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Good day pals. I met this girl January this year, seriously it was love at first sight and I normally don't believe in it but immediately I saw her I just could not stop thinking about her. Not that she wore make up and all that, she was putting on this simple hair style and a gown. To cut the long story shot, I asked her out and it was not until February ending she decided to go with me. The first day she came to see me I was trying to kiss her and all that and then she said she has her rules while dating. No sex, no nothing. My first reaction was maybe she was just joking but this girl was serious, reluctantly I agreed because I really loved this girl. Everything was going smoothly, she even introduced me to her mother and siblings, at that moment I already decided I was goin to marry this girl but I noticed something whenever we have misunderstanding I would be the one to always apologize whether I was wrong or right all because I could not stay without talking to her. There were one or two times I could not take it and decided to call it quit but still went back begging her. Early last month i noticed we were not talking like we use to be it calls or whatsapp. I told her about it and she was like she's busy this days, I kept quite. This continued for the next 2 weeks and it was then she said her past experiences was affecting her. I pleaded with her to share she refused. After that she said she needed a break to clear her head, I agreed with her. Some days ago she said she was now ok but she still acted the same way. I decided to call it quits with her because seriously I can't be in a relationship where I feel I'm not appreciated or valued. When I told her all she said was 'OK no problem' . My question now is what's I wrong in putting my happiness first because since this whole thing started its been affecting me generally even at work. To be serious I still love her. Please house what should I do?

You are better of without her,she doesn't value you its obvious....that's why I don't encourage chasing girls for more than a week

Trust me a girl who really likes you will not stall you for up to a month,its your loss not hers,cos you love her more,but life isn't fair or maybe it is cos its unfair to all in some way!


Bottom line,learn from this and move on!

Nothing wrong

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czarr:
You are better of without her,she doesn't value you its obvious....that's why I don't encourage chasing girls for more than a week

Trust me a girl who really likes you will not stall you for up to a month,its your loss not hers,cos you love her more,but life isn't fair or maybe it is cos its unfair to all in some way!


Bottom line,learn from this and move on!

Exactly bro, I always say it, if the feeling is mutual, there is no need for playing hard to get. And I don't go for ladies who I am having doubts won't accept me. I don't have the time to be asking and asking and asking, how about that talk naa?

OP, you did absolutely nothing wrong. In fact, that's your best bet. Dump her silly ass. I dislike ladies that aren't apologetic. trust me, you're better off without her

*Move on Op.....



* You go meet person wey love you scarra.....

*if you continue to dey worry urself e go affect you not dey girl


*****We love people who don't care about us and let go of dey ones who will give up everything just to keep you......

I guess she had a lot of people on the queue that asked her out. She had to go one after the other....


You did the right thing though.

Seriously i think she used you to get over someone or something...her statement after you call it quit wasnt nice at all...nt even a y??




Just move on and forget about her....itz nt easy i know,bt u have to try!GOODLUCK.

I appreciate all your words

I won't lie, I didn't read this sh#t.

You are a butt licker. Girls don't stay and respect sissy men. Man up and take charge of your relationship next time.

u are better off without her!!! u know that already

Be free from the shackles of confused girls! Amen..




Puuuuffffffffffffffffffffffffffff... oya receive my annointing and fall down

veecent:
Good day pals. I met this girl January this year, seriously it was love at first sight and I normally don't believe in it but immediately I saw her I just could not stop thinking about her. Not that she wore make up and all that, she was putting on this simple hair style and a gown. To cut the long story shot, I asked her out and it was not until February ending she decided to go with me. The first day she came to see me I was trying to kiss her and all that and then she said she has her rules while dating. No sex, no nothing. My first reaction was maybe she was just joking but this girl was serious, reluctantly I agreed because I really loved this girl. Everything was going smoothly, she even introduced me to her mother and siblings, at that moment I already decided I was goin to marry this girl but I noticed something whenever we have misunderstanding I would be the one to always apologize whether I was wrong or right all because I could not stay without talking to her. There were one or two times I could not take it and decided to call it quit but still went back begging her. Early last month i noticed we were not talking like we use to be it calls or whatsapp. I told her about it and she was like she's busy this days, I kept quite. This continued for the next 2 weeks and it was then she said her past experiences was affecting her. I pleaded with her to share she refused. After that she said she needed a break to clear her head, I agreed with her. Some days ago she said she was now ok but she still acted the same way. I decided to call it quits with her because seriously I can't be in a relationship where I feel I'm not appreciated or valued. When I told her all she said was 'OK no problem' . My question now is what's I wrong in putting my happiness first because since this whole thing started its been affecting me generally even at work. To be serious I still love her. Please house what should I do?

My brother,dont regret breaking up with her she ain't worth it cos she knows you love her and she's taking advantage of that.