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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 3:34am On Jun 29, 2016
Wait...how many Gyms are in Nigeria for normal people seff..duh

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Fash20: 3:40am On Jun 29, 2016
sinaj:
guilty conscience?


U wrong sir
No I'm not. You wouldn't defend the "weight gainers" if you are not one of em.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by WowSweetGuy(m): 3:43am On Jun 29, 2016
Very true...I guess is our food and lack of exercise
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Fash20: 3:47am On Jun 29, 2016
JustHere2Observ:


Ok good luck to you, but never say never...wish I know you personally so I can rub this in your face. Hehehehe like later in the future when madam actually adds weight.
trust me na I will not let ha.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by DedeNkem: 4:14am On Jun 29, 2016
MissRike:
It's basically coz of child birth moreover, they're enjoying the proteinous mixtures of their husbands' hmmm.....you know


I'm MissRike

Child bearing my as*s! That's the dumb excuse Nigerian women usually give.

Yes, it's true that during pregnancy, women do add weight but most are too f*uckng lazy to control their diet!

They can slim down after child birth if they want but most of them don't give a f*uck. They continue eating like fat pigs! They're lazy to exercise or to care of themselves!

Give a typical slim Nigerian woman a year after marriage, you will hardly recognize her. You'll see a fat ugly woman. Whereas in real sense, a married woman supposed to look more beautiful!

The other day at a ceremony, I saw one that finished a full huge chicken with a bowl of rice and washed them down with two bottles of big stout!!

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by muri4mig(m): 4:15am On Jun 29, 2016
0ubenji:
Erm..before I comment..

ARE U MARRIED ??!
do u want to marry him?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by sinaj(f): 4:19am On Jun 29, 2016
Fash20:
No I'm not. You wouldn't defend the "weight gainers" if you are not one of em.
me being slim doesn't stp me frm saying the truth.


M nt fat, neither is my mom.

All thanks to nature.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by macminista(m): 4:30am On Jun 29, 2016
ASK GOOGLE NA grin >: grin cheesy grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by youngest85(m): 4:52am On Jun 29, 2016
halfricanadian:
The problem the husband nd his relative will giv her is enof for her to swell up from within

Make i no talk
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Fash20: 4:59am On Jun 29, 2016
sinaj:
me being slim doesn't stp me frm saying the truth.


M nt fat, neither is my mom.

All thanks to nature.
Gud. Don't start gaining weight when you finally get married its irritating and annoying. Men hate it.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 5:04am On Jun 29, 2016
Loisemm:
tomquest and other guys here, my thoughts on this matter is simple. If you want a fit or slim wife, go for a slim fit fiance whose mother is also fit and not fat. Chances are she will look like her mum later on in physique and looks. Sometimes (sometimes oo), u can identify a lady who will be fat when she marries or gives birth.
Nevertheless, a few men love plum fat wives. So one man's meat is another's poison...
I'm one of those few men..... I love them "thick"
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 5:04am On Jun 29, 2016
DedeNkem:


Child bearing my as*s! That's the dumb excuse Nigerian women usually give.

Yes, it's true that during pregnancy, women do add weight but most are too fucling lazy to control their diet!

They can slim down after child birth if they want but most of them don't give a f*uck. They continue eating like fat pigs! They're lazy to excercise or to care of themselves!

Give a typical slim Nigerian woman a year after marriage, you will hardly recognize her. You'll see a fat ugly woman. Whereas in real sense, a married woman supposed to look more beautiful!

The other day at a ceremony, I saw one that finished a full huge chicken with a bowl of rice and washed them down with two bottles of big stout!!
rotflmao grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by timohcharles: 5:08am On Jun 29, 2016
Pregnancy and Childbirth are not easy process. But with moderate exercise, healthy eating, moderate alcohol intake, the subject can still maintain pre pregnancy shape.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 5:08am On Jun 29, 2016
MissRike:
It's basically coz of child birth moreover, they're enjoying the proteinous mixtures of their husbands' hmmm.....you know


I'm MissRike

which mixture?, talk oh
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 5:16am On Jun 29, 2016
vague:
lazy man! No car! Lazy man! No house! Lazy man! Full of excuses! Lazy man with chinco phone! Lazy man! Full of excuses while his children's mates make money! You should be ashamed of yourself

I never still dey impressed Hercules oh undecided

So what's ur Fathers name

So how many house you get?

