this case is just akin to giving someone food and meat then you tell the person to eat the food without touching the meat, they should see it but not eat it, isn't that wickedness, what is the meat in the plate for then?

#waiter please

PETUK:
. But why do i have a feeling that you are dumber?

Your are actually dumbest

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

You're not in a relationship, bruh you're relations!
That's like going to club without music, like going to owanbe party without eating jollof rice, like Sunday service without tithe. In this time n age, it's a taboo to even marry without test- driving.

Hmnn

ireneony:
I doubt if there's anyone in a relationship without having sex.
i have never met a guy that doesn't want sex in a relationship.

This happened one time..a guy asked me out and i told him i only do relationships without sex.
he was very blunt. .he said" for this town ..for Nigeria. .this kind tin still de happen"
here i was thinking he's the kind of person that does believe in a "without sex relationships" because of his innocent face.

The only time i see or hear WTHOUT SEX RELATIONSHIP is online stories and how ladies turned down men that practice without relationship, I'm like wowwww. Sometimes I'm like how come i don't see this kind of men.

This brings me to my question, how many of you are strictly in a relationship without sex, and how do you cope with the temptations?

Share your experience! !!

Where you based so we can practice

obontami:
during your courting days did you or did you not fccck other guys

You are not smart

If your boyfriend cannot control himself before marrying you what is the evidence that he would control himself after marrying you?

The fact that a man is married does not make him immuned to temptation. If you are a lecturer in a Nigerian university, you will understand. Some students will practically throw themselves at you.

What keeps a marriage is not sex, just three things
LOVE, FRIENDSHIP and RESPECT

2dugged:
I would rather be single than be in a relationship of no sex,that is punishment na,why do I have to salivate and can't have it even when it's right there in front of me, better To be single with no wahala, and if a guy says no sex till marriage, he better make the wedding preparations fast

..u be comedian ..
funny u

I am and there is nothing to share...No sex..thats just it

ireneony:
..u be comedian .. funny u

,

telemapreye1:
I'm currently dating without sex and my Bf accepted my decision..infacr we are getting married this year

sis hope you are still intact if not that's where yawa fit gas

JeffreyJames:



Na this talk dey annoy me lol

The fact he's not having sex with her doesn't mean she's getting it somewhere else... Not every girl is a slut biko.

Well, this is my personal experience. I dated this girl for 7 years. No sex. I was the biggest maga of all times. Meanwhile, in our 7th year, I heard my girl aborted pregnancy twice during our 5th year. This was said to a close relative by the father of the boy that impregnated her. Both of them did not know I was by the corner listening cos everyone knows the girl and I together. The man was bitter the girl got pregnant again for his son while the girl's mother was hospitalised battling cancer. He later went on to tell my close relative with whom they're friends about how they took the girl to a particular hospital for D&C. When I heard all this, I wanted to die literally.

You know the shocker guys? I confronted this girl and she denied vehemently. She said I should come and confirm by having sex with her. Meanwhile she was the one always holding back, begging me when we're alone. Always saying she does not want to be a bad example to her younger sisters. She denied sotay she wanted to carry Holy Book to swear. That was when I believed this Yoruba saying that 'ti o ba ka oko mo obinrin nidi, a pe ni shuku agbado' meaning if you catch a woman red handed with prick in her pvssy, she will still lie saying its not prick you saw. I chased her out of room after that incident and that was the last time we saw.

Now, I bleep all my new girls NOT LATER than the 2nd day of relationship. Meanwhile, as a good role model to her sisters, her immediate younger sister aborted two pregnancies for a man who she knew had a wife and three kids.

So OP, no sex dating still occurs but I'll bet you that 9/10 of those ladies involved get regular bleeps on the sidelines. Na the guys be the maga.

Well I currently am but all that nonsense is going is going to change this weekend

it's strange but realistic...I for one was in a non sexual relationship until recently.i was in the relationship for 10years but got fade up with it because it doesn't suit me.....

ginggerxy:
sis hope you are still intact if not that's where yawa fit gas

Yea of course

JeffreyJames:


Church girls? ..those ones are another species entirely ....church is the last place to pick up a decent girl. (In all sense of the word Decent)

Lol

I've learnt alot today...
truly there are decent people in Nigeria despite the corruption and hardship.

