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I had a similar encounter with a pretty girl in my school which i met during the semester, but mine instead made us closer because i knew that she had feelings for me.. I went to visit her during the holiday, and when I was set to live, she decided to followed me, we got to my place, we discussed, play, and when she was about to live, i gave her a soft kiss.. We both stood up, I gave her another.. and when we were about to go out, i gave her a deep hug. From that day, the bondage increased... So, i think its not only sex that they want, you could handle them in other ways order than sex since you don't want to have sex with her.. Though, i still don't see anything wrong with the sex... But your choice matters a lot. Hope you find this helpful?

Guy
The lady came for sex or Moni or both ..but u didn't offer her any..so it was just a waste of her time ...why would she continue with a dry bone .. That is the koko

hmmm no b lie.i don xperience am lik 3 tyms.d 1st one came d 2nd tym nd afta a while yab me.she askd if i cnt decode things.na vex clear her doubt dat day.d 2nd babe,we were 2geda bt she was confus wit contradictin tlks lol.notin apen n she no cum again.d 3rd spoke nicely bt dere ws no mov by me cos i no her guy.d recent 1 wen visit 4 skul,at 1st i dey my own dey tink say na just frnd visit.bt i just risk am mak move nd tins apen.guy no dull lik dat again cos gals cn lie even wen dey nid u die.4get wetin dem dey pour comot 4 mouth.bt b wise.if she criously no want u gas no den free d mofo.wrng impresn last 4va lol.tak hart

Valprof:
ur are a miserable histrion....so op shud hv givn her the whole of kfc? na ur type dy use handout money buy woman food stuff only to wail later

..."you are a miserable histron"....use your common sense. Anyway common sense is not common...

sinaj:
Your grammar chased her away

Um... are u related to Jenifa

Tah, I don see you nah English Prof. ITK

Seeeeeeee:
I was joking before, for guys here if girl call you as op was called make sure you fuc.k her, i repeat make sure u fuc.k her... She came because she needed sex. While i was doing my NYSC na so one of our female corper call me say she dey show my house guy she nearly killed me with sex.. I started the play but she later told me that was what she wanted. She said if to say i dull as i been wan do na the last time she for talk to me be dat...

bad adviser
All ladies ain't the same

Godswillnwaoma:
See me see wahala oooo, there is this female friend of mine for about two years now and we are very close to each other.
We talk about everything like education, politics, love and relationship, she even told me about her boyfriend who promise to marry her after she must have graduated. Whenever she had issues with her boyfriend she will run to me for advice which I have never disappointed her because I give her the best advice to make sure her relationship with the guy is going smoothly.
I wanted to woo her but I later changed my mind immediately she reviewed her relationship with the guy to me, but I still maintain the mutual friendship because she is a nice and friendly person.
Fast forward last week, I received a call from her that she is coming to my place which I asked her why, she said she wanted to know where I live I said ok no problem.
Few hours before she came, I package myself wella by arranging my room, bought two litres' of fuel for my generator incase nepa Bleep up,I enter kitchen and start preparing indomie with eggs because I wanted to make her feel home when she come because this is her first visit.
So as i was in the kitchen I heard a knock on my door and here she come.
We ate the noodle, watched firms and talked about many things. Inside me I have no intention of touching, kissing or any other immoral things in my mind because first, she is not my girlfriend, secondly she is into a serious relationship and thirdly I see her as just as a friend.
To my biggest surprise, immediately she left my place , days later I called her on phone she refused picking my calls. Up till as I.m typing this she has not pick my call.

Op did she do this, lay on the bed backing you pretending she's feeling sleepy? If she did this and you didn't touch her u messed up big time bro.

Something similar happened to me some years back when I was still active in the 'game'. I invited a 'big' Chinese chic whom I had been wooing for quite some time to my crib. Since I didn't want to give her the impression I was a pvssy chasing dude, I uncharacteristically played cool - my greatest undoing . I served her drinks, talked and watched a movie with her. I had my arm on her shoulder but did nothing afterwards. My true self kept telling to 'enter the place' that she was there for the taking but my 'fake' self kept urging me to play cool. I gave in to my latter. After about two hours, she thanked me for my hospitality and left. Guess what? She deleted me from her Wechat, blocked me on QQ chat and deleted my phone number! I blamed myself for days letting her go. From then until I got married, I never let any 'one' get away!

Godswillnwaoma:
that is a typical lie because I.m still a student, as a student I live fine and my self con is well decorated and pimped.

So what are you saying.

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Godswillnwaoma:
na wow oooooo. I never think of that even if i did I don't like touching a girl I see as just a friend.

good boy.. The boy is good ode lo n je be.

And she won't pick it either

Perfectionist11:
Typical African girl..

Only God knows how many of these girls have missed out on "ideal relationships/stratospheric s3x" just cause they couldn't make the slightest of efforts 2 pursue what they want...

American girls I salute your irrepressible confidence.

An American girl would be like...I wanna shower show me 2 d bathroom..after some minutes she'll just scream 4 help/ask ye 2 bring her towel on getting there she'll just say. Do u like what u see?..

Na so u go enter d bathroom with her...

