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Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by ireneony(f): 6:33pm On Aug 18, 2016
Allow him spit in your mouth grin. Last time i checked, kissing is exchanging of saliva.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by AfroKnight: 6:34pm On Aug 18, 2016
You have to lay down the law. No more French kisses now and forever more. Highest na peck una go peck yasef. Don't put up with that disgusting shiit.

If he is kind to you and is responsible, you don't have to break up. Just avoid kissing.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by vivianbelema(f): 7:15pm On Aug 18, 2016
Dirty
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by LoverJoe89: 7:27pm On Aug 18, 2016
Tell your boyfriend or fiance to stop watching fetish in Brazil porn where the actors exchange saliva and shit on each other. Maybe that is why he is telling you to spit back at him . Next you know he will tell you to shit on his body .
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by ButterFrost212(f): 7:49pm On Aug 18, 2016
Yuck! If this sounds soo disgusting to read then I wonder how disgusting it would be if someone actually tried to do that to me.. I don't even want to imagine. Since he's a nice guy anyway, which BTW isn't easy to come by these days, I think you should keep telling him you don't like it, and never for once indulge him, trust me it won't go away if you do. When he realises that you're not into it, he'll probably stop.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Trudiee(f): 8:22pm On Aug 18, 2016
Caprigirl.. maan, sometimes its hard to understand other people.

But bae, he's your fiance. I'm thinkin, pick a day he s in a really good jolly mood. cook his fav meal. then when the iron is hot, bring up d topic n watch his response.

if he can't stop such disgusting act, its ur choice to either walk away.. or live with it for the rest of ur life cuz u were well aware of it before marriage.

marriage means, u will tolerate his bad side n good side. so.. its ur call.

walk tho.. if he says he won't stop..
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Caprigal(op): 8:51pm On Aug 18, 2016
I am never going to indulge it.
Am just worried that he will keep asking and resent me if I refuse.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Caprigal(op): 8:54pm On Aug 18, 2016
LoverJoe89:
Tell your boyfriend or fiance to stop watching fetish in Brazil porn where the actors exchange saliva and shit on each other. Maybe that is why he is telling you to spit back at him . Next you know he will tell you to shit on his body .
He asked me to pee on him once when we were dry humping and I wasn't moist enough.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by OwoLee(m): 9:29pm On Aug 18, 2016
Caprigal:
I am never going to indulge it.

Am just worried that he will keep asking and resent me if I refuse.
I was going to ask you, if he request you guyz should go MouthAction, How would you take it?
Though, I am not a fan of such ideas but I think that's what we tend to do these days. I think if you love your partner that well, nothing should disgust you so much about his body. You guyz are into each other that's what makes it union...
If you don't do it for him, that my be reason for flirting outside in the future.
Its either you walk away from the relationship or you stay to learn and accommodate each others likes.
Believe me, even if you leave him today, does it sound so well to the hearing that because your man spits in your mouth was the reason for a break up?
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Nobody: 10:02pm On Aug 18, 2016
Caprigal:
Eeeeeewwwwww
that is sooooooo groosssssss!!!


No wonder you want me to overlook what my fiance is doing.


Eeeeewwwwww
Alright! Knock yerself out. Leave him then so he can find himself someone he is sexually compatible with. Abeg free him, dont string him along.

Make person hear word. Children these days. Mtchew


Ps: come back and tell us how much yer nxt fiancé is cheating on you and hitting you and the other train wreck awaiting you.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Phonefanatic: 10:42pm On Aug 18, 2016
OP does he give you MouthAction if yes and you enjoy it then you are a witch in the making cheesy
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Phonefanatic: 10:45pm On Aug 18, 2016
ButterFrost212:
Yuck! If this sounds soo disgusting to read then I wonder how disgusting it would be if someone actually tried to do that to me.. I don't even want to imagine. Since he's a nice guy anyway, which BTW isn't easy to come by these days, I think you should keep telling him you don't like it, and never for once indulge him, trust me it won't go away if you do. When he realises that you're not into it, he'll probably stop.
But opening kittycat for him to lick isn't disgusting...... Okay continue
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Caprigal(op): 10:59pm On Aug 18, 2016
Xiadnat:
Alright! Knock yerself out. Leave him then so he can find himself someone he is sexually compatible with. Abeg free him, dont string him along.

