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I have found out that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, It's works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline.You see, times will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, intelligent, sexy, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, Love will not help you, Self control will help you, Emotional intelligence will help you, commitment will help you. No matter how you feel for someone, the person you're committed to ranks first in your life. You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings?They do. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse.You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship.After then, You'll realise that the feelings have dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can make it work. Everyone falls in love, it takes no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only few do that. So lets build it..........
Source: Izyc Golden-Voice Adjerhore

If i'm giving bricks nd blocks to build love i rada build my future career nd spiritual life then also build a wall around my life to protect me from leeches love

love is life..

slysinzu:
love is life..

MUVA who is tis guy?? i have my lawyers on hand to sue him oo

slyIsaac:
MUVA who is tis guy?? i have my lawyers on hand to sue him oo

Is your lawyer a SAN? I just put a call through to Rotimi Jacobs, he'll get an injunction in two days.

halfricanadian:
If i'm giving bricks nd blocks to build love i rada build my future career nd spiritual life then also build a wall around my life to protect me from leeches love

Bros u don't have a choice but to finally come back to find some1 to love and to share dat future career and spiritual life u have built with

This article is like it's by force to be in a relationship.

I believe only in love. Love keeps it. It's not by force.

and like have always said.. what will be.. will be... it's just 2 play 1s role... and watch how events unfolds.

MVLOX:
Bros u don't have a choice but to finally come back to find some1 to love and to share dat future career and spiritual life u have built with

If u can dash me na

slyIsaac:
MUVA who is tis guy?? i have my lawyers on hand to sue him oo

Sue my nigga for what if i may ask?

halfricanadian:
If i'm giving bricks nd blocks to build love i rada build my future career nd spiritual life then also build a wall around my life to protect me from leeches love

aww give Love a chance .. broke up with ny ex cos she never loved me.. she happily jumped into d arms of a married man.. cos he promised her heaven nd earth

armylord:
aww give Love a chance .. broke up with ny ex cos she never loved me.. she happily jumped into d arms of a married man.. cos he promised her heaven nd earth

lol shey u guys will see fresh fine babes nd b rushing whereas u maltreated one made from beautiful to ugly den u realised she aint pretty im proud of dat chick very very well wen u tink d grass is always greener on d other side count me out tho u got served well

halfricanadian:
lol shey u guys will see fresh fine babes nd b rushing whereas u maltreated one made from beautiful to ugly den u realised she aint pretty im proud of dat chick very very well wen u tink d grass is always greener on d other side count me out tho u got served well

u should be ashamed of her.. i was 100% faithful..to her.. yet.. wah did I get? no more Mr nice guy....

armylord:
u should be ashamed of her.. i was 100% faithful..to her.. yet.. wah did I get? no more Mr nice guy....

tot u was a player too well leave d married man and ur Ex alone

Pls b a nice guy wat people dont kno is dat wen u date a bad girl God always send u a good girl bt u will b too hurt nd revengful nd hurt d good one dats why dey say good people suffer cos dey take d aggression nd pay d price d bad people lay down

Trust me ur next will b good trust me ok?

halfricanadian:
tot u was a player too well leave d married man and ur Ex alone

Pls b a nice guy wat people dont kno is dat wen u date a bad girl God always send u a good girl bt u will b too hurt nd revengful nd hurt d good one dats why dey say good people suffer cos dey take d aggression nd pay d price d bad people lay down

Trust me ur next will b good trust me ok?

I trust u.... ill still continue being nice.. but ill be very cautious..nd observant..

armylord:
I trust u.... ill still continue being nice.. but ill be very cautious..nd observant..

Yup wat i told u is research if u date a bad person a good person walks in after d bad person hurt u if u too hurt to see u hurt dem a bad person comes in again i did d research u can sit down nd check d patterns of all relationships u kno about some are lucky wen dey get d good person det hold on to dem nd are happy forever

So just b observant smart bt nt wicked b good

halfricanadian:
Yup wat i told u is research if u date a bad person a good person walks in after d bad person hurt u if u too hurt to see u hurt dem a bad person comes in again i did d research u can sit down nd check d patterns of all relationships u kno about some are lucky wen dey get d good person det hold on to dem nd are happy forever

So just b observant smart bt nt wicked b good

Thanks alot.. I.sure will adhere to wah uve said..

armylord:
Thanks alot.. I.sure will adhere to wah uve said..

Biko adhere with wisdom o ok?

halfricanadian:
Biko adhere with wisdom o ok?

sure thing

armylord:
sure thing

thats my boo of life

halfricanadian:
thats my boo of life

.. good evening love

armylord:
.. good evening love

Evening how are u

halfricanadian:
Evening how are u

tired nd u ?

armylord:
tired nd u ?

lol i'm good u?

halfricanadian:
lol i'm good u?

bout to.have my.bath dear.. bball practice was dope today

armylord:
bout to.have my.bath dear.. bball practice was dope today

Hmmmmmm cool sturvs u now bck on ur happy sef cool points

halfricanadian:
Hmmmmmm cool sturvs u now bck on ur happy sef cool points

yepp never felt better ... hehe

armylord:
yepp never felt better ... hehe

i told ya u will b better im happy u now a kool kat

halfricanadian:
i told ya u will b better im happy u now a kool kat

LOL yeah thanks to.u nd some couple of friends.. here..

armylord:
LOL yeah thanks to.u nd some couple of friends.. here..

oya wat shall we do tonight brain?

halfricanadian:
oya wat shall we do tonight brain?

gaming :p

armylord:
gaming :p

wat type?