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A solid frienship is the foundation for a happy relationship. Infact thats the secret of a successful relationship. Rushing into a relationship without getting to know the other person well is not the right step to take. You'd only be doing yourself more harm than good, should you overlook the need to be friends first before any other thing.

Ok

noted!

Sounds nice in theory but the reality is that you may end up being just a Friend

So what of those who have sex at 1st meeting outside whatsapp (popularly known as sex at 1st date) and still married each other

marvelck:
A solid frienship is the foundation for a happy relationship. Infact thats the secret of a successful relationship. Rushing into a relationship without getting to know the other person well is not the right step to take. You'd only be doing yourself more harm than good, should you overlook the need to be friends first before any other thing.

Nice adv

Nice write up..

P0intBlank:
Sound nice in theory but the reality is that you may end up being just a Friend

Only those looking for sex are afraid of being just a friend. Besides, even if you get married to someone. Is it not friendship you'll be doing in marriage? what do they do in marriage romance? No!!! It's that friendship. In fact the gradual the friendship , the stronger it is.

duality:
Only those looking for sex are afraid of being just a friend. Besides, even if you get married to someone. Is it not friendship you'll be doing in marriage? what do they do in marriage romance? No!!! It's that friendship. In fact the gradual the friendship , the stronger it is.

I'm not against your philosophy. But I've seen this happen time and time again. It's just the female psychology. U'll have to find the balance.

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P0intBlank:
I'm not against your philosophy. But I've seen this happen time and time again. It's just the female psychology. U'll have to find the balance.

The strongest relationships are those without those "Butterfly feelings" for a reasonable time knowing each other.. All these 'Just friend" thing or whatever it's called, will soon be demystified. the narrative will soon change. relationship exclusivity, simply because of transient feelings or that a boy or girl says, I love you, is criminal. humans have become too complex. we most times love wrongly. Hot love will become cold love with unnecessary expectations. "The just friends" gives you a honest assessment, for those true to themselves. If the mind is "sexualized", then the psychology of "just friend" becomes an issue.

duality:
Only those looking for sex are afraid of being just a friend. Besides, even if you get married to someone. Is it not friendship you'll be doing in marriage? what do they do in marriage romance? No!!! It's that friendship. In fact the gradual the friendship , the stronger it is.

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Phut:
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well welll welll

And that's how guys get friendzoned. Listen, every babe has at least 10 guys on her list. If you're forming lets be friends first, she'll lose interest eventually. And guess what, immediately a guy she finds very attractive comes up to her boldly telling her he wants her...FORGET IT!

You soft guys need to learn how to lock a babe down, play games (girls love the thrill) and get her hooked...But DO NOT get emotionally attached. Now that she wants you, take it slow, be her friend. By doing this, the ball is you your court: you can assess her while she waits for you to take it further.

Most girls will feel betrayed when they find out that u only became her friend so you can date her.. U go dey form friend when she don dey date other people aft er u go come here dey tell us say she sees u as a brother.. This ur method involves pretending and girls like a straightfoward person.. E no go work

Phut:
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Phut..ur current boyfriend ..was he just ordinary friennds with u b4?. Dont lie