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Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Flickzvill(m): 6:33pm On Aug 28, 2016
When it comes to beauty, a lot of ladies have got it but when it comes to the right attitudes, its so scarce. Background matters a lot in an human form of thinking likewise the environment itself.

Beauty can be bought but attitudes and character cannot be. Its something you cultivate. If you allow people dictate how you think, then you will act like they say.

Most ladies sit down to gossip and talk about other people’s flaws and how better they can be and in the process create an idea of how they should behave too. Then its becomes a collective mentality. Either good or bad, they key into it. Most Ladies flow with every trend, only few are neutral. If after discussing with your friends and they feel its right to dress half nude to impress or attract guys,then it becomes the order of the day. Some ladies have been sent to destroy some guys, so if you like copy every trend you see.

Its not about the beauty at all times. Like they say, beauty can attract a man but you need a great personality to keep him. Most Men have complained about the lack of vision by women. They say most ladies just want to sit down on their money and that they have no plans for progress or how to make their life better. The truth is that some ladies are becoming productive and enterprising these days and they are all not so flashy but the ones that collect all the cash from guys are the ones that we all see well enough. They really need to show off. All in the name of “I must belong” some ladies will only date rich guys, add some sugar daddies to it and even date some other casual boyfriends and even there is a break up from the guy, they say love doesn’t exist. It can’t because you never searched for it. Ain’t saying money is not good but if cash is the first thing you assess first in guys,then you might miss it.

Some guys will say they take care of your responsibilities so they have the right to do what they like. Some men will never marry a woman that can’t plan with them. So where does your beauty help you then.

Yeah!!!!!beauty can attract the finest of guys, the richest and the most famous but it won’t last. A guy keeps observing his girlfriend if she would make a good wife. So many men have complained on bad attitudes and lack of goals. They have even broken up with their fiancee just because of that.

Ladies, you need to sit up tight and think of your lives. Money can buy you beauty,dresses etc but its vanity and it can’t help you for long. Some might luckily get married to a good husband but its either you regret later in marriage or after life if you don’t change. The love of money is the root of evil. Money can push ladies to do anything and at the end its just for buying more accessories to decorate the body.

Aint saying we don’t have ladies who spend their own money to look good,thumbs up but if all you think of is how to get a good and rich maga then this post is for you. You don’t have to buy new dresses daily. You can manage what you have and invest wisely. Peace*
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Muvacci(m): 6:39pm On Aug 28, 2016
Errm... Ok.
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by halfricanadian(f): 6:43pm On Aug 28, 2016
op o cheesy everyone wanna live a good life
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by soberkid: 6:43pm On Aug 28, 2016
"CHARACTER" DEY CHANGE, "WOWO" is 'PERMANENT' angry angry angry
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Laveda(f): 6:46pm On Aug 28, 2016
But why does everything boil down to marriage?

What if we just live a good life without having this mindset that a man is watching? Heck! Right now I can't impress no one.

Back to the matter, lol a girl of 20 knows what's right, you think she doesn't know what she's doing when she's half _naked? I'm all for "live your life the way it suits you"

As time goes you'd get the repercaussion be it good or bad.

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Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 6:47pm On Aug 28, 2016
Character is key. Oyind17 has it grin
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by halfricanadian(f): 6:49pm On Aug 28, 2016
Laveda:
But why does everything boil down to marriage?

What if we just live a good life without having this mindset that a man is watching? Heck! Right now I can't impress no one.

Back to the matter, lol a girl of 20 knows what's right, you think she doesn't know what she's doing when she's half _naked? I'm all for "live your life the way it suits you"

As time goes you'd get the repercaussion be it good or bad.

im loving this cool

live ur life d way it suits u

impress no one atall

who wil love u will love u cheesy im loving this cute words

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Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by halfricanadian(f): 6:51pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:
Character is key. Oyind17 has it grin

make she giv me extra key o cheesy
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:
Character is key. Oy..ind17 has it grin
How u take know? grin
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Laveda(f): 6:52pm On Aug 28, 2016
halfricanadian:


im loving this cool

live ur life d way it suits u

impress no one atall

who wil love u will love u cheesy im loving this cute words

Thanks Jare.

Live a good and happy life, that's all that matters.
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Aug 28, 2016
halfricanadian:


make she giv me extra key o cheesy
My one and only halfrica oyoyo baby imgrin

Mummy's girl how are you doing? kisskiss
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by halfricanadian(f): 6:55pm On Aug 28, 2016
Laveda:


Thanks Jare.

Live a good and happy life, that's all that matters.

cheesy thats d way o
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by halfricanadian(f): 6:56pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
My one and only halfrica oyoyo baby imgrin

Mummy's girl how are you doing? kisskiss

cheesy jeez my body is doin tayum tayum cos of ur praises

im fine o im good cheesy

wen wil u give me character extra key o cheesy
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by bitchcrafts: 6:59pm On Aug 28, 2016
None of the above oh, Na money come first oh.


You don't know a Man's truest character until the cash begins to overflow ykno, and that beauty remains malnourished until their is ego to pad it up.


