henrimoto:


Two Captains can't control a ship, No matter how knowledgable both of them are, one must pave way for one.

Dont be sentimental with your comments here, the OP had been fair and tolerant to an extent, going by his write up. He cant bear with the issues anymore, that's why he called it with the closeness and emotional part of the relationship.

Isn't that reasonable and responsible enough? Or should he wait till when verbal and emotional abuse set in before he calls it Quit?

You sound as if it's abnornal for a woman to submit to her man.

Hey, as a woman with emotions, no matter your pedigree, if you really wanted to make the guy/man you claim to have soft spot for, you must be submissive to an extent.

Your being submissive to the guy you like/love doesn't make you a dummy. It's just as simple as that.

iebanehita:


No ma'am.
There's a thin line between being confident and being co.cky.
The ex was being coc.ky.
The face that OP had to wait for 9mnth before dating her shows he values her and wants something long lasting. No need trying to show-off your intelligence to a guy.
He would definitely see it.

On the example he sited, the lady could have asked qns like:
--Who are your target audienc?
--What marketing channel are you going to use for the book? etc.. rather than outrightly pouring out unsolicited advice.

jojosweet:
for her to have dated u was a tragic misdeed to herself:why?, for u both to have had that experience and she flopped because of her flaw which with kindness firm and patience u would have managed and possibly changed. U ran to NL to kiss and tell(chant victory song) . Trust me she under achieved with u as a boyfriend.

nevetsibott:
lol. Was it written in my post up there that the behaviour applies to all women? Please, read again. And thank you for the insult.

Phinity318:
These kinda ladies are mostly insecure, they are in competition with the male gender and would do anything to prove that they are smart, nonetheless if u get their weakness they are the most sweetest being.
Obviously u seem to be a smart and intelligent dude, IMO, u should date her,@least show hr life from a different perspective, she should stop surviving and start living.

firstking01:
Dating a nigerian girl is harder than bricklayer work, except you 've never been there.

Timbuktou:


No need for thanks, my friend. I consider it my duty to shed light on issues when I can. It's important that guys know the difference between a strong-willed, passionate woman and a shrew.

GloriaNinja:
I know my worth

and by the way if it is a public forum, my mention is not a page forum for arguments,

you can do it else where but not particularly on my opinion,

respect other people's opinion

nevetsibott:
strong willed and passionate... Yeah. She is strong willed and passionate but wants to lead. Would you want your brother to marry a wife who would always battle with him over stuffs cos she thinks she's right?

nevetsibott:
Bro. Thank you for this beautiful comment but I've spent over 11mnths trying to help her change... It's not really easy. An elder bro of mine talked to her for the fist time when he saw her somewhere. He warned me to stay away from her except I wanna argue all my life. He's intelligent, you know, intelligent melancholic guy. He noticed this bad side and he even told her to stop acting like the boss since it was the first time they were talking and he's obviously older than her.

nevetsibott:
Bro. Thank you for this beautiful comment but I've spent over 11mnths trying to help her change... It's not really easy. An elder bro of mine talked to her for the fist time when he saw her somewhere. He warned me to stay away from her except I wanna argue all my life. He's intelligent, you know, intelligent melancholic guy. He noticed this bad side and he even told her to stop acting like the boss since it was the first time they were talking and he's obviously older than her.

Vanillaskin:

Now I see why aunty Linda is still single.
Nigerian men are just too weak in the head that you guys can't handle an ordinary woman with a high IQ and understanding who criticizes you.
So when you meet a woman with money and power, you will just hide your tail in between your lags and quiver with fear, sad

GloriaNinja:
You even have a bad grammer, shame on your kindergarten days. "Spits", haver never come across a barbaric illiterate Like you. what a shame.

jojosweet:
for her to have dated u was a tragic misdeed to herself:why?, for u both to have had that experience and she flopped because of her flaw which with kindness firm and patience u would have managed and possibly changed. U ran to NL to kiss and tell(chant victory song) . Trust me she under achieved with u as a boyfriend.

Vanillaskin:

Now I see why aunty Linda is still single.

Nigerian men are just too weak in the head that you guys can't handle an ordinary woman with a high IQ and understanding who criticizes you.

So when you meet a woman with money and power, you will just hide your tail in between your lags and quiver with fear, sad

Phinity318:

Bros u don try, professional courses no dy reach eleven month even, if her behaviour can be noticed by a smart melancholic guy, I guess she Needs to see a psychiatrist for evaluation, she has Ego issues.

Timbuktou:


I would advise you to take your brother's advice. It's not worth the trouble and I'm speaking from painful experience. Run as fast as your legs can carry you. When you're with a peaceful woman who loves you, your life will make meaning

daretodiffer:
Read the title and the content of your post again You are welcome

Timbuktou:


Oh, please, everybody knows Linda is single because her pussy stinks like rotten fish.

Have you dated men of other nationalities? You will be shocked.

Sigh. You will soon grow up.

firstking01:
To the guys who are successfully and happily dating a nigerian girl, thumbs up to you guys...

Greendly:
after reading op post, I patiently went through each comment to see what reaction both gender would publish. some ladies portrayed their intelligence by actually adding some good points which could counter the arguments dropped by the male counterparts. while a specific female (gloria---something?), portrayed her low mentality and limited intelligence, which completely contradict the good points laid by the females. and portrayed the mentality of a nigerian girl.

mployer:

Idiot That didn't bother to respect someone's family.

Vanillaskin:

See your mouth like rotten fish just kidding
As if if she offered you that billion naira pussy, you will not open that your stinking mouth to chop
Again just joking, don't come for my head

nevetsibott:
thank you brother. I'm running for real. He even told me to run from her and I'm doing that

mployer:


Idiot That didn't bother to respect someone's family.

Trina0936:

Ok but do you strike a balance between cocky and docility?? #justasking

Realhommie:
Typical of the character the Op depicted.. Me i'm just laughing in Spanish, her character has given her out already.

Enjoying this thread. Hehehehehehe

GloriaNinja:
I love leading. a female like me can not be controlled like a puppet

Snow5:
.. My sister... It's not like that slavery thingy oo... What I meant by submitting was that... She always don't care if u advice her not to keep enmity especially with friends.... I have talked to her not the 5th time.. She is so bent on keeping malice... She just won't submit on that aspect... That's what I meant oo...

Not submitting everything to me oo... Am I her creator??.. Lols...

And Hey... She is about bing my wife... Soon!!... That's y I wanna kick that attitude outa her by force by fire... That attitude is bad!!!.... She keeps things in mind a lot.. Instead of trashing the issue out.. She would rather keep it in her mind... That, my friend I don't like.

We just finished talking now.. We are good now.

Trina0936:

Don't mind the OP! He also has as much ego as the lady that is why he couldn't cope! Its better he gets a 'yes yes' woman who would agree with every thing he says so that the egoistic lady can find a guy who values her!