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Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:03pm On Jul 04, 2016

We know that Lying is bad.. I accept. I Lie also, I accept...

But what if the lie will save the relationship from Breakup, can't it be justified in the relationship? sad

Why i ask is that, A friend of mine lied to his wife that he has never slept with any woman outside their marriage cheesy

, But I know that He has committed the Act just once because of the position he found himself then. Though he is thinking of telling the wife the truth, but I am against it because psychologically, he will become a "liar" in the eyes of the wife. And I don't want a crack in the relationship.

So what do you think, Is it necessary once in a while to just chip in some lies? embarassed

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Cutehector(m): 5:07pm On Jul 04, 2016

Well in as much as I have lied a thousand times in all my relationships, I noticed that in some, it helped.

But that doesn't justify lying to your bf/gf.

When you lie to him/her, you don't respect them, and when there is no respect, relationship is heading for the rocks.

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Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by mcversatile(m): 5:07pm On Jul 04, 2016

It neccessary... Infact without it relationship cant be intresting.

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by krak101(m): 5:08pm On Jul 04, 2016

Well at times you can't help these things. See it as doing what's necessary to save the day

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:22pm On Jul 04, 2016

mcversatile:
It neccessary... Infact without it relationship cant be intresting.

Cheat spotted cheesy

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Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:22pm On Jul 04, 2016

krak101:
Well at times you can't help these things. See it as doing what's necessary to save the day

I dey tell you grin

...

na dem dem cheesy

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:23pm On Jul 04, 2016

Cutehector:
Well in as much as I have lied a thousand times in all my relationships, I noticed that in some, it helped.

But that doesn't justify lying to your bf/gf.

When you lie to him/her, you don't respect them, and when there is no respect, relationship is heading for the rocks.

On Point as always

#respect

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jul 04, 2016

Cutehector:
Well in as much as I have lied a thousand times in all my relationships, I noticed that in some, it helped.

But that doesn't justify lying to your bf/gf.

When you lie to him/her, you don't respect them, and when there is no respect, relationship is heading for the rocks.

So you get sense like dis......... Nice one grin

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Cutehector(m): 5:33pm On Jul 04, 2016

SANDOSKI:
So you get sense like dis......... Nice one

if I slap u eh. angry

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
We know that Lying is bad.. I accept. I Lie also, I accept...

But what if the lie will save the relationship from Breakup, can't it be justified in the relationship?

Why i ask is that, A friend of mine lied to his wife that he has never slept with any woman outside their marriage , But I know that He has committed the Act just once because of the position he found himself then. Though he is thinking of telling the wife the truth, but I am against it because psychologically, he will become a "liar" in the eyes of the wife. And I don't want a crack in the relationship.

So what do you think, Is it necessary once in a while to just chip in some lies?

maybe or maybe not

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:37pm On Jul 04, 2016

Berlyn:
maybe or maybe not

What type of answer is this na huh

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
We know that Lying is bad.. I accept. I Lie also, I accept...

But what if the lie will save the relationship from Breakup, can't it be justified in the relationship?

Why i ask is that, A friend of mine lied to his wife that he has never slept with any woman outside their marriage , But I know that He has committed the Act just once because of the [color=#000000]position[/color] he found himself then. Though he is [color=#000000]thinking of telling the wife the truth, [/color]but I am against it because psychologically, he will become a "liar" in the eyes of the wife. And I don't want a crack in the relationship.

So what do you think, Is it necessary once in a while to just chip in some lies?

I always think one has a choice when it comes to situations of this nature, you either choose not or choose to eat the forbidden fruit, no matter the situation, YOU MADE A CHOICE. Anyway, your friend would really be stupid to tell the wife as you have pointed out. Better cement his mouth and move on. Who on earth reports such?? huh

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
What type of answer is this na

is either YES/NAH

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:45pm On Jul 04, 2016

SANDOSKI:
So you get sense like dis......... Nice one

No come derail this thread wey dey head to front page oooo.. angry

Make i no report you give lalasticlala angry

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 5:46pm On Jul 04, 2016

Berlyn:
is either YES/NAH

Chai God

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2016

Cutehector:
if I slap u eh.

If you slap me, I go slap you back. I get power ooo tongue

.. No try me tongue

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Cutehector(m): 5:58pm On Jul 04, 2016

SANDOSKI:
If you slap me, I go slap you back. I get power ooo .. No try me

shatap dia!!! I will just tear ur pant and rape u if u talk anythn..

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
Chai God

you want me to say yes abi den lala will see this and he will start reasoning me as a lair

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 5:59pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
No come derail this thread wey dey head to front page oooo..

Make i no report you give lalasticlala

No make me vex start to derail em... I tell person nice one na be derailing.
Report na, you think say I dey fear ban... tongue

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Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Richiy(f): 6:04pm On Jul 04, 2016

Lies will be unnecessary if you just stay away from what will make you lie. Nothing beats clean hands and neat conscience.

But, them no go hear undecided

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by GoldenJAT(m): 6:23pm On Jul 04, 2016

lie is a necessary evil in some instances... it's part and parcel of our existence, we even lie in some situations that we would love to tell d truth.. it's a weakness every1 has.. it's necessary but not justified.

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 6:23pm On Jul 04, 2016

SANDOSKI:
No make me vex start to derail em... I tell person nice one na be derailing. Report na, you think say I dey fear ban...

oya wait na...

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 6:24pm On Jul 04, 2016

Berlyn:
you want me to say yes abi den lala will see this and he will start reasoning me as a lair

Nothing for you and lala...

Lala is married with kids...

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
oya wait na...

Report..... If dem ban me. I owe you a kiss kiss

*laughs

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by tens4real(m): 6:26pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
We know that Lying is bad.. I accept. I Lie also, I accept...

But what if the lie will save the relationship from Breakup, can't it be justified in the relationship?

Why i ask is that, A friend of mine lied to his wife that he has never slept with any woman outside their marriage , But I know that He has committed the Act just once because of the position he found himself then. Though he is thinking of telling the wife the truth, but I am against it because psychologically, he will become a "liar" in the eyes of the wife. And I don't want a crack in the relationship.

So what do you think, Is it necessary once in a while to just chip in some lies?

any man who has never lied to his woman has absolutely got no feelings for her.. quote me anywhere

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 6:28pm On Jul 04, 2016

SANDOSKI:
Report..... If dem ban me. I owe you a kiss

*laughs

Chai... kiss...
Lemme report to one super Mod...
Wait oo... is the kiss on Nairaland??... lol

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 6:29pm On Jul 04, 2016

tens4real:
any man who has never lied to his woman has absolutely got no feelings for her.. quote me anywhere

Na dem dem...

I hail ooo.... lol

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by empress101(f): 6:32pm On Jul 04, 2016

itz necessary coz it prevents problem... but too mch of it is bad.. undecided

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by BiafraBushBoy(op): 6:32pm On Jul 04, 2016

GoldenJAT:
lie is a necessary evil in some instances... it's part and parcel of our existence, we even lie in some situations that we would love to tell d truth.. it's a weakness every1 has.. it's necessary but not justified.

Respect from a prof like you...

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by tens4real(m): 6:32pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
Na dem dem...
I hail ooo.... lol

I doff my hat oo.... indeed Na dem dem

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by GoldenJAT(m): 6:40pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
Respect from a prof like you...

hope I Mk small sense shall?

Re: Is Lying Sometimes In A Relationship Necessary? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Jul 04, 2016

BiafraBushBoy:
Chai... kiss...

Lemme report to one super Mod...

Wait oo... is the kiss on Nairaland??... lol

Outside Nl....

grin

.... M waiting wink

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