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ok ...so i ve been frnds with this guy for like 6yrs nw,he is like my paddy and everything...he is very cute and all that and am totally free with him ,like we discuss our rltnshp with each oda and we both advice ourselves

fast forward to today...we were chatting on whatsapp,he started dis weird convo abt telling me how he feels abt me,i was thinking thats his normal playful type cos he plays alot....it turns out 2 be that he is actualy serious and is asking me out after yrs of been frnds...am like what the f...k? i see him like a brother nw,i cant imagine kissing him sef,just the mere thought of it makes me want 2 puke ...
i asked him y he didnt tell me this in d early yrs of our frndshp,his reply was that he was waiting for the right time,i felt for him buh the truth is i cant date him now even if am paid to cos am just nt attracted to him upon he is very good looking and cute ...
my advice to the guys is that if u love a gal,tell her immediately and dnt wait for the right time cos by then u will be so deep in the friendzone that u wnt be able to come out again....
i hope am making sense

oya tke

Its better he becomes homeless rather than live in that friend zone joor

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]"So Deep In The Friendzone" Shitt!!

Sometimes, we get turned down when we confess immediately. That's why we try to get close first.

But some guys take too long. Even myself, sometimes I wouldn't know the right time to ask a girl out.[/color]

mind your language young man...
back to the topic,6yrs is just too long to wait for the right time,my advice 2 or 3 months is perfect..

thank God ooo...am out

ouzo1:
Its better he becomes homeless rather than live in that friend zone joor

lolz...ur funny

CindyeMerAld:
ok ...so i ve been frnds with this guy for like 6yrs nw,he is like my paddy and everything...he is very cute and all that and am totally free with him ,like we discuss our rltnshp with each oda and we both advice ourselves

fast forward to today...we were chatting on whatsapp,he started dis weird convo abt telling me how he feels abt me,i was thinking thats his normal playful type cos he plays alot....it turns out 2 be that he is actualy serious and is asking me out after yrs of been frnds...am like what the f...k? i see him like a brother nw,i cant imagine kissing him sef,just the mere thought of it makes me want 2 puke sef...
i asked him y he didnt tell me this in d early yrs of our frndshp,his reply was that he was waiting for the right time,i felt for him buh the truth is i cant date him now even if am paid to cos am just nt attracted to him upon he is very good looking and cute ...
my advice to the guys is that if u love a gal,tell her immediately and dnt wait for the right time cos by then u will be so deep in the friendzone that u wnt be able to come out again....
i hope am making sense

buh wat if he was'nt intrested then and nw finds interest

You can't use the same principle to solve 2 different problem.

Just because you don't like being frnds with a guy lng b4 dating doesn't mean anoda girl out there doesn't like it.

Just tell him u can't date him nd move on Lobatan!

dmgr:
buh wat if he was'nt intrested then and nw finds interest

if ur nt interested b4,u berra nt come and be interested nw....if u become frnds with a gal for long,dnt later ask her out cos the attraction is nt there anymore,ur just like a brother 2 her by then..

who ask girls out diss days huh
If he had played his card well cos no perfect time to ask a girl out
3 sec silence for our bro in da dangerous zone

You are bored, I understand..

sinaj:
You can't use the same principle to solve 2 different problem.

Just because you don't like being frnds with a guy lng b4 dating doesn't mean anoda girl out there doesn't like it.

Just tell him u can't date him nd move on Lobatan!

i have noticed this abt u,u dnt read to comprehend ,u read to comment....
did i say anything abt nt telling him am nt interested??...sometimes,its good 2 use ur head once in a while..

discoprophet:
You are bored, I understand..

u sound so pained...r u my ex

CindyeMerAld:
if ur nt interested b4,u berra nt come and be interested nw....if u become frnds with a gal for long,dnt later ask her out cos the attraction is nt there anymore,ur just like a brother 2 her by then..

atyms one may jus cum wit the intension of jus being a frnd buh wit tym dat feelin might chnge and u knw being frnds for lng tym and ending up dating kind of wrk for sum pple nd its kind of nice

ImDharay:

He is like your paddy, ur everything and you say d thoughts of u kissing him makes you wanna puke?
Uhmm it seems you are mentally unstable...

And if He asks you out within 3 months you will still open ur filthy mouth and turn him down as usual. βullshiiiit, Neeeeeeeexxxxxxxt...

i have a feeling that ur a sadist in real life....who hurt u

CindyeMerAld:
u sound so pained...r u my ex

Haha.. ex-friend?

all this gehs sef....the same gehs will tell us to become friends first before we make moves ......mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew

lilmax:
all this gehs sef....the same gehs will tell us to become friends first before we make moves ......mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew

its confusing ryt?? sure,be frnds first but nt for too long or she will loose d attraction she has for u

Rubbish! I only see a girl fool full of herself, with pride almost devouring you completely...those theory don't work with all girls, most especially my present bae. Coz we have been friends for long (let's say since 7th A.D) before we started dating.

Op come down from ur high horse before u run short of marriage market. Just my 2cents *drops mic*

CindyeMerAld:
i have noticed this abt u,u dnt read to comprehend ,u read to comment....
did i say anything abt nt telling him am nt interested??...sometimes,its good 2 use ur head once in a while..

my advice to the guys is that if u love a gal,tell her immediately and dnt wait for the right time cos by then u will be so deep in the friendzone that u wnt be able to come out again
u shud be d one to read to comprehend.


Was referring to diz paragraph madam.
Some girls prefer dating their lng time frnds to guys they haven't known for lng.

That's why u hear some girls telling guys they are not ready, not because they ain't ready but because they are yet to b comfortable with d guy.

Some girls in ur shoe will gladly accept his dating proposal because they would prefer to date a friend.

U dnt just generalize, there is something called research.

U don't wake up one morning and attribute a theory to everyone just because it happened to u.

One man meat is another's poison.

GRACIAS!

Mtcheeew, rubbish, if he gives you money you will collect without thinking twice

CindyeMerAld:
its confusing ryt?? sure,be frnds first but nt for too long or she will loose d attraction she has for u

one thing I have realized is that, once you are close to a guy, they always develop feelings for you.

Maamin:
Rubbish! I only see a girl fool full of herself, with pride almost devouring you completely...those theory don't work with all girls, most especially my present bae. Coz we have been friends for long (let's say since 7th A.D) before we started dating.

Op come down from ur high horse before u run short of marriage market. Just my 2cents *drops mic*

best comment. I hope that Cindyemerald reads this.
Yeye girls everywere

EternalTruth:
best comment. I hope that Cindyemerald reads this.
Yeye girls everywere

u dnt ve sense on a normal day so there is no need exchanging words with u..

firstking01:
Mtcheeew, rubbish, if he gives you money you will collect without thinking twice

sorry 2 disappoint u buh am nt as hungry as u r...

CindyeMerAld:
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u dnt ve sense on a normal day so there is no need exchanging words with u.. [/s]

Get a life. Fake attention seeking Troll

EternalTruth:
Get a life. Fake attention seeking Troll

the beef you ve with me sounds so personal....pls dnt tell me u had 2 create another account just 2 beef me...i didnt know i affect ur useless life that much...kpele oo..