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Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by EDonHappen(op):
Hello everyone, I have been lurking on this site for long as a guest, I decided to register today because of an issue I want to get an advice on.
I was opportuned to meet a guy, he asked me out but I refused to date him and he later went for my friend and my friend accepted his request and the began dating, I was not jealous about this though, their love was so so strong and it has been like this for the past 4-5 months now, my friend visits his boyfriend(the boyfriend here is the guy that asked me out and I refused) in his house and spend the nights there most of the time(I am sure they would have been doing things together), but sometimes the guy will come over to our apartment to sleep, I and my friend stay in a one room apartment with a big bed and a small bed in it, whenever they come, me and the guy will sleep on the big bed and my friend will sleep on the small bed very adjacent to his boyfriend. I normally sleep with my wrapper on me anytime he is around.

Then something strange happened on a night the guy came to sleep in our apartment and we had the normal sleeping routine, then all of a sudden I started feeling my wrapper was leaving my body and i was feeling some touches around my body most especially my breast and buttocks, i was so devastated as this was coming from the guy and I kept mute and pretended as if I was sleeping and this kept going on, anytime I shift on the bed, the guy will reposition himself and pretended as if he was sleeping and nothing happened. I let that to pass for the night. The another night he came visiting and the same thing happened, I felt so bad and wanted to tell my friend who happen to be his girlfriend but I feel if I should tell her, it might lead to their breakup which I don’t want because these guys are madly in love with each other, you can tell from the way they behave. Another option I am thinking is to tell the guy myself and try to warn him that if he tries it again I will embarrass him.
Should I tell my friend knowing fully well this might lead to their breakup or warn the guy myself?

Nlers, please advise me on what to do

Matured advice please!!!

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Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by Nobody: 9:22am On Jun 24, 2016
welcome to nairaland grin
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by cruzita(f): 9:25am On Jun 24, 2016
warn the guy seriously or infact start sleeping alone on the small bed while your friend and her bf sleep on the big one .



And make sure u dont join the bed together.






WELCOME TO NAIRALAND ,A HOME OF SANE AND MENTALLY CHALLENGED PEEPS
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by Rexhenrex(m):
am somewhat disappointed in you,first of all you should never have agreed sleeping on the same bed with. why won't ur friend lay with her "supposed" b.f.

secondly he touches ur boobs and u kept quite that can only happen if you were enjoying it or feel for the guy if not you should av registered a dynamite to his face...iMagine on 2 occasion and u didn't react he would definitely think u are enjoying it.and its obvious he is using his relationship with your friend to get to you,because if he loves ur friend he wouldn't av touched u knowing he is dating ur friend.

Never displease your self because you wanna please someone when he comes next tell him politely you don't like what he does to you and if he tries it you won't tolerate it. keep your words short but powerful... Or tell him on whatsap that you don't like him touching u at night then screen grab the reply as evidence incase he wanna frame you or deny it.
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by ErnieSmallzz(f): 9:29am On Jun 24, 2016
shocked ha! Lala's bae is that all u can say? The op needs advice na

























grin welcome to Nairaland!
Berlyn:
welcome to nairaland grin
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by Nobody: 9:32am On Jun 24, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
shocked ha! Lala's bae is that all u can say? The op needs advice na

























grin welcome to Nairaland!
lol bae, as i no get anything to say na grin
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by Evidence1000(m): 9:34am On Jun 24, 2016
I don't even understand this story sef . Op do what you like
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by ErnieSmallzz(f): 9:34am On Jun 24, 2016
hmmm this Op story sounds familiar oh undecided
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by temple11: 9:35am On Jun 24, 2016
You sleep on the same bed with a man when you have other options, you sleep with wrapper when you have clothes, you're not jealous yet you're worried they might be doing something in the guy's house. My friend, gerroutta hia.
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by ErnieSmallzz(f): 9:40am On Jun 24, 2016
Berlyn:
lol bae, as i no get anything to say na grin
grin if u no get anything to say, Lala maynt like u oh wink u know he likes Sharp bae's tongue grin
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by votemysticgal16(f): 9:40am On Jun 24, 2016
Well you should trade carefully else the table might turn against you.


Do not go to meet him tho, I suggest you should tell your friend you aren't comfortable with him sleeping over for now.
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by Nobody: 9:41am On Jun 24, 2016
My only advice for you is that you lay on the smaller bed and let him share the bigger bed with his girlfriend when next he visits and not the other way round.
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 24, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
grin if u no get anything to say, Lala maynt like u oh wink u know he likes Sharp bae's tongue grin
lmao grin grin i'll try and say shumtin next time cool
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by dobys(f): 12:06pm On Jun 24, 2016
EDonHappen:
Hello everyone, I have been lurking on this site for long as a guest, I decided to register today because of an issue I want to get an advice on.
I was opportuned to meet a guy, he asked me out but I refused to date him and he later went for my friend and my friend accepted his request and the began dating, I was not jealous about this though, their love was so so strong and it has been like this for the past 4-5 months now, my friend visits his boyfriend(the boyfriend here is the guy that asked me out and I refused) in his house and spend the nights there most of the time(I am sure they would have been doing things together), but sometimes the guy will come over to our apartment to sleep, I and my friend stay in a one room apartment with a big bed and a small bed in it, whenever they come, me and the guy will sleep on the big bed and my friend will sleep on the small bed very adjacent to his boyfriend. I normally sleep with my wrapper on me anytime he is around.

Then something strange happened on a night the guy came to sleep in our apartment and we had the normal sleeping routine, then all of a sudden I started feeling my wrapper was leaving my body and i was feeling some touches around my body most especially my breast and buttocks, i was so devastated as this was coming from the guy and I kept mute and pretended as if I was sleeping and this kept going on, anytime I shift on the bed, the guy will reposition himself and pretended as if he was sleeping and nothing happened. I let that to pass for the night. The another night he came visiting and the same thing happened, I felt so bad and wanted to tell my friend who happen to be his girlfriend but I feel if I should tell her, it might lead to their breakup which I don’t want because these guys are madly in love with each other, you can tell from the way they behave. Another option I am thinking is to tell the guy myself and try to warn him that if he tries it again I will embarrass him.
Should I tell my friend knowing fully well this might lead to their breakup or warn the guy myself?

Nlers, please advise me on what to do

Matured advice please!!!
hahahaha nawa ooooh
that your friend really trust you y shld u be d 1 2 sleep with him on the same bed in d 1st place. deres noo sense in dt. body noo be fire wood oooh
Re: Please Advice A Romancelander On This Important Issue by EDonHappen(op): 1:05pm On Jun 24, 2016
ErnieSmallzz:
hmmm this Op story sounds familiar oh undecided
really!!! i copied it from somewhere, maybe it's your story then
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