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Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 5:41am On Sep 07, 2016
Someone once said that when love is good, it’s easy. I don’t know about all that, but your relationship definitely shouldn’t feel like a chore. When you’re with a man who is good for you, things just seem to flow. Most of the time it’s because he’s giving you what you need without you having to ask. And that’s the mark of a good partner.

Rough patches in a relationship usually come about when you need something that he can’t or won’t give. Then the arguments start. And if you’re struggling to get basic needs met in your relationship, you might need to prepare yourself to move on.

Some gentlemen are rough around the edges, and no relationship is completely free of drama. But if you have to fight for these basic necessities, the rest of your relationship is probably going to be an uphill battle.



TIME

A good romantic partner doesn’t make you beg for his time.



CONVERSATION

If you have to ask, “Why am I always calling you?” then he’s clearly not as interested in the relationship as he should be.



COMPLIMENTS

You shouldn’t have to fish for them.



PHYSICAL AFFECTION

And not just when things are headed to the bedroom. Even a man who’s not into PDA will still find a way to show you some TLC.



SUPPORT

In a healthy relationship, a good partner naturally tries to understand where you’re coming from — even if he suggests another point of view.



SPACE

He understands that you need a night out with your friends — without texting you a dozen times to find out “Where you at?”



SECURITY

Even before the official talk about where things might be headed, the right kind of prospective partner gives you the feeling that they can protect you.



TRUST

A healthy relationship doesn’t leave you with a sneaking suspicion that something is up.



MouthAction

A good partner keeps your pleasure in mind without you having to always remind him that you’re in the bedroom too.



FORGIVENESS

It’s normal to get on each other’s nerves every now and then when things are done that you don’t like or agree with. But healthy relationships are built on forgiveness, not holding grudges.



KIND GESTURES

Whether it’s an unexpected cup of coffee (just the way you like it), or a date to a movie he thinks you’ll love, a good partner pays attention to what you’re into — and tries to deliver at least occasionally.



REMEMBERING IMPORTANT THINGS


If you constantly have to remind him of the important things you’ve shared with him — like the fact that you have a sister, or you’re allergic to peanuts — it might be a sign that he’s not interested enough to pay attention.



ADVICE

When you struggle with an issue, he shouldn’t shrug his shoulders and leave you to deal with it alone. He might not have all the answers but he should be there to help give you direction.



GOOD BEHAVIOR

If you have to ask him to do the “good” basics — like return your messages and remember your birthday — you’re wasting your time.
Visit www.truecelebmedia.com for more interesting tips

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mrbillz(m): 5:45am On Sep 07, 2016
Love and Care nko Not needed abi sad

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 5:56am On Sep 07, 2016
mrbillz:
Love and Care nko Not needed abi sad

PHYSICAL AFFECTION
SUPPORT
TRUST

these are another words for love and care grin grin grin grin

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mhisbliss(f): 6:09am On Sep 07, 2016
and to wrap it all up, such men dont exist, quote me if you're a warthog grin
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by ponpin234(m): 6:10am On Sep 07, 2016
A man/woman will happily and willingly do most or all of this things if the partner actually appreciates them. In this new generation, the best type of love is BI-DIRECTIONAL love. Appreciate what your partner does to you and also show yours to your partner and you will live a wonderful relationship.

Your Online_Consultant.
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Roidatom(m): 7:46am On Sep 07, 2016
mhisbliss:
and to wrap it all up, such men dont exist, quote me if you're a warthog grin

I'm not a warthog. grin
Such men exist. I'm one. Ask my lady.
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mhisbliss(f): 7:48am On Sep 07, 2016
Roidatom:


I'm not a warthog. grin
Such men exist. I'm one. Ask my lady.
You're a warthog grin wheres ya lady
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Mightyraw(m): 7:50am On Sep 07, 2016
I dnt see Money up There


Awa ladies wont agree to dis, keep d affection
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mercichoco(f): 7:50am On Sep 07, 2016
Nice points op.
But ehh, mouth action, me i'm confused!
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mercichoco(f): 7:56am On Sep 07, 2016
mrbillz:
Love and Care nko Not needed abi sad
You can't express these qualities to your woman without love and care, for LOVE is the father of these things

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by veekid(m): 8:10am On Sep 07, 2016
I can't see money and dikk there; so your list is void
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 2:43am On Sep 08, 2016
mhisbliss:
and to wrap it all up, such men dont exist, quote me if you're a warthog grin

very much in existence
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 2:43am On Sep 08, 2016
veekid:
I can't see money and dikk there; so your list is void
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 2:45am On Sep 08, 2016
mercichoco:
You can't express these qualities to your woman without love and care, for LOVE is the father of these things

love and care doesnt need to be listed again
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 2:45am On Sep 08, 2016
mercichoco:
Nice points op.

