, so as to be on the saver side.
my 2cent.

adeborode:
good eve...

Man If I hear say you go back to that girl, I'l Label you the biggest Fuul of our Time! Let me tell you the truth, she is seeing some one who promised her what he hasn't fulfilled! You are the back up plan and dats why she friend zoned you with your permission! But you being a Bold Guy quickly cut communication lines of which has kept her in the dark with only one option of which she wount like. Especially as you have refused to be her door mat. She is only in confussion. According to her: you are not her Ideal man. And you are just an option or a plan B should incase the other guy forkup. Dat guy dat made her fork u up is who her mind truly is with. So pls if you can just be good to your self. SHUT THE DOORS TO HER AND SWALLOW THE KEYS. Most girls are like dat. I encounterd similar stuff some years back I dealt with it in way she will never forget all her life. Say No To Mumu button.

Guy Meanwhile Take More Bottles of Orijin lets celebrate your freedom from ToTo Powers.