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emmyluizzz:
Hello, I have been in this brief relationship and we are still
dating but I want to break up with her cos I just recently
discovered that she is a white garment church member.
I am actually indifferent about the whole situation and
about her being a white garment but my mind will not just
let me be. She is a very decent, loving and amazing girl but
my perception and affection towards her changed
completely when she told me the church she attends.
We were having a random conversation about native
wears and I said I would love to see her in a native outfit
cos she was fond of wearing English clothing. She said
she doesn’t have a single ankara outfit and I asked if she
still wears her office cloths to church. That was when she
revealed the white garment issue to me.
I just don’t feel it is a good reason to split but my mind is
just not at peace with the fact that she attends a white
garment church. Right now, I am not even very sure if I
love her anymore. I just want to know if saying that to her
would break her heart or hurt her cos I just want us to call
it quit without having to hurt her.






insults is accepted...Dats only if u.......

mizzbouqui:
Have you invited her to your church and she disagreed?
I don't like white garment churches too, but you shouldn't let that disturb your relationship
This is one of the things you should have discussed before going fully into the relationship
She might agree if you tell her you want her going to your church now instead of hers (but I think that will work only if you too are engaged and you know were your relationship is heading to)

brandonobi:
wount criticize u for ur decisions but first things first, its better now than later, if u want off the relationship tell her now instead of making it worse for the future. it will b a difficult thing to do but it needs to be done

emmyluizzz:
I am actually indifferent about the whole situation and
about her being a white garment but my mind will not just
let me be.

mizzbouqui:
Have you invited her to your church and she disagreed?
I don't like white garment churches too, but you shouldn't let that disturb your relationship
This is one of the things you should have discussed before going fully into the relationship
She might agree if you tell her you want her going to your church now instead of hers (but I think that will work only if you too are engaged and you know were your relationship is heading to)

emmyluizzz:
ok...tnx..my next miss nairaland

lecturerdabo:
1. "Indifferent" yet "ur mind..." , your mind most likely exist outside you!
2. You never loved the lady from the onset but interested in ....
Go ahead!, break up with her so she can move on with her life jare!!

mizzbouqui:
Sorry I'm not and I can't be

emmyluizzz:
u don't have a choice...miss..lolss

emmyluizzz:
hey man....calm down....no wonder ur moniker is....lolss

mizzbouqui:
Okay

donbenedict:
i"d like to have a chat wit u privately pls



Cutehector

donbenedict:
i"d like to have a chat wit u privately pls



Cutehector

prettythicksme:
Oh my God! bro dont vex me more than i am vexing we r cool tho with good hrt.

emmyluizzz:
what is dis one saying

emmyluizzz:
Mr man...comot here....oooo