But ehh, mouth action, me i'm confused!

yes na grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 2:46am On Sep 08, 2016
Mightyraw:
I dnt see Money up There


Awa ladies wont agree to dis, keep d affection

KIND GESTURES and SUPPORT is listed, so it covers wink
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Mightyraw(m): 7:12am On Sep 08, 2016
Man jusS state money,
All dose cum afta,
Ask d lady bside u
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Roidatom(m): 9:31am On Sep 08, 2016
mhisbliss:
You're a warthog grin wheres ya lady

I'm not a warthog. grin
Here she is.
The Queen of my heart.
So loving and supportive.
That's why I give her my best.
She's my all in all.
Ask her: +39 562 874 4872

Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by firstking01(m): 9:36am On Sep 08, 2016
Do these to any nigerian girl and you'd be wasting your valuable time pouring water into basket.
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 9:54am On Sep 08, 2016
Roidatom:


I'm not a warthog. grin
Here she is.
The Queen of my heart.
So loving and supportive.
That's why I give her my best.
She's my all in all.
Ask her: +39 562 874 4872

i smell scam......lmao

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mrbillz(m): 10:17am On Sep 08, 2016
mercichoco:
You can't express these qualities to your woman without love and care, for LOVE is the father of these things
Abi oo
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by mhisbliss(f): 10:23am On Sep 08, 2016
Roidatom:


I'm not a warthog. grin
Here she is.
The Queen of my heart.
So loving and supportive.
That's why I give her my best.
She's my all in all.
Ask her: +39 562 874 4872
grin shes cute

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by LuvU2: 10:32am On Sep 08, 2016
Roidatom:


I'm not a warthog. grin
Here she is.
The Queen of my heart.
So loving and supportive.
That's why I give her my best.
She's my all in all.
Ask her: +39 562 874 4872
u lifted that pic from black women photo gallery grin

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Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Teespice(f): 11:22am On Sep 08, 2016
I agree with this list.
everything is not always about material things abeg.
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 1:13pm On Sep 08, 2016
Teespice:
I agree with this list.

everything is not always about material things abeg.

thumbs up
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 3:35pm On Sep 08, 2016
Roidatom:


I'm not a warthog. grin
Such men exist. I'm one. Ask my lady.

grin grin grin grin grin grin

Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 5:58am On Sep 09, 2016
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
LuvU2:
u lifted that pic from black women photo gallery grin
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Titilayooni(f): 8:31am On Sep 09, 2016
Truecelebmedia:
Someone once said that when love is good, it’s easy. I don’t know about all that, but your relationship definitely shouldn’t feel like a chore. When you’re with a man who is good for you, things just seem to flow. Most of the time it’s because he’s giving you what you need without you having to ask. And that’s the mark of a good partner.

Rough patches in a relationship usually come about when you need something that he can’t or won’t give. Then the arguments start. And if you’re struggling to get basic needs met in your relationship, you might need to prepare yourself to move on.

Some gentlemen are rough around the edges, and no relationship is completely free of drama. But if you have to fight for these basic necessities, the rest of your relationship is probably going to be an uphill battle.



TIME

A good romantic partner doesn’t make you beg for his time.



CONVERSATION

If you have to ask, “Why am I always calling you?” then he’s clearly not as interested in the relationship as he should be.



COMPLIMENTS

You shouldn’t have to fish for them.



PHYSICAL AFFECTION

And not just when things are headed to the bedroom. Even a man who’s not into PDA will still find a way to show you some TLC.



SUPPORT

In a healthy relationship, a good partner naturally tries to understand where you’re coming from — even if he suggests another point of view.



SPACE

He understands that you need a night out with your friends — without texting you a dozen times to find out “Where you at?”



SECURITY

Even before the official talk about where things might be headed, the right kind of prospective partner gives you the feeling that they can protect you.



TRUST

A healthy relationship doesn’t leave you with a sneaking suspicion that something is up.



MouthAction

A good partner keeps your pleasure in mind without you having to always remind him that you’re in the bedroom too.



FORGIVENESS

It’s normal to get on each other’s nerves every now and then when things are done that you don’t like or agree with. But healthy relationships are built on forgiveness, not holding grudges.



KIND GESTURES

Whether it’s an unexpected cup of coffee (just the way you like it), or a date to a movie he thinks you’ll love, a good partner pays attention to what you’re into — and tries to deliver at least occasionally.



REMEMBERING IMPORTANT THINGS


If you constantly have to remind him of the important things you’ve shared with him — like the fact that you have a sister, or you’re allergic to peanuts — it might be a sign that he’s not interested enough to pay attention.



ADVICE

When you struggle with an issue, he shouldn’t shrug his shoulders and leave you to deal with it alone. He might not have all the answers but he should be there to help give you direction.



GOOD BEHAVIOR

If you have to ask him to do the “good” basics — like return your messages and remember your birthday — you’re wasting your time.
Visit www.truecelebmedia.com for more interesting tips
Now I know ts not easy being a man,,God bless you my love for been there for me always...MUAH#
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 8:43am On Sep 09, 2016
amen
Titilayooni:
Now I know ts not easy being a man,,God bless you my love for been there for me always...MUAH#
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Roidatom(m): 12:05pm On Sep 09, 2016
Truecelebmedia:


i smell scam......lmao

Your nose is functioning wella. grin
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Roidatom(m): 12:08pm On Sep 09, 2016
LuvU2:
u lifted that pic from black women photo gallery grin

You mean you just can't believe it that my lady is soo beautiful? C'mon dear. wink
Re: Things A Good Man Gives You (without Asking) by Truecelebmedia(f): 1:07pm On Sep 09, 2016
shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked grin grin tongue tongue tongue
Roidatom:


Your nose is functioning wella. grin

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