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cococandy:
Unfollowing this sick thread.

Not really surprised. Wouldn't expect anything different from folks verified to be mentally unbalanced. May everyone reap what they sow. Amen.

Evil shall befall those who support it. Amen.

The idiot who created the thread already deactivated his account. Guess he couldn't face the truth. He was expecting everyone to give him a tap on the back but he was disappointed with the exception of a few guys who think through their anuses and a few stupid ladies who would do anything to get likes and probably boyfriends.
How are you ma'am? And how is that sweet little soul on your dp?

joseph1832:
Exactly. If I was the one I would have stopped him, why? because I know there are many ways you can use to punish a girl. But rape is never among.

Its just unfortunate sha.

But she's learnt, maybe next time she'd be careful of the kinda guy she rolls with, and also know what she's in for you don't just keep collecting from a guy when his intentions are obvious, I'm sure he's been requesting for it before the incident took place, would have been much better if she left such relationship...


Anyways, its all in her hands.

Anyone who watches C.S.I, will know that Nigeria is far behind in terms of the science of forensics, and getting a doctor to attest that indeed, there was forceful penetration is almost near impossible, especially if the doctor can be bribed, just like any D.P.O.

Laveda:
Its just unfortunate sha.

But she's learnt, maybe next time she'd be careful of the kinda guy she rolls with, and also know what she's in for you don't just keep collecting from a guy when his intentions are obvious, I'm sure he's been requesting for it before the incident took place, would have been much better if she left such relationship...


Anyways, its all in her hands.

See why i've been saying you reason sometimes far above your age grade?

In the case of the girl in question, it was just greed and unfortunate. She's seen a real meal ticket to collect money and what have you.

boninho:
If the rape case is reported in Islamic foremost nation Saudi Arabia, both the guy and the girl would be punished. The guy for the act and the girl for having left her home without a blood related male accompanying her and then putting herself in a situation that could lead to sexual violence

Sorry but this is Nigeria.

freshvine:
Why not put a cavet emptor asking people to distance from me on nairaland.

If it reverses the forex rate currently twitching the economy, then you deserve a ball with two glands as an award

You see your life? just laid bare to the whole world, you couldn't say a single thing to address the issue raised, but you've been here all day supporting rape, now attempt at putting up a defence supporting your argument, you can't, all you know how to do is talk crap, yet think yourself better than others and I, smh.

Sometimes I wonder why I even bother, it's really a pity.

AnonyNymous:
The op came off as sincere, seeking help, but after reading through the comments, I'm sure that he doesn't really care about the girl in question. The girl was greedy, yes. But still, that gives his friend NO RIGHT to rape her. If he wanted his 'money' back he could follow her home and put her things up for auction on eBay until he made all his money back. Its ridiculous to think that you have the right to rape someone just because you spent money on her. There are professionals that accept money in exchange for sex.
Girls should see this, anytime you get something from a guy make sure you give something in return.

It's not fair to call the woman greedy. You're only taking the OP and the OP's friend's word for it. When people date, they tend to spend money on each other. If a person is giving something to someone and expecting something in return, what was the point of giving in the first place? Isn't giving supposed to come from a genuine place?

I understand what you're saying. That's what you should have said earlier instead of the insults. I've called the girl in question this and we have arranged to meet today. I've equally apologized on my friend's behalf and I equally told her to please forgive me for not stopping it when I had a chance to. I'm equally prepared to compensate her with 200k and my friend is will to add another 200k so that she can forget about the whole matter. I know it's not easy.

Wow
It was at this point in the story that I realized the whole thing is just one big gigantic concocted lie.

I know that mumu Op's moniker before he deactivated, he was an expert in creating misogynistic antiwoman threads and I know he just created this fake thread to make it seem like raping women who collect gifts is justified.

Only for Karma to kick his woman hating arse so hard!!!
I dislike misogynists like kilode. Kai, am so happy how the thread turned out.
I knew the rape story was a lie sha, but I read all twenty one pages just to see insults being heaped on Op's head.

joseph1832:
See why i've been saying you reason sometimes far above your age grade?

In the case of the girl in question, it was just greed and unfortunate. She's seen a real meal ticket to collect money and what have you.

thanks.

I guess she was enjoying it all and didn't see it coming, you know some guys are just evil.

joseph1832ng:
Where you there to know he did it willingly? Where you around when the guy was spending money on the said girl?

If people date without sex, surely there must have been an agreement to come to that conclusion, don't you think so?.

so she had him spend money on her at gun point? Take a step back...and read your comments again! It smacks of complete insensitivity and crass foolishness to say the least. I wish all these rapist guys would meet with some badass chick that will just pluck off their d.icks. Insecure mofos!

