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I think there's a difference between being attracted to someone and seeing a future with them. Fuc.king with somebody and building with somebody ain't the same. That's just me personally.

Lust and love are truly two different things.

Folks ALWAYS confuse the two. Fuc.king with someone 'cause they're cute, or their sex is good, is not a indicator that you two are building. You two just lust after each other—no real feelings at all.

One's attraction should be much more than the physical (sex). It has to be more on the inside and almost as equal as the outside—the mindset, the compatibility, all this and much more. Remember, the physical will change, but your integrity lives on and that's the adhesive.

I don't know which side your bread's buttered but you may have to have an attraction for both. With some people, fuc.king with them and building with them depends on what type of relations you want with that person. Like I always affirm: WE are all wired differently.

Most importantly, both parties should specifically be well aware of where they stand. Lack of communication NEVER helps any situation. Building a relationship, the two must agree this is what they want together. Know what you want or spell it out or walk!!!

Conclusively, there are absolutely definite differences between an individual who's a KEEPER and an individual who's a THROWBACK. Make sure you know which page you're on.

Love is rare,lust is common.Lust is what most people in a relationship have for each other especially guys

Lust is the common thing now love existed last during our parents time, today lust for money,materialism rule the world at large

Florblu:
Love is rare,lust is common.Lust is what most people in a relationship have for each other especially guys

Florblu, please don't generalize. Lust isn't gender specific. You and I know that.

No way u can love someone without having lust for him/her

kamel4real2015:
Lust is the common thing now love existed last during our parents time, today lust for money,materialism rule the world at large

Love still exists, Kamel, trust me.

jerricho:
Love still exists, Kamel, trust me.

maybe but not like what we are told it was back then it is incompareable.

Florblu:
Love is rare,lust is common.Lust is what most people in a relationship have for each other especially guys

Nyanyanyanya esp guys.... See ur mouth

seyema:
No way u can love someone without having lust for him/her

Incorrect. You love your parents? Your siblings?

foolinlove:
Incorrect. You love your parents? Your siblings?

That's a different kind of love now

seyema:
That's a different kind of love now

It isn't. Love like God loves. Sex is separate from that, but sex is still intertwined with a marriage relationship.

seyema:
No way u can love someone without having lust for him/her

Seyema, I admire your lust for fannies. In case it's unclear, lust implies incredibly intense and utterly unbridled sexual desire. When you lust after a person, you're motivated more by lust than love. You're consumed by lust so satisfying your lusts become your one and only obligation—your major concern.

seyema:
No way u can love someone without having lust for him/her

seconded

foolinlove:
Incorrect. You love your parents? Your siblings?

seyema:
That's a different kind of love now

Lol, “…a different kind of love…”? Seyema, please, do enlighten us.

seyema:
No way u can love someone without having lust for him/her

DESNAT:
seconded

You guys inspire me.

jerricho:
Seyema, I admire your lust for fannies. In case it's unclear, lust implies incredibly intense and utterly unbridled sexual desire. When you lust after a person, you're motivated more by lust than love. You're consumed by lust so satisfying your lusts become your one and only obligation—your major concern.

No, I don't agree with that

B4 u go after a girl/guy, it's something you will see 1st and that simply Lust.

Probably maybe she have big bobs or yansh or figure 8 etc is that not lust?
Maybe later her character might make the love to build up

All i can say is wen someone is d constant cause of ur tears sorrow nd sadness u are nt loved bt used d worst feelings in life is being used up

Lust is common but no matter how common lust it i will surely find my own uncommon love nd peace.

Wat u wish for ursef now is d projection of how fufiled ur life journet will b.

Love above lust anyday

The things u can see last longer and are real dan things u see

jerricho:
I think there's a difference between being attracted to someone and seeing a future with them. Fuc.king with somebody and building with somebody ain't the same. That's just me personally.

Lust and love are truly two different things.

Folks ALWAYS confuse the two. Fuc.king with someone 'cause they're cute, or their sex is good, is not a indicator that you two are building. You two just lust after each other—no real feelings at all.

One's attraction should be much more than the physical (sex). It has to be more on the inside and almost as equal as the outside—the mindset, the compatibility, all this and much more. Remember, the physical will change, but your integrity lives on and that's the adhesive.

I don't know which side your bread's buttered but you may have to have an attraction for both. With some people, fuc.king with them and building with them depends on what type of relations you want with that person. Like I always affirm: WE are all wired differently.

Most importantly, both parties should specifically be well aware of where they stand. Lack of communication NEVER helps any situation. Building a relationship, the two must agree this is what they want together. Know what you want or spell it out or walk!!!

Conclusively, there are absolutely definite differences between an individual who's a KEEPER and an individual who's a THROWBACK. Make sure you know which page you're on.

Here's one of those very few men who do experience love as distinct from lust.
Majority of men can't

obadizena:
Here's one of those very few men who do experience love as distinct from lust.
Majority of men can't

'Nuff Respect!