Make person hear word. Children these days. Mtchew


Ps: come back and tell us how much yer nxt fiancé is cheating on you and hitting you and the other train wreck awaiting you.
Its you that a trainwreck awaits not me. I reject it
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by obyno1011(m): 7:26pm On Aug 21, 2016
Caprigal:
Tell me about it. The thought alone makes me want to vomit.

And he want me to swallow it too.

He actually wants to spit into somebody's mouth and watch them swallow it.

**pukes violently**
He's a weird being. It's better you let him know about it. You can't take it.
Since the day I threw up on that gal, she never tried it. I boldly told her it can't work. It took me days to kiss her again. .

If he continues after your clear explanations then it's for a reason. Nothing romantic or arousal about it.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by jemype(m): 11:07am On Aug 25, 2016
mercichoco:
Run to where? must every xter cause a brk up? That means she'll forever be running bcoz no one is 100% complete. I believe some attitude are changeable and new ones learned
this ur dress is fyn oo
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Egbabiekperemo: 11:46am On Aug 26, 2016
Caprigal:
He has a habit of trying to exchange spit when we kiss. The first time he did it I was very very disgusted. He just deliberately tried to put so much spit in my mouth when we were kissing and I spat it out again and wiped my mouth angrily because I was disgusted.

I assumed that he is not so good at kissing that first incidence thats why he did it.

Only for him to openly ask for it again another time, like some months after the first attempt. He said I should spit in his mouth while we were kissing and I told him I cannot do that I don't like such things.

He asked again. Two other times and I repeated the same answer that I cannot do such things.

I am getting disgusted with this man if he brings it up again I will flare up. What kind of dirty and disgusting request is that?

Am I overreacting or is this spitting thing actually a normal fetish thing with some guys?
Verakruz aikhomu. U done show again
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by philomental: 11:54am On Aug 26, 2016
Caprigal:
He has a habit of trying to exchange spit when we kiss. The first time he did it I was very very disgusted. He just deliberately tried to put so much spit in my mouth when we were kissing and I spat it out again and wiped my mouth angrily because I was disgusted.

I assumed that he is not so good at kissing that first incidence thats why he did it.

Only for him to openly ask for it again another time, like some months after the first attempt. He said I should spit in his mouth while we were kissing and I told him I cannot do that I don't like such things.

He asked again. Two other times and I repeated the same answer that I cannot do such things.

I am getting disgusted with this man if he brings it up again I will flare up. What kind of dirty and disgusting request is that?

Am I overreacting or is this spitting thing actually a normal fetish thing with some guys?
This is the RESULT of watching too muchof PORN and believing in those acts as the only way out to sexual fulfillment.
You better start paying else, I can see him going out to meet STREET GIRLS who will swallow the "stuff" without complain, so far he PAYS well.

Finally, don't swallow that stuff o.... in my place, I hear some people can initiate others via saliva o.....into witchcrafty. You mayn't know what he's up to.

I rest my case
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Nobody: 12:08pm On Aug 26, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
You see the problem with our naija women.... You dey wait 'til when una dey kiss before remembering that you're not into spitting or whatever it's called (I'm sure there is an official name for it somewhere bcoz everything has a name now).
You have to sit him down,have a heart-to-heart with the niggah and see if he doesn't cut down on the fetish-centric requests.
no be to just FLARE UP every time coz him fit vex one day,tear you slap.
Then two months later,you go turn to feminist because men are so cruel and domineering.
Hahahaha..you don't add memes to your comments like before.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Nobody: 12:10pm On Aug 26, 2016
LoverJoe89:
Tell your boyfriend or fiance to stop watching fetish in Brazil porn where the actors exchange saliva and shit on each other. Maybe that is why he is telling you to spit back at him . Next you know he will tell you to shit on his body .
where una dey go look all this dirty porn.

