I met this beautiful lady one time last week in a bus while going to work, we discussed and I felt she is my kind of lady, I collected her number, later on called her and started chatting with her, immediately I proposed a date which she accepted, and since then our conversation online has been great, fast forward to the fixed day, I called her twice when it was like 5 minutes and some minutes after the time to let her know I'm about coming but she didn't pickup, I checked her on whatsapp and I notice she was online ( meaning she was with her phone all along), sent her a short non-obvious reminder, she didn't reply until like 2 hours after the fixed time, which she said she was sorry, and I responded that: I guess she was busy, probably we fix another time. of which she responded, yes and even suggested next week.

now the thing is, I wish to have a serious relationship with this girl but I now feel she is kind of rude, cancelling a date without prior information.

Should I just let her go probably she is just playing games with me?

And by the way, I belief a lot in the power of advice, especially coming from people that owes me nothing like nairalanders.
So pls your comment counts

Act like a G..

and kick her ass out
*******

bla

Wouldn't you question her sanity if she's too easy?
So don't give up too soon. Try a second time and a third.

Dnt let her go, let her come.


#sighs

She's a fùcking sniitch

Leave her the fück alone

cruzita:
bla

When are we having that brunch?

I dey Cum come..

VolTOxic:
Wouldn't you question her sanity if she's too easy?
So don't give up too soon. Try a second time and a third.

Well she could've just said no in The first place

cruzita:
bla

bae d'bla na......
You shuld b advisin him.....

ambidextrous:
I met this beautiful lady one time last week in a bus while going to work, we discussed and I felt she is my kind of lady, I collected her number, later on called her and started chatting with her, immediately I proposed a date which she accepted, and since then our conversation online has been great, fast forward to the fixed day, I called her twice when it was like 5 minute and some minute after the time to let her know I'm about coming but she didn't pickup, I checked her on whatsapp and I notice she was online ( meaning she was with her phone all along), sent her a short non-obvious reminder, she didn't reply until like 2 hours after the fixed time, which she said she was sorry, and I responded that: I guess she was busy, probably we propose a new date. of which she responded, yes.

now the thing is, I wish to have a serious relationship with this girl but I now feel she is kind of rude, cancelling a date without prior information.

Should I just let her go probably she is just playing games with me?

And by the way, I belief a lot in the power of advice, especially coming from people that owes me nothing like nairalanders.
So pls your comment counts

Bro. avoid those kind of ladies. It clearly shows u are gonna have problem with her even if the two of you get into a relationship. A lady who knows what she wants will not play silly games and stick to the rule book. That shows she is having self esteem problems. Playing games is her way of self validation.

Go with player intention...



Any funny move played by her in the future won't hurt you that much...


Psychologically,she is a player,but something might warrant her action for canceling the date...


So don't judge so soon

Don't know if you believe in the first impression thing. if you don't. give her the second chance and see what happen after the date. you can now tell if your thought about her is correct.

thank me later

Cold feet....maybe... Not handsome enough maybe...U are Not what she wanted maybe.... Not over with the ex maybe.... A lot of MayBEs....

Wait for her to contact u for an explanation. if she doesn't, an era of men begging for dates was in 1990s,channel your energy else where bro...

Hergorgeous:


Well she could've just said no in The first place

Yeah sure. But she didn't.
She said YES. This means she fancies him.
Ditching him might just be a last minute cold feet.
Hesitant with the idea of meeting a total stranger.

Maybe give her another chance don't make any hasty decisions maybe she was doing something she could not tell u

VolTOxic:


Yeah sure. But she didn't.
She said YES. This means she fancies him.
Ditching him might just be a last minute cold feet.
Hesitant with the idea of meeting a total stranger.

True .

Girls are like that sometimes, be patient.

The water wey you go drink no go flow pass you.

Nightie:
Dnt let her go, let her come.


#sighs

yes, he should let her CUM.




Op, these ladies are like that, it's nothing new. She just dey do shakara, she will eventually have a date with you. Don't let her go.

FvckShiT:
She's a fùcking sniitch

Leave her the fück alone

Who did she snitch on Lmao Nawa oooo

mhizAnnie:



Who did she snitch on Lmao Nawa oooo

Its fūcking obvious

Why not politely decline the date or communicate a change of plan to ur date.Our society is such a backward place.We shouldnt tolerate auch behaviour from people cause its just wrong

You nailed it bro.Thumbs up to you for such insightful analysis

Richy4:
Cold feet....maybe... Not handsome enough maybe...U are Not what she wanted maybe.... Not over with the ex maybe.... A lot of MayBEs....

Wait for her to contact u for an explanation. if she doesn't, [b]an era of men begging for dates was in 1990s,[/b]channel your energy else where bro...

@ the bolded... many guys don't realise that.

Haba..... U fit allow such to sis?