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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 1:58am On Aug 12, 2016
Ummtwins
grin grin grin
Haf missed u o.
We are pushing o.
Big belle.
Roung ligament pain abi is it right ligament pain. Kikikiki


To stand up from the bed n go to pee is hell
I am thinking of wearing adult diaper sef embarassed embarassed embarassed *God forbid sha*
But thats how severe the pain is.
To even turn for bed na war.

Then heart burn.
Wakes me up from sleep.
Chio.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BritneyStacy: 2:00am On Aug 12, 2016
soonest:




Thanks Mama soonest. ...I appreciate

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 2:01am On Aug 12, 2016
Liftedhands:
mine was a Pomeranian! Couldn't find an ideal mate for her before she committed suicide( maybe Na konji cause am grin)


Chia.
Is paining me o.
She is so pretty.
See her fur. kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by BritneyStacy: 2:03am On Aug 12, 2016
@dosht
Awaiting your good news soonest!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by simababe(f): 2:03am On Aug 12, 2016
sugah:
Meanwhile, all the 'when are you due and what are you having' questions finally paid off.
Yesterday the uber driver who brought me home gave me 20dollars to buy something for Ayomide
Today the guy who came to clean the house came back with a pack of over 200 newborn diapers.
Total strangers!!

Lucky u, my peeps here are planning a surprise baby shower n they dnt knw I av an idea, SIL told me we are attending a baby shower nxtwk Saturday meanwhile Fri is my appt n I would av done a scan by then, so I'm going to pretend n act surprised then, make I no go spoil show. Na money I want pass sha. Abeg send me diapers too now.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 2:05am On Aug 12, 2016
simababe:


Lucky u, my peeps here are planning a surprise baby shower n they dnt knw I av an idea, SIL told me we are attending a baby shower nxtwk Saturday meanwhile Fri is my appt n I would av done a scan by then, so I'm going to pretend n act surprised then, make I no go spoil show. Na money I want pass sha. Abeg send me diapers too now.
bahd mamacheesy

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 2:05am On Aug 12, 2016
sugah:
Iomoge2, that's exactly what my Dh said o. I like the idea of Ayomide having a pet but I still need to convince myself.

Be convinced. Be convinced. Be convinced.... grin

Buh seriously. He would be happy and meet his milestones faster.
Then as he grows add another one so he wont be too attached to only one.
Losing that one can be trumatic.

U can get the one to stay outside the house n allow it in when u feel like but always caged so it wont be every ones dog.

Caring tips plenty n u too would be proud.
With time they will be going for walks together.
Kikikikikiki

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 2:07am On Aug 12, 2016
Sugah i want daiper too o

Two hands in the air. grin grin grin
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sugah: 2:08am On Aug 12, 2016
simababe:

Lucky u, my peeps here are planning a surprise baby shower n they dnt knw I av an idea, SIL told me we are attending a baby shower nxtwk Saturday meanwhile Fri is my appt n I would av done a scan by then, so I'm going to pretend n act surprised then, make I no go spoil show. Na money I want pass sha. Abeg send me diapers too now.
Kai, you are going to receive so many gifts eh! These guys are just happy seeing pregnant women

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sugah: 2:12am On Aug 12, 2016
iomoge2:
Sugah i want daiper too o
Two hands in the air. grin grin grin
You go join the queue be that grin grin
I shall think about getting a puppy. grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 3:55am On Aug 12, 2016
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Emerald22(f): 4:15am On Aug 12, 2016
Fortius:
oh!dats beta..dat reminds me to deworm lucas too..kisses to her.
Thanks ma'am.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Emerald22(f): 4:27am On Aug 12, 2016
Fortius:

hian...i prefer goat
At d end u go chop am.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by serendipityF: 5:11am On Aug 12, 2016
Lol, you ehn grin plz bring back my bae's pic embarassed

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by serendipityF: 5:16am On Aug 12, 2016
Nah! Calm down, jes pulling ya left bombom as I ve neva got 2c ur cutie's pix b4, no hard feelings mama


Gaily04:


I guess you are very wrong about me, when I post pictures, I leave it all day, afterall am not in support of those that remove so soon without me getting to see the cuties. I actually don't know anything about 'yinmu' hope its not something bad. If you took time to go through, you will notice that apart from the ones posted in the morning, nobody posted when the heat was on until late in the evening.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by serendipityF: 5:57am On Aug 12, 2016
hahahhahahahhahahahhahahhahahah, see me rolling on d floor laffing, mama ekene u wont kee someborri wt all dis ya comics



Liftedhands:
mine was a Pomeranian! Couldn't find an ideal mate for her before she committed suicide( maybe Na konji cause am grin)

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Lbotusme: 6:19am On Aug 12, 2016
BritneyStacy, for induction the contraction is continuous. You feel the pains till you deliver your baby. (I was induced as a FTM.)Unlike the contraction without induction that comes at time intervals. (I was a STM)
It shall end in praise.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by limsycutey(f): 6:48am On Aug 12, 2016
Very funny vigilante gist, iomoge, britneystacy and other cat lovers, you are on your own o. So Nigerians keep cats too, I thought only weird old women do that Lol. I dont like them, my mum thinks they are devilish creatures Lol.

