₦airaland Forum

prettythicksme:
Hehehehehehe seriously babe u b my person,i no wan chop ur nose.

HateU2:
lol
I won't tell u my name, durhhhhh .

I'm not 4rm oyo or ogun ooo .
I will tell u later when my spirit is ready to tell u

HateU2:
iffa call my bestie ehn, we go chop ur nose ooo but I forgive u .

Naughtynaughty, where are you

HateU2:
Hi all.
I have read so many threads about ladies on this forum and sometimes I just waka pass because there are lots of things you guys don't understand. Lemme put you through.

We are Nigerians(Hausa, IBO or Yoruba) and somehow our culture is still the richest so far.

Now, some guys will open threads to complain about ladies and all that.

First of all check yourself. Most of you guys brags a lot. Lemme use an example, A guy was asking me out and can you guess his 'lines'? 'Baby, I will take care of you' Really , take care of me Is that the new line? I quickly told him to fcck off because I detest guys with that mentality. All I'm saying here is that don't try to impress any lady with your money and that's why most of you come here to cry whenever a girl asks you for #100 recharge card. Check your 'toasting skills'.

I also read a comment about a guy that said he can't date a girl with some investments, really? You guys are the most complicated 'Thing' God creaated in this world. Yes! Lemme back it up. We all know guys dont like it when Ladies are more successful than them Or is it the society that frowns at this That's why single ladies are afraid to buy cars and build houses because no man will like to marry a Lady that already has it all with the mentality that she will not be submissive bla bla like that. Examples are Linda Ikeji, Funke Akindele and others. You guys that are 'crying upadan' here, go to them please. Nobody is stopping you and remember they are single.

And for a man to feel like 'Man', he wanna provide for his family and while doing this, he Will also be complaining of too much of liabilities. SMH

Now, a lady is successful, she's termed 'Career woman' or even ' Feminist' simply because she's not married. Then our parents will start their wahala of 'Don't do this to me', ' Have mercy on me', 'Your mates are getting married' Bla bla like that. And Society too will start looking at you with 'some kind eyes' Chai! What exactly did the society wants from us

Okay, She's married now. To start running the house, she has to resign so as to take care of her home and if she disagrees, family meeting na the next thing. SMH. Or she's given the option of getting a maid . To save her home from the second wife popularly called 'Maid', she resigned and that does not stop 'Uncle' from cheating and complaining about her new weight and almost everything. *Sighs*.

I learnt about from my mama and I'm still learning thou. She's an independent woman. When I was growing up, she usually hammer something in my brain.

'Ajike, don't rely on a man either his money, his wealth or his happiness (mind you, we are happy family with my Dad). To earn respect from a man, you must be able to bring something to the table also. Have a source of income before thinking of getting married, they are not predictable'.
And mind you oooo, when a lady is getting close to 26/27, Our same parents will start questioning us. *sighs* Seriously, what do you want from us

That statement is kinda stuck in my brain and I know t's helping me alot.

I don't really know what this thread is all about, I'm just trying to say 'Our society is kind of affecting us in everything or everywhere we find ourselves'. Before you open your mouth to talk, think twice.

To my single ladies, this is the Time to get it right. Yea love. Your dream, your career and everything you wanna become, do it now and be independent. You won't have enough time to achieve it when the kids starts coming. Or unless you have wonderful and understanding husband like [b]'Chimamanda Ngozi's husband's[\b] Let that guy respects you. Let him wonder where you are getting money. Let him thinks maybe you are 'coded olosho or ashewo(thats how they reason) .

I rest my case.
Bashings are allowed.
Lalasticlala, what do you think

HATEU2.....Confused since time 1807B.C . This is evident in her color combo sef

ErnieSmallzz:

i just have the feeling you would be hia....Chaiii mtn girl

HateU2:
I'm thinking 'getting preggy' is the permanent solution

kamel4real2015:
cool game si you scam me now oga o obirin ati ate won just like that .

HateU2:
Thank you bro for getting the information.

Some don't even understand. They thought I'm bashing guys but I don't blame them. Enjoy ya day

prettythicksme:
Haaa u r playing with fire, na my side naughtynaughty go dey oo.Forget say u b her bestie oo she go follow chop ur nose.

obiorathesubtle:
bro.. Make we exchange accounts..

PushPlay:
It'll only lasts for 9 months.

HateU2:
my name is Ajike. Seriously

HateU2:
Mustapha, sikiru, now run

prettythicksme:
Elo bae hafa naw?

is ur consine?

scentmarlc:
i just have the feeling you would be hia....Chaiii mtn girl

Subtlelad:
. Funny you. But we are both subtle now and that makes us even

but Just incase anything comes up later.. Be prepared sha.. Someone might say we're the same person..


Anyway.. How you doing bro?? I'm obiora..

kamel4real2015:
thought you are joking ni so what state are we from.

HateU2:
I won't stop at one

STFUareyouG0d:
abeni elenu razor fly

PushPlay:
Shey o fe bimo bi eku no?

Ala kowe in e nau!

HateU2:
bro mofuruu, fimile

HateU2:
Oyo

obiorathesubtle:
but Just incase anything comes up later.. Be prepared sha.. Someone might say we're the same person..


Anyway.. How you doing bro?? I'm obiora..

STFUareyouG0d:
Mrcuork coman carry your wife comot for here o

kamel4real2015:
see you and you said i was not right i knew from the offset something that is very easy and clear.

HateU2:
lol
E se sir

HateU2:
lol
E se sir

Subtlelad:
Lol.. No problem... Am Felix..cool meeting yo

see you around felixthesubtle!

HateU2:
Did you read it at all Read and you will understand this is not a break up whatever. Peace

HateU2:
lol Ko mean nah Just to avoid owo pad every month ni

halfricanadian:
Society is f*cked up if am successful nd not married to ba tayin lara ela plaster mo b ti merlin

We av thousands of single ladies better dan married women asin many many baje baje abi heaven is only for married people?

Omo i dont follow society i do wat please God nd me

Societal rules dat was approved by people who felt cool bou it u now wanna impose dat on me? Sorry o

if husband no come e no come b dat i move on to greater things

I follow no bodies rule if it aint in d bible u can as well sell ur advise elsewehere

kamel4real2015:
e kabo abi eku erin ajo.And stop derailing thread like mosquitoes.