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How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op):
What is your place in the life of your partner? Are you the main lover,the fall back lover,the get back lover or pass time lover?
Yes we may see ourselves wanting another for a fling but may end up marrying each other but at any point in time in any relationship we find ourselves, we are either one of these options to our bae(Before anyone else) and it is very important to know your place and there is one simple way to know but before i let it out i would like to explain in brief what each one means.


1.The main lover:
This needs no explanation..just as it sounds, you are the one and only person your partner desires most and would do whatever possible to prove that to you.

2.The fall back lover:
This is not a nice one.You are the type your partner toys with his or her emotions.Your partner believes that he or she can leave you and reconcile with you at will because you are the type that will easily take such back because you are in love.

3.The get back lover:
Many people unknowingly fall into this category.A get back lover is the one that is used to spite an ex or to fill the gap after a heartbreak and while the other party still loves the ex,you will gladly be led on believing you have found your heartthrob just for that person to reconcile with the ex and leaves your stranded.

4.The pass time lover:
Just as the name suggests, this person is not really into you but due to the urge to be with someone for the sake of intimacy,financial needs or companion decides to go into an affair with you pending when he or she finds the desired person..Booty call partners are good example of pass time lovers.

ONE WAY TO KNOW WHICH ONE YOU ARE IN THE LIFE OF YOUR PARTNER

There is a simple way to know if you are the main lover or any other type of lover...just be sensitive to know this...
You don't have to force anyone to have affection for you and you don't have to fight for the attention of your partner..if its not given to you freely and effortlessly then that person is not worth the stress so If you ever see yourself fighting for the love, affection,attention of your partner then look no further, you are definitely not the main lover...Please work it out or quit


Hope this makes sense.

Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by ahnie: 10:27pm On Aug 22, 2016
Toks2008:
What is your place in the life of your partner? Are you the main lover,the fall back lover,the get back lover or pass time lover?

Yes we may see ourselves wanting another for a fling but may end up marrying each other but at any point in time in any relationship we find ourselves, we are either one of these options to our bae(Before anyone else) and it is very important to know your place and there is one simple way to know but before i let it out i would like to explain in brief what each one means.


1.The main lover:
This needs no explanation..just as it sounds, you are the one and only person your partner desires most and would do whatever possible to prove that to you.


2.The fall back lover:
This is not a nice one.You are the type your partner toys with his or her emotions.Your partner believes that he or she can leave you and reconcile with you at will because you are the type that will easily take such back because you are in love.


3.The get back lover:
Many people unknowingly fall into this category.A get back lover is the one that is used to spite an ex or to fill the gap after a heartbreak and while the other party still loves the ex,you will gladly be led on believing you have found your heartthrob just for that person to reconcile with the ex and leaves your stranded.


4.The pass time lover:
Just as teh name sounds, this person is not really into you but due to the urge to be with someone for the sake of intimacy,financial needs or companion decides to go into an affair with you pending when he or she finds the desired person..Booty call partners are good example of pass time lovers.


ONE WAY TO KNOW WHICH ONE YOU ARE IN THE LIFE OF YOUR PARTNER


There is a simple way to know if you are the main lover or any other type of lover...just be sensitive to know this...
If you ever see yourself fighting for the love, affection,attention of your partner then look no further, you are definitely not the main lover..Please quit


Hope this makes sense.
You are solely responsible for intending broken relationships!
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by UndisputedBosom(m): 10:30pm On Aug 22, 2016
Thank God am Single grin
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op): 10:32pm On Aug 22, 2016
ahnie:
You are solely responsible for intending broken relationships!
huh

Please explain
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Nobody: 10:35pm On Aug 22, 2016
Who cares? Lover is lover grin cheesy wink wink wink
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Vikky014(f): 10:35pm On Aug 22, 2016
LMAO....SO TRUE
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by UndisputedBosom(m): 10:39pm On Aug 22, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Who cares? Lover is lover grin cheesy wink wink wink
The Op wasn't referrin 2 u but that guy at ur dp grin grin

















