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Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 8:02am On Sep 18, 2016
Lastking147:
Rara oh imma Muslim... Ibrahim wink d name fine abi
Is tat different from father Abraham? grin

He has so many children... cheesy
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by pinkybutter(op): 8:04am On Sep 18, 2016
greatnaija01:
sister kindly change environment and even church if you are a christian.... then also go and study about relationship from authors like MYLES MUNROE or PRAISE GEORGE so you can differentiate boys from MEN and boyfriend from HUSBAND.... you wont always be this young... so start with the right foundation... KNOWLEDGE then u will know what u want and who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
thanks really appreciate that.
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by McBrooklyn(m): 8:04am On Sep 18, 2016
pinkybutter:
I need a real husband material not all this chewingum boys.
Babe, I'm deeply sorry to tell you that most of the guys nowadays ain't even close to a husband material not to talk of the real one which leaves you with the chewing gum type. But why don't you go for a chewing gum type and maybe as times goes on, you can probably change him into the real husband material you want . . . What did you think?? kiss
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Lastking147(m): 8:05am On Sep 18, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Is tat different from father Abraham? grin

He has so many children... cheesy
Lool dat one na father Abraham na
Me I diff...
Me I no want "so many children" oh
Who knows wen recession go comot grin
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by chigoizie7(m): 8:08am On Sep 18, 2016
pinkybutter:
I really don't understand what is going on with me. I use to be in a relationship before but I quit because, it wasn't favouring me. And i am seriously dying to be in a relationship but finding it difficult to go into one. Not that guys don't come around but I turn them down and sometimes don't even wanna listen to any guy that walk up to me. And even if i try hard to go into one I still find myself holding back.

Plz no abusive words just your advice thanks....
The reason is simple, u see relationships as a business venture where u can always gain.
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by lola024(f): 8:24am On Sep 18, 2016
Sweetheart.......don't hold back.....you might lose the best guy like that.....give them sometimes....then u can decide
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Nobody: 8:26am On Sep 18, 2016
Lastking147:
Lool dat one na father Abraham na
Me I diff...
Me I no want "so many children" oh
Who knows wen recession go comot grin
grin why u no wan many children sha? Some men ehhn... They wan baby boiz but their wife keep getting pregnant with a baby gayls, they keep producing ehn.. Til they end up with 8-10 kids all Gayls, 1 boiz grin
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by Lastking147(m): 8:41am On Sep 18, 2016
TrapQueen77:
grin why u no wan many children sha? Some men ehhn... They wan baby boiz but their wife keep getting pregnant with a baby gayls, they keep producing ehn.. Til they end up with 8-10 kids all Gayls, 1 boiz grin
Bouy or girl all na pikiN
I no want pikins like my papa grin
8 girls haha na business b dat oh grin
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by bolabolabo: 9:49am On Sep 18, 2016
pinkybutter:
I need a relationship bcuz one isn't getting younger everyday. And I don't want to fall into the wrongs hand bcuz some are this eat and run guys. Especially wen you have a great physique and they all wanna have a taste of you. Some chat you up and start talking nawty with you and i can't stand these pervert for 1 sec. Cus one will just be reducing her pride price if one falls for them thinking they in love with you.
You not getting any younger is not reason enough. Infact it makes u look desperate for one.

Than u keep turning down those that chat u up thinking they could be fake.

u need to understand that it is packaging that attracts guys to ladies. if a guy should approach you, na ur packaging hin want. it is when u guys become friends he may/maynot decide to go further with u based on your character, intellect, discipline and true packaging.

Next time dont turn them down. flow along with them. along the line, he could be real. This is from a personal experience (as a guy)
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by CosmicWealth: 8:03am On Sep 19, 2016
pinkybutter:
sorry I'm not a lesbian and I can never be one.
You could try 3some with a guy and a lady. Could be your quiet desperation.
Re: Please I Seriously Need Advice And This Has Been Given Me So Much Concern by shadeyinka(m): 10:02am On Sep 19, 2016
@OP
You are not yet ready for marriage except by physiological and biological maturity.

To attract the right "buyer" you have to be the right "merchandise". What kind of lady are you?

The right men also are looking for the right women. Do you have the quality the right men are looking for?

Its not about beauty?
Its not about sophistication?

Its about that inner quality that is a reflection of what you have on the inside.

So, What are your Assets?
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