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DeModel:
Can't even comprehend wat r saying......

while u no whot am sayed wen u r not no book

adaksbullet:
Op his a big Satan off all time she sayed she his whant too see God and u are sad off it? Mennnnn .......she his sheet on from the beginig bus and u are no no,,,sad bus live that gilr and faced ur books cos ur English sef meennnnnnnnnn

Lolz
Dude am sure u always do this on purpose ...i refuse to believe ur english is this terrible

Rosheedah:
Lolz
Dude am sure u always do this on purpose ...i refuse to believe ur english is this terrible

I I'm not undastad u

adaksbullet:
I I'm not undastad u

Lol
Issorait

DeModel:
Hi all, please I need advice on this.
My gal friend just called me 2 days ago and said she is breaking up the relationship of just 7months. I was surprised and shocked. When I asked her d reason, guess what?? She said she needs to focus more on God, dats all.... I had to let go. Moreover, am not just dating her, I see her as my future wife. I noticed she has blocked me both on fb and whatsapp. This same gal has familarized herself wit my family, friends, colleagues n sampling herself every where as my gal friend n posting my pictures on fb with all praises. Am still wondering if that can be her reason or is there any other thing she is hiding from me because am still surprised at her sudden decision and action. Please what do you think that might have led to this her sudden decision?

Same reason why i parted ways with one of my exes like that...dnt be a stumbling block between she and God.

Buffer:
If she initiate it and still feel remorse after, the only plausible reason (from experience) is that she feels the urge (uncontrollable) whenever she is with you and now she feels that the only way to stop it is to stay away from you, not necessarily that she is no longer in love.

Telling her that you would want a sexless relationship won't solve it if the urge comes from here just being with you, if you don't satisfy the urge that you unintentionally set on fire, then she will definitely find another way (self-service inclusive)

Solution :

Find out the real reason (just just God)
If it is the remorseful sex, the best way is to be empathetic, let her realize that she is not alone in the struggle, and you too can walk together through it and be an example to other Christian couples.

But if she cannot give a real reason, two things are involved, so just balance up your records book and bow out respectfully.

Forget about the rage today, she may come back and you two can still work out even in a year time

I appreciate ur solution, but am d kind of person that hates going back to my "ex" once d deed has been done. We can only b friends but can't accept her back cos it will b very hard for me

Buffer:
If she initiate it and still feel remorse after, the only plausible reason (from experience) is that she feels the urge (uncontrollable) whenever she is with you and now she feels that the only way to stop it is to stay away from you, not necessarily that she is no longer in love.

Telling her that you would want a sexless relationship won't solve it if the urge comes from here just being with you, if you don't satisfy the urge that you unintentionally set on fire, then she will definitely find another way (self-service inclusive)

Solution :

Find out the real reason (just just God)
If it is the remorseful sex, the best way is to be empathetic, let her realize that she is not alone in the struggle, and you too can walk together through it and be an example to other Christian couples.

But if she cannot give a real reason, two things are involved, so just balance up your records book and bow out respectfully.

Forget about the rage today, she may come back and you two can still work out even in a year time

I won't agree less with this comment. Here, Op, is the core reason to your problem. She loves you a lot, and can't say , "No " to you when sex comes to her mind. Give her time to build on her self control. Believe me, It will worth your while in the long run. You should understand that if she doesn't get a hang on how to control her sex urge, it could ruin everything you guys may want to build in the future. Your girl is wise if what I'm thinking is what she is thinking too. Nice day ahead

adaksbullet:
whose talked too u? his mine English sometin to write out abt?

What the hell! You need to go back to KG ASAP..

@ OP: U self follow God too if you really want to marry her...