Abeg tell me more about American girls. Personal experience o. How they fork, what extent they can go for forks sake etc etc

STFUareyouG0d:

When you know her reason why she acted like that give us feedback, it is a learning process for us all.

I wish I had VivkyRotex 's thoughts on this.

Godswillnwaoma:
so when a girl who is just your friend you for the first time you start pressing her breast and abusing her sexually.
Guy I.m not like that ok

if u are not like that wetin come make u bring this topic since non of the coment seems to satisfy u?

She want Bleep u give her indomie,no she call u she de come.

Send her a text Message dat u sorry u didn't ask her 4 sex

Godswillnwaoma:
na wow oooooo. I never think of that even if i did I don't like touching a girl I see as just a friend.

what the fvck did you just say?...
you be big maga where they sell friend zone space for guys!!!
Better stil,next time drink some liquor before any girl come n make e dey smell for ur mouth o..After d show n d party,u claim to have been drunk,bt make sure she sweat under

daviddagreat:
Girls are d most confusing beings there eva was.

Happened to me once. a friend to my girlfriend then spent the night at my place. the fact she was my girlfriend's friend didnt make me have any intentions

Since den she's been pissed at me .

if u do all men are same

If u don't u too dey dull

you should be thankful to God, you escaped a boyfriend snatcher, beware of such a person if you eventually marry you girlfriend

Chepy1:
Ah, okay. I'll check my mail for it

she was expecting more than u did.

I don't know about other ladies, if I visit you for the first time and you make a move on me,that's the end,you just showed me you are a fvck boy

Seeeeeeee:
I was joking before, for guys here if girl call you as op was called make sure you fuc.k her, i repeat make sure u fuc.k her... She came because she needed sex. While i was doing my NYSC na so one of our female corper call me say she dey show my house guy she nearly killed me with sex.. I started the play but she later told me that was what she wanted. She said if to say i dull as i been wan do na the last time she for talk to me be dat...

Serious, They Want Sex?

She wants you to Bleep her, do u expect her to tell u that Next time use ur upper....her toto is wet..

Boring:
you didnt make her va.jay_jay wet dats ur mistake op.

do not be fooled. All girls think they are unique. 99.9 percent of girls are not unique..

u don lose dis one sha better move on

u go wrong in dat aspect. may b, ma B ni ooo she may b nursing somting in mind before she got home, ur calculations is wrong bro u will say most lady u knew Arn't unique, ladies arnt dat so useless now...

sinaj:
Your grammar chased her away
Um... are u related to Jenifa

i need to sleep on this, this girl is funny..wake me up later..happy weekend.

Kindycute:
This has happened to me twice with the same girl, first time she came I fvcked up, second time she came I fvcked up. mehnnn I fvck up big time in 2 different occasions, she even gimme second chance and I fvck up, now she has sworn never to come to ma house, she was even mocking me on WhatsApp that I'm not bold, too weak, mehnnn if she ever carry her 2 left legs come my house again, I'll make sure she can't walk home... so be it. Thank God she's planning to come when she's on holiday from school. Her Vagina go hear am

I no fit laugh, guy you get luck say you even get second chance me one that once.the worst part be say when I rent house for mafoluku oshodi I didn't realize she was living directly opposite my house, that brought back all the bad memories I was trying hard to forget.
We still keep in touch though she is married now with three kids someday when I visit naija I want to visit her maybe talk to her about what happened that faithful day, I m not sure if it's a good idea though.

tahiwopreety:
u go wrong in dat aspect. may b, ma B ni ooo she may b nursing somting in mind before she got home, ur calculations is wrong bro u will say most lady u knew Arn't unique, ladies arnt dat so useless now...

first of all i take you are a female rite.. ..but u will agree with me that most ladies dont know wat dey want with dia infinite rule book of dos and donts..maybe u are the 0.01 percent

2dugged:
I don't know about other ladies, if I visit you for the first time and you make a move on me,that's the end,you just showed me you are a fvck boy

you are correct I almost lost a girl those days just because I put my arms on her shoulder. Guys need to understand how to read female body language. Not every girl that comes around want sex but like I said we should learn to decode. Just last month a Kenyan lady here in japan, we are friendly men she got one massive backside, from the day I met her I have been hitting on her but via wassapp she told me that she can't have anything with me because we are friendly bla bla but two days ago I was going for shopping she requested I get her hair shampoo and conditioner which I did, she met me to pick em up right there inside my car I kissed her touched her breast but she didn't try to stop me I undid her zipper the next surprising question she asked me was do you have condom? Hell no I didn't have because i didn't know things was going to get this far.
Guys remember she said nothing for me abi why she come dey ask me for CD?

sinaj:
Your grammar chased her away

Um... are u related to Jenifa

you harsh ooo

PushPlay:
I don't know why but girls usually don't forgive men who don't touch them when they visit .

That is a big crime bro!

Yep, you're damn right.

Tenkobos:
Why didn't you press her breast

the guy fuccked up bigtime,how can fuccking her prevent her from getting married to who she want?
I wish I was the one,I will buy vega plus man and woman cream,I will make sure I hammar so that you will come again.
I no the carry kombi play.