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Ldr Girl by Gewezzy1(op): 9:54pm On Aug 19, 2016

My Bf and i love eachothr, well i love him tho, but the thing is this relationship is going too smoothly like we dont fight or argue. Its a LDR but even with that i need us to argue or fight or something so i can know more about him.

Re: Ldr Girl by AfroKnight: 9:57pm On Aug 19, 2016

Hmmm e be like say devil wan use somebody.

So you are not happy with the peaceful relationship. You want to "spice" it up with wahala? Na wa o.

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Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 10:15pm On Aug 19, 2016

Cheat on him

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Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 10:22pm On Aug 19, 2016

Re: Ldr Girl by Gewezzy1(op): 10:28pm On Aug 19, 2016

Lol u guys dont get, what if he has someone else dts keepz him busy.

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 10:33pm On Aug 19, 2016

Gewezzy1:
Lol u guys dont get, what if he has someone else dts keepz him busy.

so you don't like a peaceful relationship? undecided

until you lose him that's when you will know angry

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 10:34pm On Aug 19, 2016

Human beings don't appreciate what they got until they lose it sad

Re: Ldr Girl by Gewezzy1(op): 10:37pm On Aug 19, 2016

Maybe its bcs am insecure.

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 10:45pm On Aug 19, 2016

Gewezzy1:
My Bf and i love eachothr, well i love him tho, but the thing is this relationship is going too smoothly like we dont fight or argue. Its a LDR but even with that i need us to argue or fight or something so i can know more about him.

Hm. Yea. You are on to something.

If you have been together for more than 6 to 9 months, you should be arguing about something.

Either someone else is already occupying his emotional energy Or the passion and interest between you two ain't strong enough.

Girlfriend, better follow your gut instinct about this and check it out.

Start some shizts, see how he reacts. Do it right tho so he cant call you out on yo shitz.

If you play yer shit$ right, you will get the answer you seek.

Good luck. cheesy

Re: Ldr Girl by Gewezzy1(op): 11:05pm On Aug 19, 2016

Xiadnat:
Hm. Yea. You are on to something.

If you have been together for more than 6 to 9 months, you should be arguing about something.

Either someone else is already occupying his emotional energy Or the passion and interest between you two ain't strong enough.

Girlfriend, better follow your gut instinct about this and check it out.

Start some shizts, see how he reacts. Do it right tho so he cant call you out on yo shitz.

If you play yer shit$ right, you will get the answer you seek.

Good luck.

You the best!
We av been together for like 7months although its long distance stuff. We dnt argue at all, he rarely gets angry at me sef. I just dont want to put all my eggs in one basket Cs av bin hearing so much about long distance stuff ow it doesn’t last. Cs I know he would have girls around him, am sure that am not cheating but mehn I don't know about my man o, he doesn’t even use ladies has his dp, unless on thr bdae. N I snoop on his Facebook nothing fishy, shld i just play along and fall in love compltly.

Re: Ldr Girl by adexlamex(m): 1:49am On Aug 20, 2016

girl go find APC members you fit argue with

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Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 5:05pm On Aug 20, 2016

adexlamex:
girl go find APC members you fit argue with

wickedest!! and is that suppose to be an advice?

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 5:16pm On Aug 20, 2016

Gewezzy1:
My Bf and i love eachothr, well i love him tho, but the thing is this relationship is going too smoothly like we dont fight or argue. Its a LDR but even with that i need us to argue or fight or something so i can know more about him.

though sometimes, distance relationship dont worth it but hey, i think you should just take it slow. and some men do not get angry, no matter how hard you try to make them, am an example dear, i dont get angry, and hv forgiven people even before they offend me. dont expect much from human. and as regard your bf, he might just be some1 like that but i will advice you not to fall deep, so it would be easy for you to easily stand and work away when things go wrong but please always play your part. dont start any argumentative topic or put up a fight without reason, keep it peaceful and keep your cool with him. just learn to get along and understand each other.
peace ! peace !! peace !!!

Re: Ldr Girl by Juicysam(m): 10:13pm On Aug 21, 2016

Xiadnat:
Hm. Yea. You are on to something.

If you have been together for more than 6 to 9 months, you should be arguing about something.

Either someone else is already occupying his emotional energy Or the passion and interest between you two ain't strong enough.

Girlfriend, better follow your gut instinct about this and check it out.

Start some shizts, see how he reacts. Do it right tho so he cant call you out on yo shitz.

If you play yer shit$ right, you will get the answer you seek.
Hello bro.. I need an email I can use to get across to you.. Thanks in anticipation
Good luck.