Laveda:
thanks.

I guess she was enjoying it all and didn't see it coming, you know some guys are just evil.

I know that some guys are the personification of evil, but he who wines and dine with evil is bound to get tainted by that same evil.

In life, one can not eat his cake and have it. Though most girls always believe they can.

To report the case, the friend must get proof because he only heard her begging. He can claim the girl later accepted after the begging...plus considering the fact that every entrance was open showing he wasnt afraid of intrusion. Its not just that straightforward. I pity the girl. My advice is whether you are getting anything from a guy or not, if you dont want sex/sexual violation, avoid situations that could lead to it

sweetcocoa:
You see your life? just laid bare to the whole world, you couldn't say a single thing to address the issue raised, but you've been here all day supporting rape, now attempt at putting up a defence supporting your argument, you can't, all you know how to do is talk crap, yet think yourself better than others and I, smh.

Sometimes I wonder why I even bother, it's really a pity.

Why will I run a circus with you when your brain has been tilted towards non objective application?

You don't have the rational mind to sustain this argument cos it's glaring your myopic standpoint is sentiment driven and I don't want to give you that pleasure to fantasize to oblivion.

I know your nectar is sweet and free, why not patronize those with what you live for?

The lady provided the template for crime to exercise and you want me to exemplify her and condemn the guy. Because arm robbery is a crime, will you leave your doors ajar at night and hope they don't come?

If you condemn the action of the girl, you've succeeded in dealing with the root problem and rape will reduce drastically in the society but if you keep saying "no matter what" other young lady will think it is legal to deceive a man into believing they're in a relationship with him with the notion of zapping his wealth with no benefit to the guy and such demeanor encourages rape.

I know that someday you'll will have a son and your advice to him when he is of age won't be different from the others, "beware of the foolish girls who's after your money and would want to render you useless". This girl represent one of those mothers warmed their male children about and in this case, the guy was smart to extract his wages.

freshvine:
Why will I run a circus with you when your brain has been tilted towards non objective application?

You don't have the rational mind to sustain this argument cos it's glaring your myopic standpoint is sentiment driven and I don't want to give you that pleasure to fantasize to oblivion.

I know your nectar is sweet and free, why not patronize those with what you live for?

The lady provided the template for crime to exercise and you want me to exemplify her and condemn the guy. Because arm robbery is a crime, will you leave your doors ajar at night and hope they don't come?

If you condemn the action of the girl, you've succeeded in dealing with the root problem and rape will reduce drastically in the society but if you keep saying "no matter what" other young lady will think it is legal to deceive a man into believing they're in a relationship with him with the notion of zapping his wealth with no benefit to the guy and such demeanor encourages rape.

I know that someday you'll will have a son and your advice to him when he is of age won't be different from the others, "beware of the foolish girls who's after your money and would want to render you useless". This girl represent one of those mothers warmed their male children about and in this case, the guy was smart to extract his wages.

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joseph1832:
I know that some guys are the personification of evil, but he who wines and dine with evil is bound to get tainted by that same evil.

In life, one can not eat his cake and have it. Though most girls always believe they can.

Like I said, she's learnt and next time she'd be careful enough and stop asking and receiving anyhow.

Lordkylie:
wow really!my bro was really right when he said men need renovation(yeah) oga you just might be raped one day or find yourself in a situation where you're taken advantage of.Your story go different.The only reason nigerian women dont show their pain or talk about it is because of nitwits like you who'll find a way to blame her and her alone for her woes.

Maybe your brother and the Rapist needs renovation, but not all men do!

OP should have tried stopping it earlier.
Though it's a dangerous thing that could endanger his life, depending on the nature of the rapist.

I would be scared though to be honest.
A rapist would be very eager to cover his tracks, and things could get really dangerous.

seriously, where is it written in the Nigerian constitution that if I see something and I choose to turn my face away become a crime?

No dear, its definitely not a crime. But watever happened to being your brother's keeper? Besides, I believe God brought you to that scene at that particular time for a reason. However u chose to do nothing, thereby silently consenting to the crime and sin.


As far as this case is concerned, u're not just a witness to a crime but an accomplice.And as you refused to help a fellow human being, even though it was very much in ur power to do so, may u alwayz be denied help in all ur future endeavours.

I seriously have to unfollow this thread. The disgusting comments I've being reading here fills me with such anger. A guy is stup1d enough to have being played by a girl, and instead of owning up to his stupidity, he feels he is justified to rape her. What I am seeing here are people saying she deserves to be raped because of 'greed'.