Madam fortius, they are talking pets, you are talking goat Lmao. You are a character, that one na pet? Pet that you can use to entertain guests in different ways with correct sesoning grin

Liftedhands, such a cute little dog. Too bad he's dead, i actually laughed out loud at when you said whether na konji make am commit suicide, hehehehehe, poor little thing.

I LOVE LOVE dogs, I think they are the best. They are so smart, loving and loyal. I used to entertain thoughts of getting one until we went to visit DH's boss when I was pregnant with my first. Her daughter has one of these furry little dogs. he was hanging around their dining area and I could smell it, dunno if its dog smell was really strong cos it needed a bath or my preggie nose was working on overdrive but the smell made me sick to my stomach, I couldn't really eat the food infront of me, I was just praying not to throwup. Thankfully, their steward came to take it for its evening walk a few minutes later. cry Now i'm ok with admiring them from afar Lol.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by sayoddy(f): 6:51am On Aug 12, 2016
Sugah enjoy the diaper. I used the diaper gift up to 3month and always changing like 4-6 times once one got wet. Good thing was it came in different sizes.
One recently dashed me 94pcs diaper for 3-8kg but my baby is 5months at 10kg and uses size 4. E pain me but have to give it out. Still enjoying the detergent I received and will even last more than a year.
simababe play along o. I reason with you on money matter sha. The painful part is one will be given what is already available or what's inferior especially clothes. My baby only wears those clothes at home.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 7:09am On Aug 12, 2016
BritneyStacy:

Thanks for taking time to respond. N.a. that failing be my fear sha. I cannot 'come and die' 2times sha. ...
I appreciate. ...


Go with faith.
So many mamas get induced successfully.
Just ensure that cervix is ripe, eat dates and pineapples.
Are you still taking your long walks?
Try dancing.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blessedmum(f): 7:11am On Aug 12, 2016
sugah:

Hehehehe. We plenty wey go port to August. Porting to October is not allowed for September mamas oooo grin
Id update the list..3.0kg isnt bad, baby's growth has slowed down already so as long as you are eating healthy, you are both fine
Hmm, dia is god o at u porters especially my dear captain. All the same it's all for good be it Aug or Sept bt I say no to October for us o. Since yesterday morning friends and colleagues at work have been putting to bed can't wait for team September to start announcing too, it ll be easy for us ijn,no more loss.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 7:29am On Aug 12, 2016
Faith is all I have, if your husband is not in support, you may want to take it easy with your MiL, make e no be say na you go carry the blame at last.


In my previous comment on this, I added my MiL to let you know that my MiL has always known me to be outspoken. I no dey suffer in silence so when I speak out, they don't get offended cos I speak out for them too when people want to take advantage.

My advice
When you speak to her, let her note the displeasure and not anger or rudeness. Don't raise your voice, don't stand over her, don't over gesticulate, don't walk out immediately, still drop your child with her, don't threaten, don't hiss, leave on a light note with like a joke or something.
If she tries to flare up, try to explain that you don't like it. She might see nothing wrong but you don't like it.
Then you may be like " abi, when I see something I don't like, I have to say it out so that I won't bear a grudge".
Your voice has to be firm and strong not hard/harsh.

When you leave, don't tell your husband anything. Watch if she too will report you to him.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by enque(f): 7:38am On Aug 12, 2016
Suzy , I saw this and u remembered U grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Favouredmom(f): 7:51am On Aug 12, 2016
enque:
Suzy , I saw this and u remembered U grin

In fact Suzy really needs it

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nobody: 7:55am On Aug 12, 2016
zaynie:
Faith is all I have, if your husband is not in support, you may want to take it easy with your MiL, make e no be say na you go carry the blame at last.


In my previous comment on this, I added my MiL to let you know that my MiL has always known me to be outspoken. I no dey suffer in silence so when I speak out, they don't get offended cos I speak out for them too when people want to take advantage.

My advice
When you speak to her, let her note the displeasure and not anger or rudeness. Don't raise your voice, don't stand over her, don't over gesticulate, don't walk out immediately, still drop your child with her, don't threaten, don't hiss, leave on a light note with like a joke or something.
If she tries to flare up, try to explain that you don't like it. She might see nothing wrong but you don't like it.
Then you may be like " abi, when I see something I don't like, I have to say it out so that I won't bear a grudge".
Your voice has to be firm and strong not hard/harsh.