Ohh I now see what would land u in Jail, Mr Yahoo Boy.

Get out of here jare.

By their fruit u sha knw dem

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Nobody: 5:20am On Jun 29, 2016
sinaj:
u shut close this page right now.


I think u need google more than nairaland now!
Yeah google not bad, You need makeup..... ur face so Masculine.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 5:20am On Jun 29, 2016
tomquest:


This your way of reasoning is very unhealthy and dangerous for your life. I'm just advising you. The spirit which led you to mention Wizkid should have reminded you of Linda Ikeji... Abi she no get vagina like you?
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 5:33am On Jun 29, 2016
diva90:


Not an excuse! Anybody can have kids and still stay trim. It's really all about diet and lifestyle. The truth is that most women stop taking care of themselves after marriage. I know some hot good looking mothers who have had up to 3 kids but are still unbelievably fit and can pass for a single lady who hasn't had a kid.
those ones are cheats, they will surely cheat on their husbands.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by DMLords: 5:33am On Jun 29, 2016
Unique04:
Don't you know child bearing makes a woman pull on weight?
Anyway u are right on one thing, Nigerian women are too lazy to watch their weight. However, weight gain of a partner should not be an excuse for adultery.


#my2cents#

Should being broke be a reason for adultery? smh

Women wanting to manipulate reasoning to their favor since Eve (1000,000BC)

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 5:35am On Jun 29, 2016
Jobia:
Funny but i dont think i've ever seen a married man that still maintains his six pacs
My uncles do....

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Youngpo413: 5:42am On Jun 29, 2016
SemuhleB:


How can you compare Kim k to the average person. Firstly she looks better cos she can afford all the plastic surgery, personal trainer, chef and anything to help with her weight loss while the average person does not have access to it.

Laziness is doing nothing. If your wife sits at home all day. No work, no cooking and cleaning and not taking care of the kids and husband then you can say she is lazy. If she is doing all that how is she lazy? Its not about laziness but diet. If you consume foods high in carbohydrates , calories and fat then you will gain weight simple.
pls what kind of food can a slim lady eat to make her ass grow our of proportion but still maintains her slim stature.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by nkemjacob2(m): 5:42am On Jun 29, 2016
very common wit dem. dey dont take time to watch demself. once they are married no more searching for husband.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by canDy4eva(f): 5:45am On Jun 29, 2016
Unique04:
Don't you know child bearing makes a woman pull on weight?
Anyway u are right on one thing, Nigerian women are too lazy to watch their weight. However, weight gain of a partner should not be an excuse for adultery.


#my2cents#
truth b told, a woman cn neva b d same again afta child birth but lyk u rytly said, sh should b able to burn off some weight to keep fit! I think during marriage classes couples should b told abt changes on women that "must" naturally tke place, if it whr nt so d op wount use his mum as an example!
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Taiyescott(m): 5:49am On Jun 29, 2016
tank God u said some.. bsides dy want 2 get shapeless datz y oo.. and mind u, itz nt only nigerian ladies, dy do dix evrywhere..
mind u, lack of exercise and bin a full house wife cud b a considerable reason.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by Sunnypa11(m): 5:50am On Jun 29, 2016
Na men cause am....Some cane are like pump, Vulcanizer e.t.c

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by seguno2: 5:53am On Jun 29, 2016
sinaj:
Average Nigerian women don't keep nanny. They wake up by 5a.m, dress up d kids nd also leave for work.

They rush back hme after work, to get d kids nd also prepare dinner.
Some of them also work on saturdays.
Nd d routine continues.

Instead of u to appreciate them, u here complaining abt their weight gain.

Pregnancy also change their body too, nd contribute to d weight gain.

The posters above calling women lazy might be typing with their pot belly resting on their laps undecided

Now Mr op, can u also explain why some men gain weight nd pot belly after marriage

What stops them frm hitting d gym undecided

All I see above are excuses and rationalisation of the INDISCIPLINE, which is the reason for the OBESITY on both sexes.
QED!!!

