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How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 10:36pm On Jul 15, 2016

For close to 3 months now, i hv not seen my lady and seriously is affecting me badly because of temptation from girls around. So my question is hw do u guyz cope with long distance relatnship? cos am thinking of getting a side chick

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 10:38pm On Jul 15, 2016

Get a side chick cos u dont love her

Ever thought of how she is coping too wud u b glad she gets a side dude too?

Its nt easy just b focused
D distance is for a while

Soon u both will b togeda nd enjoy d closeness

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jul 15, 2016*

Get a side chick asap!!! even if she promises you that she is faithful, still go and get a side chick asap!
its not like she is ur wife or somtin! look at it this way!
the way u feel when the pastor preaching to you is in-front of you,
is diff from the way you will feel when he is far away preaching over the phone!
long distance relationships are just sweet romantic stories!
they never work!!!!!

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Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Bluezy13(m): 10:45pm On Jul 15, 2016

1. Call and texts and chat frequently...Make it a routine to exchange at least one text as soon as you wake up in the morning and at night before you turn in.

2. Make sure you both obey number 1.
And make her know you are sad whenever she doesn't comply. And never forget to comply.

3. Be sure to explain any unintended failings with apology simultaneously regarding number 1.
With time she will reciprocate... that's if she loves you.

4. Be sometimes romantic or even sexchat during number 1.

5. Well keep a side chick incase of necessity.

I'm still intimate with bae for over 7 months now.
Thanks to the above self-discovered rule(s)

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by tomquest: 10:51pm On Jul 15, 2016

Skype helped me a lot when I passed through that sh!t. If premarital sex isn't your priority then distance is nothing when communication is great.

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 10:55pm On Jul 15, 2016

Three months only... Oga please let the girl be...then U can be having sidechicks upandown

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 10:56pm On Jul 15, 2016

2BB4CB3E:
wont be tempted to talk!!!!

talk jare

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Nobody: 11:00pm On Jul 15, 2016

Thanks to skype,tango,imo.Not easy tho but wetin person pikin go do naw?Communication is the real thing.If u lack that op,forget about the relationship.

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:03pm On Jul 15, 2016

halfricanadian:
Get a side chick cos u dont love her
Ever thought of how she is coping too wud u b glad she gets a side dude too?
Its nt easy just b focused D distance is for a while
Soon u both will b togeda nd enjoy d closeness

tanks so much i do love her but is not just easy

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:05pm On Jul 15, 2016

prettythicksme:
Thanks to skype,tango,imo.Not easy tho but wetin person pikin go do naw?Communication is the real thing.If u lack that op,forget about the relationship.

we dont hv problem with communication but is just d physical emotion

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by eph12(m): 11:06pm On Jul 15, 2016

So what you miss basically is the sex not her?

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 11:06pm On Jul 15, 2016

Muslee4luv:
tanks so much i do love her but is not just easy

U av to endure dis phase if u love her

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by ronald4lif(m): 11:06pm On Jul 15, 2016

Don't do one, I find it a waste of time. Any relationship were I can't see bae average of once a month is not for me.

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:08pm On Jul 15, 2016

Bluezy13:
1. Call and texts and chat frequently...Make it a routine to exchange at least one text as soon as you wake up in the morning and at night before you turn in.

2. Make sure you both obey number 1.
And make her know you are sad whenever she doesn't comply. And never forget to comply.

3. Be sure to explain any unintended failings with apology simultaneously regarding number 1.
With time she will reciprocate... that's if she loves you.

4. Be sometimes romantic or even sexchat during number 1.

5. Well keep a side chick incase of necessity.

I'm still intimate with bae for over 7 months now.
Thanks to the above self-discovered rule(s)

ok tanks we kip in touch daily but d issue is dat am use to her beinga round me, even if is just laying nxt to me

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:10pm On Jul 15, 2016

tomquest:
Skype helped me a lot when I passed through that sh!t. If premarital sex isn't your priority then distance is nothing when communication is great.

tank but it is

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:11pm On Jul 15, 2016

Ladycloud:
Three months only... Oga please let the girl be...then U can be having sidechicks upandown

lolz, am just use to seeing her then almost everyday dat is y

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jul 15, 2016

Muslee4luv:
For close to 3 months now, i hv not seen my lady and seriously is affecting me badly because of temptation from girls around. So my question is hw do u guyz cope with long distance relatnship? cos am thinking of getting a side chick

[color=#64dd16]Before you get a "side chick" ,be sure to break up with the woman yer with 1st.[/color]

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:14pm On Jul 15, 2016

ronald4lif:
Don't do one, I find it a waste of time. Any relationship were I can see bae average of once a month is not for me.

tank bro but how do u handle it, knowing fully well dat u are committed to one and d other one is for passing time

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jul 15, 2016

Ladycloud:
talk jare

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Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:16pm On Jul 15, 2016

eph12:
So what you miss basically is the sex not her?

lolz, everytin esp her physical present

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by ronald4lif(m): 11:17pm On Jul 15, 2016

Muslee4luv:
tank bro but how do u handle it, knowing fully well dat u are committed to one and d other one is for passing time

Not sure I understood you or you misunderstood me rather. I said I don't do distance relationship. It's a waste of time coz I can't be loyal to her as I'll end up cheating with someone within reach.

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by DRISKLEF(m): 11:21pm On Jul 15, 2016

How else than to just cope? LOL

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by blayde(m): 11:24pm On Jul 15, 2016

WTF who does long distance? It's so booorin. U'll b surprised bae has moved ahead sef. Never trust girls.

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by eph12(m): 11:24pm On Jul 15, 2016

Muslee4luv:
lolz, everytin esp her physical present

Yea right.

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Bluezy13(m): 11:30pm On Jul 15, 2016

Muslee4luv:
ok tanks we kip in touch daily but d issue is dat am use to her beinga round me, even if is just laying nxt to me

Seriousness and sincerity overrules.

I'm the i-don't-care kind of a guy.
When bae came to me, she paved the way for me to ask her out which she heartily agreed.
I tried to make her understand that I'm very unserious in this dating headache but she insisted we remain.

So, she developed the habit of calling and texting me every day via normal contact #4 text per SMS.
Initially, I was unserious about the whole thing but some day, she queried the living unseriousness out of me such that I had to start reciprocating the SMS and calls gradually and apologies when necessary just to appreciate her effort.

At present, I find it difficult to stay comfortably from morning till noon/evening without an hello to &/ from her.
Ridiculous but we only text via SMS only, no social media.

Hmmm...
My world tho...
I think it might help...

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 11:34pm On Jul 15, 2016

Muslee4luv:
lolz, am just use to seeing her then almost everyday dat is y

then three months is not much.. Endure. Unless ur the sex freak kinda person

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 11:35pm On Jul 15, 2016

2BB4CB3E:

Get a side chick asap!!! even if she promises you that she is faithful, still go and get a side chick asap!
its not like she is ur wife or somtin! look at it this way!
the way u feel when the pastor preaching to you is in-front of you,
is diff from the way you will feel when he is far away preaching over the phone!
long distance relationships are just sweet romantic stories!
they never work!!!!!

oops!

Re: How Do U Guyz Cope With Distance Relationship by Muslee4luv(op): 11:49pm On Jul 15, 2016

Ladycloud:
then three months is not much.. Endure. Unless ur the sex freak kinda person

yea kind off. Anyway tanks

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