Well, I have no much to say. You have learnt your lessons the hard way.

hahn:


It is too obvious that the story is fabricated

I never want to coment but when I saw ur post I'm forced to do so! I just want to clerify on the statement fabrication! I tot my wife posted this because I had exactly thesame experience! Small aguement, her brother and sister will bring vehicle to my house and pack her things! I always go begging them when I feel somtimes I'm at fault but my wife has pride! The last time was a small aguement, she forced me to slap her for the 1st time the act I later regreted as a man! B4 I knew it, police detained me alongside deadly criminals! I received beating in police cell, my brain deactivated! This is not funny my brother, I had act collapse b4 police got scared and took me to hospital subsequetly released me! My wife still the one to ahead to court sumon me fo a divource! OMG! I was so glad to receive the divorce letter. I went to court and affirm my rediness to accept the divorce move. To my suprice, my wife went back withdrew the case came back begging claiming she was misled by her ppl! Now we are back together and she never show pride on me.

ChangeIsCostant:
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below;

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html

very simple u too go and marry @ age 32yr

If you get married again.... Bet you will regrey nothin

Dat man is like me sha.... Any woman wey give me headache for my marriage

God be with you in ur future endeavors..... Il divorce you....settle you.... Move on

Cos am enterprising and can recover frm any bullshit

grade 12 baba this mama no be 9ja get am, anyways I believe we'll learn from it....you could actually lose your lady that way.

Not all tru stories are meant 2 teach..it may b fake bt small leson dey sha.. jst sayin ooo

Make Una no curse me

admax:
I join you in hailing her too

The story lacks substance. Too many holes.

hope4nigeria:
I never want to coment but when I saw ur post I'm forced to do so! I just want to clerify on the statement fabrication! I tot my wife posted this because I had exactly thesame experience! Small aguement, her brother and sister will bring vehicle to my house and pack her things! I always go begging them when I feel somtimes I'm at fault but my wife has pride! The last time was a small aguement, she forced me to slap her for the 1st time the act I later regreted as a man! B4 I knew it, police detained me alongside deadly criminals! I received beating in police cell, my brain deactivated! This is not funny my brother, I had act collapse b4 police got scared and took me to hospital subsequetly released me! My wife still the one to ahead to court sumon me fo a divource! OMG! I was so glad to receive the divorce letter. I went to court and affirm my rediness to accept the divorce move. To my suprice, my wife went back withdrew the case came back begging claiming she was misled by her ppl! Now we are back together and she never show pride on me.

Don't mind those people saying its a fake story. Real life occurrences like this are rampant, with the wives listening to bad advice anyhow and only realising their mistakes when it's too late. The fiends that advice them never tell the wife what they themselves are going thru.

Mynd44:
I hail your story telling skills

GirlAfrik:
Super story
Fabricated story

All those saying fake , fabricated I think u lack life experience.

There is nothing here that is far fetched.

It happened my brother last two years august.

I was in the middle of it all begged and begged all to avail. The man is now married to another woman.

Parents support is Wat actually escalates a lot of this issues. Once the family supports the wife negatively.
That marriage is over.

If you ever get married next time.........

ChangeIsCostant:
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below;

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html

Pride is as bad as worshipping idols.

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Such a sad story


Abani da koni bani debe

Too bad

Mynd44:
I hail your story telling skills

You think she lied?

Stories that touch the heart.

iornenge81:
read this same story here a year ago

Na lie

bebe2:


All those saying fake , fabricated I think u lack life experience.

There is nothing here that is far fetched.

It happened my brother last two years august.

It happened to a friend's mother too.She said she was very small when it happened.Till date the mother never got married.But the man is married with three sons................So similar to this story.

Thats there problem vain pride and listening to ppl...main cause of women's problem.

So many women are on that track of destruction as we speak. At times they cant help it because you cannot give what you don't have. So many women like that learnt that habit from their mother. It has become part of them until the day they are kicked out of their marriage

Guys are not emotional creatures women are, if you want your man to be good to you give him just one thing RESPECT, don't puncture his ego Let him see your admiration of him in your eyes it drives us crazy, and we can go to any length to give you all the LOVE you desire. Ladies Be Wise.

for a man needs in a relationship the scale of preference is
1. Respect
2. Love

for a woman one becomes two and two becomes one.

PrettyCrystal:
go and marry again

u think he easy..
u think say dem dey pick husband 4 road en..
u for don see Don jazzy pick for road..
young sharp tear rubber never see husband na divorced second hand abusive woman go see....motor boy self go style for her

Who doesn't know this story was fabricated?

Sure, you have a point.
Only kids curse on Nairaland and social media platforms. I am too responsible and matured to insult you for your opinion.

idesylvester:
Not all tru stories are meant 2 teach..it may b fake bt small leson dey sha.. jst sayin ooo

Make Una no curse me

2dugged:
op ; story story



me; story



op; once up a time


me ; time time

it's best to learn from someone else's experience. I pray you don't get entangled in such kind of situation. This lesson is one our ladies should take serious oh...

To who?

PrettyCrystal:
go and marry again

Woman u really need this like ten times

So touching, bt its all her fault.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.



this dude wanted out. He didnt even try to fight for property.


meanwhile yo stvpid as shit

Even if the story is a fiction, there are very important morals in it. Bravo, OP. Afterall, the wisest of men is he who learns from the mistakes of others.

e pain am

So sad! This is a lesson to other women out there who always push their men to the wail thinking they re doing the right, receiving shit in forming of advice. Its unfortunate that what people marries today are "Animal call humans". May God give you another man!