The end is indeed near
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by IamLEGEND1: 1:25pm On Aug 26, 2016
Oyind17:
Hahahaha..you don't add memes to your comments like before.
guys don broke..... we dey try conserve MB.
na my boss smellymoutg wey take over now.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Nobody: 1:33pm On Aug 26, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
guys don broke..... we dey try conserve MB.
na my boss smellymoutg wey take over now.
OK, that smellymouth do crack me up
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by FinestPINACLE(f): 2:37pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caprigal:
He has a habit of trying to exchange spit when we kiss. The first time he did it I was very very disgusted. He just deliberately tried to put so much spit in my mouth when we were kissing and I spat it out again and wiped my mouth angrily because I was disgusted.

I assumed that he is not so good at kissing that first incidence thats why he did it.

Only for him to openly ask for it again another time, like some months after the first attempt. He said I should spit in his mouth while we were kissing and I told him I cannot do that I don't like such things.

He asked again. Two other times and I repeated the same answer that I cannot do such things.

I am getting disgusted with this man if he brings it up again I will flare up. What kind of dirty and disgusting request is that?

Am I overreacting or is this spitting thing actually a normal fetish thing with some guys?
please who is that your fiancehuh I think I know him.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Smellymouth: 2:52pm On Aug 26, 2016
Oyind17:
OK, that smellymouth do crack me up
Oyin, I learnt from the best ==> IamLEGEND1... cool
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Nobody: 3:15pm On Aug 26, 2016
Smellymouth:
Oyin, I learnt from the best ==> IamLEGEND1... cool
You are good too. I like your memes a lot
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by abokibuhari: 3:31pm On Aug 26, 2016
huhuhuhuhuh shocked he is an occult man cool
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by DeLioncourt: 3:32pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caprigal:
He has a habit of trying to exchange spit when we kiss. The first time he did it I was very very disgusted. He just deliberately tried to put so much spit in my mouth when we were kissing and I spat it out again and wiped my mouth angrily because I was disgusted.

I assumed that he is not so good at kissing that first incidence thats why he did it.

Only for him to openly ask for it again another time, like some months after the first attempt. He said I should spit in his mouth while we were kissing and I told him I cannot do that I don't like such things.

He asked again. Two other times and I repeated the same answer that I cannot do such things.

I am getting disgusted with this man if he brings it up again I will flare up. What kind of dirty and disgusting request is that?

Am I overreacting or is this spitting thing actually a normal fetish thing with some guys?
i have to laugh small. grin grin grin grin grin

ok. it's probably a fetish...possibly acquired from several wasted hours watching pornography. you have to talk to him about it if you cannot adjust to it.

let him know that it repulses you and he needs to stop it...however he can. Trust me, sh*t like this can wreck a marriage.

You don't wanna be on your way home from work thinking about how you'll avoid kissing your husband.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Smellymouth: 4:24pm On Aug 26, 2016
Oyind17:
You are good too. I like your memes a lot
Thanks Oyin..i appreciate.. cool
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Nobody: 4:26pm On Aug 26, 2016
Smellymouth:
Thanks Oyin..i appreciate.. cool
uwc smellym, why u enter my lane cool
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by Smellymouth: 5:09pm On Aug 26, 2016
Oyind17:
uwc smellym, why u enter my lane cool
Na the same lane we dey na.. grin
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by byvan03: 6:32pm On Aug 26, 2016
Caprigal:
He asked me to pee on him once when we were dry humping and I wasn't moist enough.
Please if you can't deal with this, end it. No normal person can deal with this, he is sexually depraved. If you end up marrying him, be ready to accept all fetish.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by UyiIredia(m): 6:57pm On Aug 26, 2016
It is not normal. And you are right to be angry at his disgusting antics.
Re: My Fiance Has Strange Bedroom Needs by ObioraIkenna(m): 7:07pm On Aug 26, 2016
mercichoco:
Run to where? must every xter cause a brk up? That means she'll forever be running bcoz no one is 100% complete. I believe some attitude are changeable and new ones learned
I think you're right bruh, I was discussing with an Uncle recently, he said that most die-hard habits are changed by couples in marriage.
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