Na joke o wink
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op): 10:39pm On Aug 22, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Who cares? Lover is lover grin cheesy wink wink wink
Better know where you belong to avoid stories that touch.
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Nobody: 10:42pm On Aug 22, 2016
Toks2008:
Better know where you belong to avoid stories that touch.
sorry I don't like to belong and I hate stories that touch grin tongue
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by ahnie: 10:45pm On Aug 22, 2016
Toks2008:
huh

Please explain
You are xposing secrets naa.some peeps wee jex be imaginin things they aint suppose to hence starts looking for loopholes in their partners.
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op):
Insightful.
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Nobody: 10:46pm On Aug 22, 2016
Lmao. Stop wasting your time and resources. You think all these ladies have no idea they are pass time lover, get time lover, side chicks or whatever in relationships?
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by halfricanadian(f): 10:46pm On Aug 22, 2016
lol I have been dating myself for 8 months so I kno where I belong

non existing lover cheesy
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op): 10:47pm On Aug 22, 2016
ahnie:
You are xposing secrets naa.some peeps wee jex be imaginin things they aint suppose to hence starts looking for loopholes in their partners.
Haaa! you must be a culprit. No one deserves to be a victim, a love affair should be a win win situation. Many people have seen vital signs but they are not sensitive enough to get the message.
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by ahnie: 10:53pm On Aug 22, 2016
Toks2008:
Haaa! you must be a culprit. No one deserves to be a victim, a love affair should be a win win situation. Many people have seen vital signs but they are not sensitive enough to get the message.
Ayam a chronic born again mehn...very faithful to the core.

Anyways nyc punchlines!
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Jay542(m): 10:59pm On Aug 22, 2016
ahnie:
Ayam a chronic born again mehn...very faithful to the core.

Anyways nyc punchlines!
Where's the punchline?
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by 2dice01: 11:00pm On Aug 22, 2016
love yourself more than anyone else your bae/boo comes second
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Goldenheart(m): 11:20pm On Aug 22, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Who cares? Lover is lover grin cheesy wink wink wink
You have a gorgeous smile grin wink
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Nobody: 11:22pm On Aug 22, 2016
What is love?

It seems to be dead in my world.
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Omotayor123(f): 11:24pm On Aug 22, 2016
Team Main Lover cool
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Omotayor123(f): 11:25pm On Aug 22, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Who cares? Lover is lover grin cheesy wink wink wink
Wicked grin grin
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Nobody: 1:49am On Aug 23, 2016
Goldenheart:
You have a gorgeous smile grin wink
Thanks boo kiss
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Nobody: 1:50am On Aug 23, 2016
Omotayor123:
Wicked grin grin
how? grin
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by hakunajay(m): 5:01am On Aug 23, 2016
Most ladies are in different relationships and acts in these different types of lovers. They'll be a side chick to one guy, a fall back chick to another etc
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by robosky02(m): 6:10am On Aug 23, 2016
halfricanadian:
lol I have been dating myself for 8 months so I kno where I belong

non existing lover cheesy
grin
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Goldenheart(m): 6:19am On Aug 23, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Thanks boo kiss
You welcome sweetie wink
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by ChappyChase: 7:20am On Aug 23, 2016
Watin women no go use us dohuh
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op): 10:44pm On Aug 23, 2016
ChappyChase:
Watin women no go use us dohuh
Its a two way thing
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Toks2008(op): 10:45pm On Aug 23, 2016
hakunajay:
Most ladies are in different relationships and acts in these different types of lovers. They'll be a side chick to one guy, a fall back chick to another etc
Lol..lalasticlala what do you think?
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by saintfaculty(m): 11:02pm On Aug 23, 2016
wink
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by Flashh:
ahnie:
You are solely responsible for intending broken relationships!
[color=#000033]You had to quote the post because of this? undecided[/color]
Re: How To Know If You Are The Main Lover or pass time lover. by study4free(m): 11:04pm On Aug 23, 2016
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