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Debbywills:
Don't be in a haste, type Calm. Debby isn't pursing you

Debbywills:
Was she forcing you to read at all?

slimthugchimee:
what is this one saying

HateU2:
how did u graduate

HateU2:
lol
Ore mi. Just writing ni ooo

SAINTSAMURAII:
I smell e-war in this thread. lemme sit here, sip my kunu while i keep listening to Beyonce's freedom on repeat. nice lyrics from queen b.

MUVA:
Thread is dumb AF!

BiafraBushBoy:
I think you should go back to your Basic English class before wasting your Data and posting Bullcrap

How does it sound?

senibo1:
be nice.


how you doing?

Debbywills:
I dunno sef, I'm not supposed to quote dummies.
See you in hell

obiorathesubtle:
I've modified..

senibo1:
morning boss. how was your night?

Debbywills:
I am nice ..

Don't tell me this is an avenue to initiate a conversation .

halfricanadian:
Society is f*cked up if am successful nd not married to ba tayin lara ela plaster mo b ti merlin

We av thousands of single ladies better dan married women asin many many baje baje abi heaven is only for married people?

Omo i dont follow society i do wat please God nd me

Societal rules dat was approved by people who felt cool bou it u now wanna impose dat on me? Sorry o

if husband no come e no come b dat i move on to greater things

I follow no bodies rule if it aint in d bible u can as well sell ur advise elsewehere

slimthugchimee:
what the hell was that for......that wasnt nice atal......

HateU2:
Hi all.
I have read so many threads about ladies on this forum and sometimes I just waka pass because there are lots of things you guys don't understand. Lemme put you through.

We are Nigerians(Hausa, IBO or Yoruba) and somehow our culture is still the richest so far.

Now, some guys will open threads to complain about ladies and all that.

First of all check yourself. Most of you guys brags a lot. Lemme use an example, A guy was asking me out and can you guess his 'lines'? 'Baby, I will take care of you' Really , take care of me Is that the new line? I quickly told him to fcck off because I detest guys with that mentality. All I'm saying here is that don't try to impress any lady with your money and that's why most of you come here to cry whenever a girl asks you for #100 recharge card. Check your 'toasting skills'.

I also read a comment about a guy that said he can't date a girl with some investments, really? You guys are the most complicated person God gave this world. Yes! Lemme back it up. We all know guys dont like it when Ladies are more successful than them Or is it the society that frowns at this That's why single ladies are afraid to buy cars and build houses because no man will like to marry a Lady that already has it all with the mentality that she will not be submissive bla bla like that. Examples are Linda Ikeji, Funke Akindele and others. You guys that are 'crying upadan' here, go to them please. Nobody is stopping you and remember they are single.

And for a man to feel like 'Man', he wanna provide for his family and while doing this, he Will also be complaining of too much of liabilities. SMH

Now, a lady is successful, she's termed 'Career woman' or even ' Feminist' simply because she's not married. Then our parents will start their wahala of 'Don't do this to me', ' Have mercy on me', 'Your mates are getting married' Bla bla like that. And Society too will start looking at you with 'some kind eyes' Chai! What exactly did the society wants from us

Okay, She's married now. To start running the house, she has to resign so as to take care of her home and if she disagrees, family meeting na the next thing. SMH. Or she's given the option of getting a maid . To save her home from the second wife popularly called 'Maid', she resigned and that does not stop 'Uncle' from cheating and complaining about her new weight and almost everything. *Sighs*.

I learnt about from my mama and I'm still learning thou. She's an independent woman. When I was growing up, she usually hammer something in my brain.

'Ajike, don't rely on a man either his money, his wealth or his happiness (mind you, we are happy family with my Dad). To earn respect from a man, you must be able to bring something to the table also. Have a source of income before thinking of getting married, they are not predictable'.
And mind you oooo, when a lady is getting close to 26/27, Our same parents will start questioning us. *sighs* Seriously, what do you want from us

That statement is kinda stuck in my brain and I know t's helping me alot.

I don't really know what this thread is all about, I'm just trying to say 'Our society is kind of affecting us in everything or everywhere we find ourselves'. Before you open your mouth to talk, think twice.

To my single ladies, this is the Time to get it right. Yea love. Your dream, your career and everything you wanna become, do it now and be independent. You won't have enough time to achieve it when the kids starts coming. Or unless you have wonderful and understanding husband like [b]'Chimamanda Ngozi's husband's[\b] Let that guy respects you. Let him wonder where you are getting money. Let him thinks maybe you are 'coded olosho or ashewo(thats how they reason) .

I rest my case.
Bashings are allowed.
Lalasticlala, what do you think

senibo1:
hahahah

na your hand work nah.

Debbywills:
I am nice ..

Don't tell me this is an avenue to initiate a conversation .

SAINTSAMURAII:
shuo!!!! calm down babe, just negodu.

HateU2:
Yea, it's aa bleeped up one but we are not gonna let it affect us.

STFUareyouG0d:
www.google.com

SAINTSAMURAII:
hehehe oga i hail o. the thread dey boil o.

Debbywills:
Lol. Were you expecting it to be nice? That's sad!

senibo1:
with the first lady of the federal republic of zoogerial


my dear, I just wanna say good morning to you. seems you ain't comfortable with it... bye.