This thread really mean alot to me.
Thanks to everyone that contribute positively to this thread and also to the mod that pushed it to FP.

Goodnight!

erico2k2:

hi, Im not being a Judge over your way of life, BUT I am finding it strange to understand the rational behind dating a person for 5 years and you are not going to marry them? it feels like 5 wasted years you could have enjoyed wiv ur husband

Thanks.The initial intention was we'l marry ourselves but his character and attitude suddenly changed so that was the reason for the broken relationship.

one thing about no-sex relationship is the peace and rest of mind after the relationship.

I'v learnt alot from him.

I'm in one for abt 4yrs now. its has neva been easy bt n just coping. though I still hv some side chick

Adesolomon2014:


If u talking about Sugar Mommies, then ur statistics is correct but if it's what am thinking then u are a goner.

I'm not talking about sugar mummies, talking about relationships where the guy is older. It's very rampant in our campuses these days. I have friends who have done such. Even now, there are guys who just want to go into a relationship with a girl cos she's rich or from a rich background. Guys are now taking the lead in gold digging.

jidxin:
I dated a grl for 4yrs without sex....sex ain't d best in relationship if u truely love her den it means u really value her ...once u ve sex she will surely lose value nd u will see her as a sex obj....nd sex aint gud 4 d guy 2 ....in quote

Stop saying trash......

If you like have sex on your wedding night or the first day you meet, what will last will last

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

yazz09:
presently am into one without sex though we've just started dating for 3 months now. But we've not had sex, yes the temptation is there but God has been helping us and most importantly we came to agreement that it won't be involved.

Sometimes sha I do think if she really love me for not giving me sex but in another instance her action shows me she does love me

. Am happy for you bro. Buh dont b surprise if some random dude is tapping dat ass behind ur back.. #just saying though

ireneony:
good to know.
You're among the 2% of men that doesn't involve sex in a relationship.

Can you please tell us.
What are those things you put in line not to come near the temptation of sex.
for example, do you do more of indoor meetings or outdoors?

first if you hv respect for your woman you'll know she's not an object and that you hv to respect her body. we try to hv different discussions each time we meet, we do talk about everything sex included.

I'm very proud to say it that I'm into relationship without sex.
We started dating last year may and we are still happily together now. No sex despite the fact that I see her every day and do sleep in her place sometimes.. ... That's trust. I love her and she loves me. I pray that God guides us through life.

Imagine a girl that's not a v telling me we shouldn't have sex...who do I look like to u.. . Who r you deceiving... Una go talk no sex and Na una body go jump up when another guy touch una.. That a guy is asking for six doesn't mean he doesn't love u. It's just normal.how can I claim to love u and act like a wood when we are together alone. Which kinda dull relationship is that. We complicate our lives by ourself.


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Horpsy17:
I'm very proud to say it that I'm into relationship without sex.
We started dating last year may and we are still happily together now. No sex despite the fact that I see her every day and do sleep in her place sometimes.. ... That's trust. I love her and she loves me. I pray that God guides us through life.

Is she a virgin or not

Tripleoluwa:
A friend of mine is in a platonic relationship with a guy.


What both of them do according to my friend is: she shave her somtin very clean. Then after d touching touching, she lie on her stomach on d bed, while d bobo will lie on her back with his well lubricated JT, guide it in between her thigh-gap, directly on the surface of her somtin.


So both will be rocking rhythmically like snake. L☺º°˚нåнåнå˚°º☺L.

Lol , No penetration until marriage?

I am in one.Close to 2 years now.Ts fun for me.Ts a personal decision not to touch her till marriage,asides her decision.

kennygee:
My first bf was willing, we broke up cause he's a Muslim and if I continued, I was afraid I would not hesitate to marry him. Others after him has not really been forth coming.

Some guys would agree after you tell them its a christian relationship you want, months later, they will start acting funny, that's how you're back to being single.

Some will agree to the no sex relationship but will expect you to sext and talk dirty on the phone with them, if you decline or even deviate the gist, no name wey them no go call you.

So we have Christian relationship? Tell me more