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by bosschinalu(m): 5:57am On Jun 29, 2016
Chai.
Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by AngryNigerian(m): 6:00am On Jun 29, 2016
MissRike:


All of the above wink

Chaii...your husband must always miss you eh! All of the above for that matter...

Meanwhile...

Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by tomquest: 6:03am On Jun 29, 2016
DedeNkem:


The other day at a ceremony, I saw one that finished a full huge chicken with a bowl of rice and washed them down with two bottles of big stout!!

...

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by AngryNigerian(m): 6:05am On Jun 29, 2016
seguno2:


All I see above are excuses and rationalisation of the INDISCIPLINE, which is the reason for the OBESITY on both sexes.
QED!!!

Don't you know APC members when you see them? They are full of excuses and the pic below will tell you more...

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by HaneefahRN(f): 6:06am On Jun 29, 2016
tomquest:
I met some former colleagues of mine whom I'd seen about 6 years ago. Believe me, while I was able to recognize all the guys, it was a Herculean task identifying all the ladies, most of whom I knew to be slim/trim/curvy and unmarried then. Almost all of these once-slim ladies are now looking big and fat and absolutely less plummy than they used to be.

Why is it hard for MANY married ladies to stay trim and sexy? Is marriage a "breakthrough from hunger" or what? And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights?

I've seen a lot of ladies in their 30s who are so lazy to even take a 20 minutes walk in a week, at least just to exercise and burn some fat. Let's not even mention going to the gym. They drive or board okada all their lives. And when they eat, you'd ve amazed at the amount of calories they consume!

Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother? Guys, do you like your wife looking like she's your mum?

First, not all women gain so much weight, trying to look around me, you all seem to be exaggerating. There are fit, slim married women around and there are robust ones who had been even before marriage. And let's not talk about men who gain weight after marriage. My parents for example, my dad was the one that gained weight while my mum still has
her portable build even after 6 kids. And it wasn't like she was doing any special exercises, she was just lucky to have a good genetic build as regards weight gain, her mothers had same build. She has the average day layout of a Nigerian woman. Wake up 4am, pray, cook and other chores, prepare the family for school and work, go to work, come back 5pm at least, chores, and prep dinner, etc, and the cycle continues.
These Factors can contribute:

- Diet: We generally have a poor diet in Nigeria, most of our traditional dishes are high calorie foods. How many homes do you see where they eat veggie and fruit salad as a real food. We all want our pounded yam, amala and all. How many families eat dinner before 6pm? People eat heavy meals late at night, how do they work that off?


- Pregnancy. Overflogged, some people are lucky not to gain so much weight though.Some people don't even look pregnant till they are in their late trimester, while some people would have ballooned up to 2 times their normal size and find it hard to shed off after child birth.

- Birth Control methods-Some birth control methods such as use of hormonals cause weight gain.

- Laziness and sedentary life style-Unless an house wife with a maid, that sits in front of TV every day eating, which an average Nigerian wife doesn't do, I really don't see much to this.


- Genetics: Some people are just genetically programmed to have a slim frame. I have friends that can eat mountains and they won't show any visible weight gain, while some people will even gain weight while suffering. It's genetics. My mum could lose her baby fat fairly well and still look moderate after several preggies, while a friend of mine is still battling with the weight she gained while pregnant even after a year, diet, exercise and all. She looked so jealous when I told her I wanted to gain weight instead.


- Stress-When one is stressed there is more likelihood to eat junks rather than healthy meals

- Overeating - Some people just like eating a lot without any care about how to work it off.






Let me just stop here, I haven't been to other Countries so can't say if it's only Nigerian women that are obese like you people always try to paint it.


And men with beautiful, prim wives still cheat, a man that will cheat will, even with a lady that can't stand beside his wife. We could as well try and justify a wife cheating cos her husband got broke, can't we?

Both parties should help themselves to keep fit.

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Re: Why Do Nigerian Ladies Grow Out Of Shape When Married? by FTbomb(m): 6:11am On Jun 29, 2016
it's food and sperm..too much food than they used to eat in their father's house and too much sperm from their husbands

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