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 10:32pm On Aug 21, 2016

Gewezzy1:
My Bf and i love eachothr, well i love him tho, but the thing is this relationship is going too smoothly like we dont fight or argue. Its a LDR but even with that i need us to argue or fight or something so i can know more about him.

girl trust me, the arguments are coming; by the truckload. you're probably still in the honeymoon period. enjoy it while it lasts. smh

Re: Ldr Girl by IamLEGEND1: 11:25pm On Aug 21, 2016

My people shey una dey see am. Guy dey act like real G,no tantrums whatsoever,just dey XtraCool. girl dey busy dey plot unnecessary kasala.

Re: Ldr Girl by bitchcrafts: 11:34pm On Aug 21, 2016

Patience sis, u go still fight tire! Persist with your naggings and all ..

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 11:39pm On Aug 21, 2016

see what boredom can cause grin

IamLEGEND1:
My people shey una dey see am.
Guy dey act like real G,no tantrums whatsoever,just dey XtraCool.
girl dey busy dey plot unnecessary kasala.

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 11:43pm On Aug 21, 2016

Gewezzy1:
My Bf and i love eachothr, well i love him tho, but the thing is this relationship is going too smoothly like we dont fight or argue. Its a LDR but even with that i need us to argue or fight or something so i can know more about him.

u ladies have wahala

I feel some of u are cursed ((no offense)) if The man cheats and fvcks everything in skirt u cry FOWL! If he is too faithful and committed u complain what's ur problem!!??!

Re: Ldr Girl by Nobody: 11:51pm On Aug 21, 2016

Gewezzy1:
You the best!
We av been together for like 7months although its long distance stuff. We dnt argue at all, he rarely gets angry at me sef. I just dont want to put all my eggs in one basket Cs av bin hearing so much about long distance stuff ow it doesn’t last. Cs I know he would have girls around him, am sure that am not cheating but mehn I don't know about my man o, he doesn’t even use ladies has his dp, unless on thr bdae. N I snoop on his Facebook nothing fishy, shld i just play along and fall in love compltly.

my dear , long distance relationships work (that's my style )and they last if you know what you want ..

See finish syndrome no good...I stay off same city relationship ...

About the fight ...ehmmmm calm down ..plenty fight dey come ,you just started now ,,,it took me 2yrs in 1 of mine to start fighting ...

so chill....u go see quarrel, u go tire

Re: Ldr Girl by Thandobaby(f): 11:54pm On Aug 21, 2016

Re: Ldr Girl by Thandobaby(f): 11:57pm On Aug 21, 2016

MissGdope:
girl trust me, the arguments are coming; by the truckload. you're probably still in the honeymoon period. enjoy it while it lasts. smh

l don't think so dear since she says its been 7 months

Re: Ldr Girl by Thandobaby(f): 12:00am On Aug 22, 2016

There's something wrong seven months n u haven't even had those small silly fights to top it up its a long distance relationship.Am also in a long distance relationship tho but e fights we have sometimes funny

Re: Ldr Girl by halfricanadian(f): 12:04am On Aug 22, 2016

pls give me ur bf tank u I will cherish him while I kno a guy dat will giv u d fyt u want nd top it for u with severe chronic cheating nd u find out u were datin ursef all along

Re: Ldr Girl by smellingmenses: 12:23am On Aug 22, 2016

halfricanadian:
pls give me ur bf tank u I will cherish him while I kno a guy dat will giv u d fyt u want nd top it for u with severe chronic cheating nd u find out u were datin ursef all along

Hmmm so deep. Hope you're okay now?

Re: Ldr Girl by halfricanadian(f): 12:27am On Aug 22, 2016

smellingmenses:
Hmmm so deep. Hope you're okay now?

yes I am tanks

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Re: Ldr Girl by voyy: 12:31am On Aug 22, 2016

Gewezzy1:
My Bf and i love eachothr, well i love him tho, but the thing is this relationship is going too smoothly like we dont fight or argue. Its a LDR but even with that i need us to argue or fight or something so i can know more about him.

houdegbe girls like harsh guys dat will frustrate their life. anyways u can slap him wen next u see him.
seriously just sit him down and tell him to plz tell u weneva u go wrong.

Re: Ldr Girl by vicstar(m): 12:32am On Aug 22, 2016

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Re: Ldr Girl by Gewezzy1(op): 10:20am On Aug 22, 2016

Am not lookin for fight, Okay the truth is i dont trust him, his a man, he has a job, the state he stays is known to have cute girls, Big bum, slim etc, which am not all that, yes i have insecurities. What if he has someone and is just deceiving me.

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