When you leave, don't tell your husband anything. Watch if she too will report you to him.
Ok! Thanks mama.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by PresVA: 8:02am On Aug 12, 2016
faithisallihave:
Thank you all for your advice but unfortunately I am alone in this.
My now chicken hearted idiot (no apologies because that's what he is right now) of a husband sees nothing wrong with his cousin breastfeeding his child.
Infact, he was more concerned whether I caused a scene or not.
He just asked "Is that all?"
He just told me not to be angry. And that made me even more angry.
I have decided to talk to my MIL. I don't care what happens after that.
Why don't you just let this go sis? The deed is already done.. How is causing a scene going to help the issue? Going by all you have written so far, I can deduce they did it innocently(although wrong)..
Simply tell your MIL and SIL not to breastfeed your baby again as you watch what she takes owing to her sensitivity, you can go ahead to tell them how her poo et al changed after the previous breastfeeding... I bet they'll be remorseful. .... (You should have even registered your displeasure immediately they told you what they did). .

Also, you mentioned that you have a way of preventing future occurrence, why don't you just do that instead of 'fighting' them?

Then calling your husband name on a public forum cos of this isn't right..he's a man and may not see anything wrong with it..

If I were you, I will simply find a way of preventing any future occurrence instead of fighting the people that care about me....

I know you're hurt, but please forgive them ok? smiley
All the best..

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 8:28am On Aug 12, 2016
So i missed the dog gist sha... grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mitchyy(f): 8:42am On Aug 12, 2016
limsycutey:

I LOVE LOVE dogs, I think they are the best. They are so smart, loving and loyal. I used to entertain thoughts of getting one until we went to visit DH's boss when I was pregnant with my first. Her daughter has one of these furry little dogs. he was hanging around their dining area and I could smell it, dunno if its dog smell was really strong cos it needed a bath or my preggie nose was working on overdrive but the smell made me sick to my stomach, I couldn't really eat the food infront of me, I was just praying not to throwup. Thankfully, their steward came to take it for its evening walk a few minutes later. cry Now i'm ok with admiring them from afar Lol.

Dogs are actually the best! There's a never a dull moment with them.
I had to send my Elmo to be with my kid bro for a while when Hansel arrived, cus i can't keep him outside. And he doesn't like sleeping anywhere else besides the side of our bed.
I miss this dude already. He was my faithful roommate before i got married. My Elmo even understands signs i make with my face.

But both families dragged my ear about him staying in the house when Hansel arrives. Deyve probably heard too many horror stories of dogs biting babies.

Maybe when we move to a bigger apartment, he'll come back sad

Pic: Elmo spying on the vet as he prepares his injections. Elmo hates vets. Lol

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by dosht(f): 8:45am On Aug 12, 2016
@Britneystacy
I was induced with my first we were two b ut the second Lady was a second time mum.The doctor did it around past 5 the woman own dropped at ten pm then she started having contractions and gave birth 1am. Mine was still there did not even feel anything. Fastforward to three pm. The consultant arrived checked me and removed everything then ruptured the membrane that is when i started feeling heavy contractions and i gave birth to my dd at 5:25.When i was calling the nurses they didnt believe me. so i told them to come and removr the drip that i want to poop. That was when the nurse checked just open mouth that ha!! She's ready o.lol
NB I was 41weeks3days and my cervix was nt even ripe sef


Feedback
I went to the hospital yesterday and got checked. Baby is still high they give am one grammar name like dat so i went back home. Im still doing fine with little contractions but bearable. Ive visited the loo many times but notin is coming out
save delivery to us all

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 8:50am On Aug 12, 2016
mitchyy:


Dogs are actually the best! There's a never a dull moment with them.
I had to send my Elmo to be with my kid bro for a while when Hansel arrived, cus i can't keep him outside. And he doesn't like sleeping anywhere else besides the side of our bed.
I miss this dude already. He was my faithful roommate before i got married. My Elmo even understands signs i make with my face.

But both families dragged my ear about him staying in the house when Hansel arrives. Deyve probably heard too many horror stories of dogs biting babies.

Maybe when we move to a bigger apartment, he'll come back.

Why is he not feminine na so i can buy the kid.... so fluffy.
I heart this dog.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by suzy(f): 8:59am On Aug 12, 2016
enque:
Suzy , I saw this and u remembered U grin

Lolz very funny. Am not worried again sef. Am just here taking my drugs dat i wish i av other means of doing it without it going tru my mouth cos am getting tried. Am never a drug person. I go tru out the year without drugs. Thanks for having me in mind.
My next worry is on the drugs. Hope u see sumtin about it to encourage me.

luv u grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by suzy(f): 9:00am On Aug 12, 2016
Favouredmom:


In fact Suzy really needs it

I don turn to Mama Worry worry. Am a FTM dats y. dont blame me sweethearts. Am calm now. Thanks

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