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Osagie writes;
Dear Nairalanders please I have decided to come public on this demeaning juvenile attitude of masturbation and porn addicted life style, I come from a christian home and I know and worship God with my whole heart, yet I still masturbate more that 8 times daily.
I got this very strong addiction with boobs and ass that almost every lady I see the first part of their body my eyes sets on is their behind, and wen am alone I work on it via masturbating, this attitude has so affected me that my all I see in a woman with behind is sex sex and sex. it gets so worst that I Google and search for big ass and boobs more than Googling to find reasonable articles. I view every female pictures I come across on Nairaland.
Am very Ashamed of myself that one woman doesn't satisfy me, when am done with one she irritates me and I go for another. My father wad a chronic womaniser before he passed on.
So could this be am possessed or its genetic. pls I need help.
This ain't how life ought to be, I crave to live a decent life serving God and serving humanity. this habit is killing me.
please help a brother.

Change your mind set and be more prayerful
With God all things are possible

Its an habit, you just have to be determined to stop it and be prayerful, be so involved in chuch activities and listen to pastors messages concerning all those things

1st of all u're normal to have such an issue. U're not abnormal. Many men do have it but e no dey shw for face. U're probably introverted, if you're extrovert with some money, u'lld have just been womanizing regularly. With time life challenges e.g poverty will remove the problem. Don't worry.

Willpower & Avoidance Only Make It Worse!
Most people believe that “just trying harder” and exercising
“more willpower” is the answer to overcoming porn
addiction. This is the worst advice possible! You’ve got to
learn how to “work with your brain” instead of “fighting
against it.”

Everything you need to break free is already built into the
very structure of your brain–the same type of brain process
that got you into this mess, can help get you out.

Luke 1:37. Above all My brother. Go n meet ur Pastor to organize a deliverance for u. Don't b ashamed, just go and meet him. U can also meet another strong man of God u knw. It is only God dat can do this.

Disclaimer :

For those that knows me by my real name & also know that i am a member here please, this is not me

I have never & will never be a self-servicer cuz i got kitten @ my beck & call

Thank u

seems u're always idle, u need a job

rawpadgin:
Disclaimer :

For those that knows me by my real name & also know that i am a member here please, this is not me

I have never & will never be a self-servicer cuz i got kitten @ my beck & call

Thank u

lmao [quote author=rawpadgin post

First and foremost you need to change your way of reasoning, as well as your mind set, and stop seeing women as just a mere sex object, but God's wonderful creation.

Secondly, I will advice you to avoid pornography completely. Anything that has pornographic content or material should be avoided like a plague. If you have porn movies on your phone, system, or any other electronic gadget delete them all immediately. I tell you this because you can never overcome your addiction to masturbation when you keep on dwelling in pornography. Masturbation and pornography are like siemese twins, they can hardly be separated.

Finally, you have to seek the face of God to help you to overcome this habit, because on your own you can't stop the addiction and that's the truth. Be prayerful, if possible go on fasting as well, and with time you shall give a testimony!

If you need more help, don't hesitate to let me know and by God's grace I will play my part to help you come out of this addiction!

It is well with you bro! Shalom

it's like d op is actually talking about me...
in other news, pls does anyone has any idea why am unable to download apps from my play store? it keeps downloading without even showing d percent. and it could download all day without success..

Eight times daily? That's like every three hours.