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My elder brother wife called me and complain about her husband infidelity.

For her to open up to me means she can't talk it any longer as she was crying on the phone. Am kind of devastated now about the development. She also called my elder sis who according to her she has called him.

He is my elder brother. The first son and second child of 5 children. He is working and am the fourth child but I don't depend on him for anything as am living on my own. He is seen as father to us all after we lost our dad.

My problem now is how to call him to discus the issue with him. How do I present the matter to him for him not to see it as disrespect

sori bt ur moniker got me ROTFL!

The wife should do the talking. She should talk to her husband about it herself. Stuff like this is sensitive. It could blow out of proportions. Chatter travels fast they say.

Pray for him, u should. Not take their marriage personal,cos if decides he won't marry her again, u won't marry her, or will you?

AccidentalGenius:
The wife should do the talking. She should talk to her husband about it herself. Stuff like this is sensitive. It could blow out of proportions. Chatter travels fast they say.

They are married for seven years.

According to her, she don talk tire. She has explore everything possible but he is still on it

According to my elder sister, she has already filed a divorce suit against my brother

Honestly there is nothing you can do about it.. . If his

love for his wife and children cannot stop him you can't...

Just lock up and pray fervently not to end up with a husband like your brother... OK??

Will your brother continue to eat ogbonor Ehn





Your monicker tho'

I'm not so sure you can talk to him.

If you've got an elderly uncle or aunt you can trust, maybe your dad's or mom's older sibling whom you know he will respect, then tell them. But please remember to let your brother know later you told them.
So that he doesn't take it out on her.

SexyRat:
They are married for seven years.

According to her, she don talk tire. She has explore everything possible but he is still on it

According to my elder sister, she has already filed a divorce suit against my brother

what would you tell your brother when you call him? To stop cheating? You have to understand there's really nothing you can do or say to him that his wife hasn't already told him. Or is there something different you'd tell him?