Sick, twisted and perverted generation with no moral compass.

*unfollows thread*

Laveda:
Like I said, she's learnt and next time she'd be careful enough and stop asking and receiving anyhow.

Let's hope and pray she does, cos I know man girls find it very hard learning from this sort of thing. E.G Just like the runz girl who witnessed her friends eyes bring plucked out, after surviving, she continues with her runz.

Ishilove:
I seriously have to unfollow this thread. The disgusting comments I've being reading here fills me with such anger. A guy is stup1d enough to have being played by a girl, and instead of owning up to his stupidity, he feels he is justified to rape her. What I am seeing here are people saying she deserves to be raped because of 'greed'.

Sick, twisted and perverted generation with no moral compass.

*unfollows thread*

Welcome to The Federal Republic of Nigeria. Here you'll find anything goes, as long as you have the power to exert it.

Ishilove:
I seriously have to unfollow this thread. The disgusting comments I've being reading here fills me with such anger. A guy is stup1d enough to have being played by a girl, and instead of owning up to his stupidity, he feels he is justified to rape her. What I am seeing here are people saying she deserves to be raped because of 'greed'.

Sick, twisted and perverted generation with no moral compass.

*unfollows thread*

Ma, I didn't make no comment on the thread since morning o, but 'why did the lady visit him in the first place?' she knew the game is dangerous, she put herself in a sticky position... I'm not saying what d guy did is good o infact it's as evil as evil itself, but still the geh caused it, had she being smart enuf to avoid going to the guy's crib maybe she wouldn't have being raped....

joseph1832:
Let's hope and pray she does, cos I know man girls find it very hard learning from this sort of thing. E.G Just like the runz girl who witnessed her friends eyes bring plucked out, after surviving, she continues with her runz.

Then such person is just plain dumb and doesn't deserve any form of pity.

freshvine:
Why will I run a circus with you when your brain has been tilted towards non objective application?

You don't have the rational mind to sustain this argument cos it's glaring your myopic standpoint is sentiment driven and I don't want to give you that pleasure to fantasize to oblivion.

I know your nectar is sweet and free, why not patronize those with what you live for?

The lady provided the template for crime to exercise and you want me to exemplify her and condemn the guy. Because arm robbery is a crime, will you leave your doors ajar at night and hope they don't come?

If you condemn the action of the girl, you've succeeded in dealing with the root problem and rape will reduce drastically in the society but if you keep saying "no matter what" other young lady will think it is legal to deceive a man into believing they're in a relationship with him with the notion of zapping his wealth with no benefit to the guy and such demeanor encourages rape.

I know that someday you'll will have a son and your advice to him when he is of age won't be different from the others, "beware of the foolish girls who's after your money and would want to render you useless". This girl represent one of those mothers warmed their male children about and in this case, the guy was smart to extract his wages.

The one focusing on unrequited love instead of a crime committed is calling me sentimental, irony never felt more real.

You know, when I talk about you wanting a go at my "nectar" I used to do it as a joke but I'm not so sure anymore, why must you always refer to it in any conversation with/concerning me? How is my coochie related to the discourse? Even if you must take a swipe at me, must it be pvssy related? Nna nekwa nu'm nsogbu biko, I don't do 1diots, I've said that a gazillion times.

See who I am attempting to reason with, so if I leave my door open, it is an invitation to get robbed? Not that robbers are lowlife criminals and therefore need no excuse to carry out their nefarious activities? Does a door even need to be open for robbers to come? You'd actually present this argument in a court of law? Amazing!

Now accepting gifts or leading a man on, is the root cause of rape, not the fact that the rapist is a crazy and wicked fellow, who doesn't care about anything but his own depravity, do you even hear yourself? So kids, teenagers, old women and even babies that get raped all collected gifts or led their molesters on?

I don't talk about the actions/inactions of the girl because rape is never and can never be justified, rape is a crime for a reason and accepting of gifts or leading a person on isn't, I don't know nor care about the morality of the girl so why should I focus on how she chose to lead her life?

The only issue here is that a crime, key word being 'crime' has been committed, whatever may have led to the crime is secondary or (in some cases) even not important in a court of law.

While it is(in my opinion) morally wrong to accept gifts under false pretext or lead a person on, it is not illegal(with the exception of promise of marriage, which you even have to prove) and I have said this earlier on this thread.

You need to understand how the law works before opening your wide mouth to talk trash, the law doesn't care how much dude may have spent on said girl, all it cares about is that a crime of rape was committed, but how can a stupid person understand this?

Ofcourse any wise mother would give their son that advice but the onus is on the son not to be a f00l who doesn't recognise that his love is unrequited, yet keeps spending money.

