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Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 2:22pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
mayb dat wat m gonna end up doing , i can be flexible buh y wud he quit cos of romance , does he love me atol sef?
damn!,u are so dumb i feel like smacking u on the head.how u be this confused,u think becuz he wants to quit u becuz of no romance he doesnt love u.infact u are d one dat doesnt love him you agreed no sex he agreed,nw u are saying no romance do u think he is foolish,u shuld ave told him no sex no romance from the start.i guess u were born on the nineties shit!
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 2:23pm On Jun 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
Op just ask ur bf to tell u something dat u dont kno

Like where d hell did his heart go
embarassed
wat are u saying

Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by alobright17(m): 2:31pm On Jun 23, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
wink
Where have u been?
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
u cnt av a no sex relationship , fine ! Buh u can actually let go of d person u luv cos of sex?
No, I won't.

It has happened to me before, where I fell in love afterwards she said she wants a continue as a no-sex relationship. At that time, it was too late i had already started having feelings for her. So i had to continue.




but oneday somehow, i found myself cheating on her because a girl was pressurizing me with sex offer. So now we are back to square one.

I always feel guilty anytime she comes around, because she does so much for me that sex couldn't account for. But then its not that easy keeping up with such a relationship.
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Mille: 2:40pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
u cnt av a no sex relationship , fine ! Buh u can actually let go of d person u luv cos of sex?
I have done so.

It's better to let her go than keep her and let her suffer emotional trauma because men will always be men (If we ain't getting it from you, we will definitely get it somewhere else). LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH TO KEEP A RELATIONSHIP. Or have you wondered why people who got married and swore to be with each other suddenly become worst enemies who don't mind killing each other?
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by halfricanadian(f): 2:56pm On Jun 23, 2016
gbens2000:
wat are u saying
Huh
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 2:57pm On Jun 23, 2016
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by halfricanadian(f):
gbens2000:
huh? undecided
Dat pix aint neccessary na i'm sorry kiss kiss
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 23, 2016
exporters101:
goan date yourself or better still don't have relationship with any guy
na fyt?
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
I sed no to sex , he agreed , nw m saying no to romance nd he wanna quit , wat shud i do , m rily confuse...
just one thing I'd like to know....




Are u getting it elsewherehuh And pls say the truth cos I hate liars....
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:03pm On Jun 23, 2016
gbens2000:
damn!,u are so dumb i feel like smacking u on the head.how u be this confused,u think becuz he wants to quit u becuz of no romance he doesnt love u.infact u are d one dat doesnt love him you agreed no sex he agreed,nw u are saying no romance do u think he is foolish,u shuld ave told him no sex no romance from the start.i guess u were born on the nineties shit!
come on i tld im both togeda
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by exporters101: 3:04pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
na fyt?
na advise
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jun 23, 2016
BlueEyeBalls:
just one thing I'd like to know....




Are u getting it elsewherehuh And pls say the truth cos I hate liars....
no aint getting it else wre
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jun 23, 2016
exporters101:
na advise
lol
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
no aint getting it else wre



ok, I believe u.





But why won't u let him cuddle and do other stuff with u except sexhuh Or u scared u might get too excited during the romance and loose controlhuh U got to let something happen.... At least once in a while.

The "no sex" and "no romance" sounds somehow, tell me.... ARE U A LOG OF WOODhuh
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Ab025(m): 3:16pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
lol , wen e dey single nko he no get pull over?
Ur own luv is wicked o!
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:25pm On Jun 23, 2016
BlueEyeBalls:
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[i]ok, I believe u.





But why won't u let him cuddle and do other stuff with u except sexhuh Or u scared u might get too excited during the romance and loose controlhuh U got to let something happen.... At least once in a while.

The "no sex" and "no romance" sounds somehow, tell me.... ARE U A LOG OF WOODhuh
wat m i even saying sef , he wants partial sex , dick insyd pussy buh nt penetrating , isnt dat nonense wen i dnt want sex .. Wre dere re oda hot romances dat cud elp im feel good , guess ama opt awt
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jun 23, 2016
But you do receive cash from him shey? Its a money involvement relationship undecided
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by exporters101: 3:33pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
lol
why you laughing?
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 3:37pm On Jun 23, 2016
nikkyharry:
come on i tld im both togeda
okay u are just mentioning dat.but hw is dat even possible.unless u want a long distance relationship.or urather just stay single
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 3:41pm On Jun 23, 2016
[quote author=halfricanadian post=46854358]Dat pix aint neccessary na i'm sorry kiss kiss[/quotebut that was really my face wen i read ur mention.so u are half african and half wat?
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by adedammy007(m): 3:57pm On Jun 23, 2016
I tink d op is trying to friend zone her bf....agreed to d no sex part now additional salt to injury. u can't even kiss him,dats bad,d guy will later lose if u dump his ass
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by halfricanadian(f): 3:59pm On Jun 23, 2016
[quote author=gbens2000 post=46855740][/quote]Its ok
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by DonnaCorleone(f): 4:04pm On Jun 23, 2016
Then he becomes just a friend or a brother. Aint nobody have time for that.

You should have stated all your rules & expectations from the get go.
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by firstking01(m): 4:27pm On Jun 23, 2016
In as much as i'm against premarital sex, it should also be noted that relationship it's a give and take thing, nobody wanna bet @ the losing end...nickyharry, your bf is acting the way he's acting because you make him seem like he's the only one giving in the relationship, i'm sure you make demands from him, and he gives you which is the more reason why your finding it hard to let him go...my dear, if you knw you ve got nothing to offer in a relationship, pls dnt dample into one cos you must be sacrificing something
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 4:29pm On Jun 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
Its ok
yeah we good wink
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by halfricanadian(f): 4:32pm On Jun 23, 2016
gbens2000:
yeah we good wink
Yup mama iz good
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by Sprintson(m): 4:43pm On Jun 23, 2016
If your reason is coz of spirituality then I am fully in support of it but whichever way you have all the rights to what you want in a relationship same as him too and these rights can either go well with your spouse or not; in other words expect an equal or opposite rxn from your guy.
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 4:56pm On Jun 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
Yup mama iz good
ehn?phew u could be hard to understand atimes. undecided. its all good i wuld play along wink
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by halfricanadian(f): 4:58pm On Jun 23, 2016
gbens2000:
ehn?phew u could be hard to understand atimes. undecided. its all good i wuld play along wink
Its hard for u to understand me na

Cos u getting more heads dan shampoos
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by halfricanadian(f): 4:58pm On Jun 23, 2016
gbens2000:
ehn?phew u could be hard to understand atimes. undecided. its all good i wuld play along wink
Its hard for u to understand me na

Cos u getting more heads dan shampoos

Pls av more brains dan iQ ok tongue no insult
Re: Urgent:my Relationship Is At Stake , I Need Ur Advise by gbens2000(m): 5:24pm On Jun 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
Its hard for u to understand me na

Cos u getting more heads dan shampoos

Pls av more brains dan iQ ok tongue no insult
loz,even if its an insult.i cant do nada abt it cuz i dont indulge in e-wars.
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