I have spoken nothing and nothing but the truth !
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 6:59pm On Aug 28, 2016
halfricanadian:


cheesy jeez my body is doin tayum tayum cos of ur praises

im fine o im good cheesy

wen wil u give me character extra key o cheesy
On your wedding daygrin
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 7:01pm On Aug 28, 2016
Flickzvill:
When it comes to beauty, a lot of ladies have got it but when it comes to the right attitudes, its so scarce. Background matters a lot in an human form of thinking likewise the environment itself.

Beauty can be bought but attitudes and character cannot be. Its something you cultivate. If you allow people dictate how you think, then you will act like they say.

Most ladies sit down to gossip and talk about other people’s flaws and how better they can be and in the process create an idea of how they should behave too. Then its becomes a collective mentality. Either good or bad, they key into it. Most Ladies flow with every trend, only few are neutral. If after discussing with your friends and they feel its right to dress half nude to impress or attract guys,then it becomes the order of the day. Some ladies have been sent to destroy some guys, so if you like copy every trend you see.

Its not about the beauty at all times. Like they say, beauty can attract a man but you need a great personality to keep him. Most Men have complained about the lack of vision by women. They say most ladies just want to sit down on their money and that they have no plans for progress or how to make their life better. The truth is that some ladies are becoming productive and enterprising these days and they are all not so flashy but the ones that collect all the cash from guys are the ones that we all see well enough. They really need to show off. All in the name of “I must belong” some ladies will only date rich guys, add some sugar daddies to it and even date some other casual boyfriends and even there is a break up from the guy, they say love doesn’t exist. It can’t because you never searched for it. Ain’t saying money is not good but if cash is the first thing you assess first in guys,then you might miss it.

Some guys will say they take care of your responsibilities so they have the right to do what they like. Some men will never marry a woman that can’t plan with them. So where does your beauty help you then.

Yeah!!!!!beauty can attract the finest of guys, the richest and the most famous but it won’t last. A guy keeps observing his girlfriend if she would make a good wife. So many men have complained on bad attitudes and lack of goals. They have even broken up with their fiancee just because of that.

Ladies, you need to sit up tight and think of your lives. Money can buy you beauty,dresses etc but its vanity and it can’t help you for long. Some might luckily get married to a good husband but its either you regret later in marriage or after life if you don’t change. The love of money is the root of evil. Money can push ladies to do anything and at the end its just for buying more accessories to decorate the body.

Aint saying we don’t have ladies who spend their own money to look good,thumbs up but if all you think of is how to get a good and rich maga then this post is for you. You don’t have to buy new dresses daily. You can manage what you have and invest wisely. Peace*
watin this one dey talk?
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by EmperorLee(m): 7:20pm On Aug 28, 2016
Beautiful and good character - Excellent

Beautiful and bad Character - Manageable.

Ugly and Good character - Fair.

Ugly and Bad Character - The person suppose just go kill herself lipsrsealed undecided. How can you be ugly and still live an I-d-o-n-t-c-a-r-e lifestyle? Ko le werk menh
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by ehix89(m): 7:32pm On Aug 28, 2016
is it a crime to have them both
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 8:01pm On Aug 28, 2016
halfricanadian:


make she giv me extra key o cheesy
Lol. Na only she get am oo grin
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 8:04pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
How u take know? grin
Ah. I know oo grin
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:

Ah. I know oo grin
Lol, I agree
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 8:26pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
Lol, I agree
smiley grin
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 8:28pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:

smiley grin
what is your old moniker?
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Aug 28, 2016
EmperorLee:
Beautiful and good character - Excellent

Beautiful and bad Character - Manageable.

Ugly and Good character - Fair.

Ugly and Bad Character - The person suppose just go kill herself lipsrsealed undecided. How can you be ugly and still live an I-d-o-n-t-c-a-r-e lifestyle? Ko le werk menh
waiting for lectures to start
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by EmperorLee(m): 8:33pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
waiting for lectures to start


Student grin. Oya lemme go and find one dead thread where we will use.
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 8:54pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
what is your old moniker?
What's moniker?
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:

What's moniker?
never mimd
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 9:14pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
never mimd
What's the meaning sef? I've been seeing it around and I've no idea.
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:

What's the meaning sef? I've been seeing it around and I've no idea.
the nickname you bear on Nl

Mine is oyind17
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Jay542(m): 9:21pm On Aug 28, 2016
Oyind17:
the nickname you bear on Nl

Mine is oyind17
Thanks.
Mine is Jay.
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Aug 28, 2016
Jay542:

Thanks.
Mine is Jay.
Are you from Yoruba?
Re: Beauty Vs Character: Who Gets It Going? by Oahray: 9:28pm On Aug 28, 2016
Laveda:
But why does everything boil down to marriage?

What if we just live a good life without having this mindset that a man is watching? Heck! Right now I can't impress no one.

Back to the matter, lol a girl of 20 knows what's right, you think she doesn't know what she's doing when she's half _naked? I'm all for "live your life the way it suits you"

As time goes you'd get the repercaussion be it good or bad.
this is 100% theory. In reality, your choices affect others, directly or indirectly. That's why it's shortsighted and rather selfish to just "live your life the way it suits you."

I agree with the marriage part though. Ladies shouldn't live to please men or live with marriage as the ultimate goal. Doesn't mean they shouldn't give a damn about how their choices affect the next person.

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