DeeTus:
Aside men, women still have a lot of problems. Ranging from latest fashion, looks and so on.

Puresolutions:


@DeeTus have u been paying attention to the threads with the same kind of complain.it's become an epidemy..my boyfriend this n that i rily dnt knw if they hav problems besides men..

DeeTus:
Man, leave these girls alone. They too have problems.

One of my ex who is a make up artist always complain of me to my niggas. Till today my niggas still make fun of me and often laugh.

Enahi:

No way am I gonna do that, not for any man.

DavidGodwin:

Hope you've not had sex with him before? Quote me

Puresolutions:


Wow brotha.. for ur niggas to complain and mae fun of you,mehn the chic go don spill tire..God help us men,that's why it's hard for some of us to go into relationships seriously with as we all say these-naija-girls... The side effects of dating them mehn..If only a man had options

Puresolutions:


@DavidGodwin yu dey joke ?

Witch type embarassing question be dat.Sex starts thesedays the day guy meets bae

DavidGodwin:

Well, not in all cases. I'm 26+ but haven't had sex. I had a (failed) relationship that lasted 2 years plus but never even kissed the lady. It all depends on the individuals involved, ma dear.

DeeTus:
She was complaining that i don't take to the salon to make her hair,

I don't buy undies for her, i don't cook for her, blah blah blah.

At a time, my niggas were all laughing including their gfs. Her stress was too much i had to run.

Puresolutions:


@Dave i admire yu.It's rare to see this from a guy...didn't the issue of lac of sex in your relationship cause riot ?

DeeTus:
She was complaining that i don't take to the salon to make her hair,

I don't buy undies for her, i don't cook for her, blah blah blah.

At a time, my niggas were all laughing including their gfs. Her stress was too much i had to run.

DavidGodwin:

We started dating in 2013 when I was in 200L. She was in her finals then (2 yrs ahead of me). Everything went well until 2015. I lost my mom in January that same year and it was as if all ma hopes were on her. Toward the end of her service year, she told me another guy (whom I know) went to where she was serving and proposed to her. I asked her what she told him and she said (in her words): "It's true we are together, but we haven't taken any solid conclusion". After 2 and half yrs?! ALMOST HALF of my family knew about her. Some were even calling her from time to time.
Like Nigerian movies, she left me for the guy. I was devastated throughout that year, more so that that was my final year. But God saw me through. While we were together, I told her that even if I don't marry her, whoever does, I'd be happy for her cos of how she had suffered in life (she's also an orphan like me).
Funny enough, I was the 1st to be at the wedding. I swept the altar, ran some errands and played keyboard for her wedding (I'm a keyboardist and recently a gospel music producer). That's my story. Sorry for boring you.

Puresolutions:



@David on the contrary you didn't bore me,i'm workin i nid this chat..

Na wa o,no loyalty atall in life again..

Correct my feeble thinkin but if a guy doesnt sleep with the bae he's dating for 2years and remains in the relationship isn't that an accurate pointer that it's a relationship saved for marriage ?

As my hommies would say ladies act first and think later,it's her loss anyways..i hope u gave her tfare on the way out.

I'm glad u mentioned u went to the wedding even swept the place,it purifies ur heart and helps one get over it faster..with age i'm coming to believe no one is really worth it to hurt one's self over..

How's gospal music production jare

Yu sabi Vik Da Praise? R u based in Lag

I'm seriously a gospel fan we no dey tae God mather play

Puresolutions:



@David on the contrary you didn't bore me,i'm workin i nid this chat..

Na wa o,no loyalty atall in life again..

Correct my feeble thinkin but if a guy doesnt sleep with the bae he's dating for 2years and remains in the relationship isn't that an accurate pointer that it's a relationship saved for marriage ?

As my hommies would say ladies act first and think later,it's her loss anyways..i hope u gave her tfare on the way out.

I'm glad u mentioned u went to the wedding even swept the place,it purifies ur heart and helps one get over it faster..with age i'm coming to believe no one is really worth it to hurt one's self over..

How's gospal music production jare

Yu sabi Vik Da Praise? R u based in Lag

I'm seriously a gospel fan we no dey tae God mather play

DavidGodwin:

Tor. God dey help us. I dey Nassarawa now. I just enter into the work full time, but still on a low key. I go finish service 1st b4 I open ma studio.
I saw God's hand in the relationship sha. I'm glad that I left without defilement. I laugh most times when I read comments and threads on this forum. But it's all good.

DavidGodwin:

Hope you've not had sex with him before? Quote me

Puresolutions:


@Enahi the forum is flooded with this same issues over and over...Is it so difficult to leave a guy? is it this difficult ?

Enahi:


Yes it is if is a guy that we truly like or love.

Enahi:


Lol guess you didn't read all my comments, no I never had sex with him.

Puresolutions:


I admire you jare,no worry whenever God replaces it's always beta than the previous Trust me ! There's alwaiz someone beta than Messi and Ronaldo coming from behind

Me i manage to dodge my own hurt by replacing the female specie with wor..though i'm on the loo out thesedays sha

DavidGodwin:

Well, I know it's not easy to move on. But trust me dear, the longer u remain there, the worse things would turn out to be. Kindly do yourself a favor and move on. Occupy your mind with novels etc. He's not worth it. Good thing is, you've not had sex with him. God site has a better person for you. Don't generalize, cos I AM CERTAIN that there are still good men out there.

Puresolutions:


Wow..than God for web,this is too complex for my mind to have comprehended if yu hadn't said it.So you make a nest even in a relationship with excess strain and stress.. ..I'm confused at the ideology..I'm the reverse anyway the more i lie u the easier it is to walk away..Warri style..this way can't be hurt...

DavidGodwin:

Are you a born again Christian, sir?

Enahi:


Lol you must be a bad guyguy

donbenedict:
good, so u suit up and stop complaining and always being the one at d receiving end....



The truth abt urself is that u can't afford being single and lonely and that is why men will continue to prey on ur fears.

Puresolutions:


@Enahi i'm not,when u got thru series of heartbreaks it makes u somethin else,maybe not in relationships but for me in friendships my best friends and all,so i've learnt not to see humans as " worth my strain " though i give my all in every where i find myself and apply my fingers till it becomes lean,but i dnt bend over anymore to no man... Nigerians are wicked ppl Men and Women..I'm sowwie i'm dis blunt

Puresolutions:


@DeeTus ineventually ur not romantic " KWA " na wa o.we humans find issues in life even when there's nothin to be bothered about.
But guy...it's what we've both been sayin it's life Nigerian women have too much negative baggage and side effect,anyways i've completely stayed away until i find the good brands i've met quite a few but one way or the other one guy go come i go free am...May God help us find the ryt ladies o... !!

Enahi:

Hmmm ok.