And you boldly said the guy was smart enough to extract his wages, how do you even think yourself smart making such comments? This is the height of it, you are a disgrace.


Some people dense sha, na wa.

Please do report this case. Am interested. this is my initiative on Twitter. @Am_against_Rape I will post the on the page. Please Report to the nearest police station and let justice take it course. Please this is so important.

Elxandre:
Maybe your brother and the Rapist needs renovation, but not all men do!

OP should have tried stopping it earlier.
Though it's a dangerous thing that could endanger his life, depending on the nature of the rapist.

I would be scared though to be honest.
A rapist would be very eager to cover his tracks, and things could get really dangerous.

i shoulda been more specific its actually nigerian men:a very high percentage of them including you since that was the only part of my post that caught your attention.Btw nigerian rapists do very little to cover their tracks cause they know the law will very likely not catch up with them.
Please dont mention me on this thread again,the attitudes of some of the posters is quite sickening.Thanks

Pidggin:
The Lord says "vengeance is mine " I know you have deactivated this moniker but I give you two days to confess your sins using the alternate moniker you are now using to monitor this thread

After which I will declare something that you will regret if you don't.

declare what? Shut up there and face front. They smell a meal you know you won't eat.

iRepNaija1:
It's not fair to call the woman greedy. You're only taking the OP and the OP's friend's word for it. When people date, they tend to spend money on each other. If a person is giving something to someone and expecting something in return, what was the point of giving in the first place? Isn't giving supposed to come from a genuine place?

Nope. There is no such thing. As humans we are all naturally selfish. There must be a form of self gratification for any act of "kindness".

The op should have stopped the rape from happening in the first place. His friend would have listened to him. Not waiting till AFTER the rape to become guilty.

Prettiepearlz:
The idiot who created the thread already deactivated his account. Guess he couldn't face the truth. He was expecting everyone to give him a tap on the back but he was disappointed with the exception of a few guys who think through their anuses and a few stupid ladies who would do anything to get likes and probably boyfriends.
How are you ma'am? And how is that sweet little soul on your dp?

oh I'm good dear. We are all good. Thanks.

Laveda:
Then such person is just plain dumb and doesn't deserve any form of pity.

Q.E.D.

Water poured on stone can never penetrate.

Stop wasting your energy.

sweetcocoa:
The one focusing on unrequited love instead of a crime committed is calling me sentimental, irony never felt more real.

You know, when I talk about you wanting a go at my "nectar" I used to do it as a joke but I'm not so sure anymore, why must you always refer to it in any conversation with/concerning me? How is my coochie related to the discourse? Even if you must take a swipe at me, must it be pvssy related? Nna nekwa nu'm nsogbu biko, I don't do 1diots, I've said that a gazillion times.

See who I am attempting to reason with, so if I leave my door open, it is an invitation to get robbed? Not that robbers are lowlife criminals and therefore need no excuse to carry out their nefarious activities? Does a door even need to be open for robbers to come? You'd actually present this argument in a court of law? Amazing!

Now accepting gifts or leading a man on, is the root cause of rape, not the fact that the rapist is a crazy and wicked fellow, who doesn't care about anything but his own depravity, do you even hear yourself? So kids, teenagers, old women and even babies that get raped all collected gifts or led their molesters on?

I don't talk about the actions/inactions of the girl because rape is never and can never be justified, rape is a crime for a reason and accepting of gifts or leading a person on isn't, I don't know nor care about the morality of the girl so why should I focus on how she chose to lead her life?

The only issue here is that a crime, key word being 'crime' has been committed, whatever may have led to the crime is secondary or (in some cases) even not important in a court of law.

While it is(in my opinion) morally wrong to accept gifts under false pretext or lead a person on, it is not illegal(with the exception of promise of marriage, which you even have to prove) and I have said this earlier on this thread.

You need to understand how the law works before opening your wide mouth to talk trash, the law doesn't care how much dude may have spent on said girl, all it cares about is that a crime of rape was committed, but how can a stupid person understand this?

Ofcourse any wise mother would give their son that advice but the onus is on the son not to be a f00l who doesn't recognise that his love is unrequited, yet keeps spending money.

And you boldly said the guy was smart enough to extract his wages, how do you even think yourself smart making such comments? This is the height of it, you are a disgrace.


Some people dense sha, na wa.

cococandy:
Water poured on stone can never penetrate.

Stop wasting your energy.

Truer words have not been said my sister.

Let me go watch TV instead.

SmartChoices:
You just endorsed ra.pe sis.

fact is not an endorsement