ghostmist:
please drop the hypocrisy.

what exactly is "yeye" in seeing a woman you like and asking her out or making your intentions known??

the onus lies on her to politely turn down your request.

if she declines and you press further, then the man could be said to be at fault. some ladies even interpret this to mean "persistence " and "going after what one wants "

make una free men joor...

boboLIL:
fake green liqht


dont mistake a girl smilling towards you for a crush.. Sometimes, they smile because you look funny or sound funny ..

imohrol:
Are u concluding that the 3 House of Rep members re guilty? ....

babeface3:
[s]I was just trying to reason towards the cause if the alleged sexual misconduct against Nigerian law makers in the us. I lodged in a cozy hotel in Las Vegas late last year and almost got tempted twice. After I woke up from sleep due to long flight hours I heard a knock on my door. A cleaner so pretty in her sewn to size apron greeted me with a charming smile on opening my door. Omo I didn't know when I asked her to come in instead of saying I had no garbage in the bin and my room was not dirty. She actually stepped in to my surprise. I offered her some fried cashew nuts I had brought from Nigeria and she gladly collected it. The door was still ajar and agro don dey rise for my jugular. When after cracking some jokes, I asked her to sit down cos she had been standing some inches from het trolley on the door, her face changed into a livid blur. She rapped so fast and left the room. It was later that I discovered she left the pack of cashew nuts.

Later I would go for buffet. I would take my food to the garden lobby to enjoy the view and have some solitary moments. A waiter stationed directly opposite me would smile and make a not too clear gesture each time our eyes met. She would edge closer when I smile back and ask if I was confortable and if I needed anything. Pretty oyibo. Guy one morning I don dey chop my food jeje she waka come again. I ask am her name. She told me. I look round with style nobody dey even look my side. I com tell am make she give me her number. Wetin I hear na, sorry not necessary with same smile she waka comot. The next morning na for my room I chop breakfast.
Please guys those courtesy na just professional thingie[/s]

DICKtator:


Nigerian girls and American girls are two different species

Kindly take note!!

And one of the easiest places to get laid is in Sin city/Nevada/Las Vegas

A lot of loose bootay abounds there.
Most people go to gamble,get laid and marry

What you mean?

HurricaneMIMZY:


Sir, please endeavor to create time from your busy schedule to vote Mimzy as Miss Nairaland tomorrow. Let's make history together.

Thanks in advance.

papiforreal:


OK.. No wahala. Will surely do that. But what's the fuss about this miss Nairaland that you guys are draining your energy about. Isn't 50k that will be given to the 1st position. Tell her that I will double that amount for her if she will date me (:

ghostmist:
hmmmmm

Na wao.... so it's now a crime to see a girl you like and ask her out??
men would always fraternize with women. That's how it has been since time immemorial.

and they wonder why homo is on the increase...!

ask a girl out these days, before you know it they'd starting calling you pervert and all sorts.

if a man doesn't ask a woman out, is it his fellow man that he's supposed to ask out??

I just taya!!

InvertedHammer:
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Service providers in US are trained to be courteous and nice to patrons. They expect good tips for rendering exceptional services.

However, service providers in Nigeria are rude and angry at themselves, their employers, customers and the world.

So when a service provider goes out of her way in Nigeria to be nice, men see it as an invitation to gawk and possibly, sex for cash. More often than not, they are right.

Anyone man that carries such mindset to the US will definitely end up in the same situation as the lawmakers. It is usually your word against her narratives. Guess who they will believe?
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babeface3:
I was just trying to reason towards the cause if the alleged sexual misconduct against Nigerian law makers in the us. I lodged in a cozy hotel in Las Vegas late last year and almost got tempted twice. After I woke up from sleep due to long flight hours I heard a knock on my door. A cleaner so pretty in her sewn to size apron greeted me with a charming smile on opening my door. Omo I didn't know when I asked her to come in instead of saying I had no garbage in the bin and my room was not dirty. She actually stepped in to my surprise. I offered her some fried cashew nuts I had brought from Nigeria and she gladly collected it. The door was still ajar and agro don dey rise for my jugular. When after cracking some jokes, I asked her to sit down cos she had been standing some inches from het trolley on the door, her face changed into a livid blur. She rapped so fast and left the room. It was later that I discovered she left the pack of cashew nuts.

Later I would go for buffet. I would take my food to the garden lobby to enjoy the view and have some solitary moments. A waiter stationed directly opposite me would smile and make a not too clear gesture each time our eyes met. She would edge closer when I smile back and ask if I was confortable and if I needed anything. Pretty oyibo. Guy one morning I don dey chop my food jeje she waka come again. I ask am her name. She told me. I look round with style nobody dey even look my side. I com tell am make she give me her number. Wetin I hear na, sorry not necessary with same smile she waka comot. The next morning na for my room I chop breakfast.
Please guys those courtesy na just professional thingie

cococandy:
Randy folks. If you smile at them out of politeness or professional etiquette, they take it as green light to come have sex.

CFCman:



I knew you would show up. Seriously though, I guess that's the reason why Nigerian women, who work in the hospitality industry, barely crack a smile at guests of both genders.

cosade:


You got it wrong it. You can ask for a date but if she says no, then take it as no. Don't assume she's playing the difficult to get type. No is No, your further push becomes harassment. Same thing with your wife, she's not in the mood for legitimate pleasure and you forcefully have your way, she can actually get you charged for rape. Do you get it?

adewumiopeyemi:
were is ur source...i dont believe dis GUY.. that is fake thread... GUYS ask him the name of the hotel in lesVEegas... U JUST DEY LIE for us here abi.... compose story

ghostmist:
we are both saying the same thing... the men are being demonized for asking??

like as if it's some kinda crime or pervert behavior for them to ask in the first place. I don't know why nature gave men a higher sexx drive; cos I know if the roles were reversed we would be seeing worse from the females.

it's almost as if they are subtly trying to emasculate our sexxuality.

most men even here in 9ja would stop pestering a woman once she turns them down....except in the rare occasions.

see how they've started calling the OP "hegoat " and "pervert" just because he asked a lady her number. The hypocrisy is sickening.

miqos02:

JohnRulzel:
It is a big disgrace to our law makers but come to think about it, those oyibo men the come naija do same thing, ask some security men to call ashawo for them

papiforreal:


OK.. No wahala. Will surely do that. But what's the fuss about this miss Nairaland that you guys are draining your energy about. Isn't 50k that will be given to the 1st position. Tell her that I will double that amount for her if she will date me (:

kolomax:
do you have mini laptop at hand ? how much is it

CFCman:


99.9% of the time, people would be the lady making the allegation.

And if the service providers, here, are rude or constantly frown at customers, that hotel could receive lots of complaints from the guests.

sethken:



In the US, when ladies in the hospitality or retail industry smile at you, do no misunderstand them. They do so out of courtesy/training. They want to make sure you are enjoying your stay, especially in the Five Hotels. After all, you are paying top dollars to be there. Also, they want to make sure you are a repeat customer. The hotel wants your business, of course it is only appropriate they threat you nice, and are courteous to you. A smile from any of the housekeepers does not denote interest. Remember they see tons of men who pass through the hotels. What makes you special? You are spot on.

InvertedHammer:

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It would have been cheaper if the lawmakers relaxed, showered and took a taxi to a strip club. $20 to get in, $100 VIP lap dance and no soul will be reading any epistle about sexual harrassment.
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