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I met her in a bank, she is one of the cashiers and a career lady as well.got her contact, we became close and eventually friends tho she is three years older. I'm a kinda career dude and still young so I rarely go into relationships. tho I flirt, engage in "flings" but will go on ghost mode if I'm getting entangled...

well she is also crazy in her own way and she understood who I was but on a particular day while on phone with her, she told me how she felt about me and asked if we can be in a no string attached kinda relationship and "wow" ...

well two months into the relationship, Im in love with her tho I kept the feeling but I'm sure she knows.. she perfectly is what I seek in a lady,she motivates me whenever I have issues and also help financially when I'm down.

I was about telling her we should take the relationship serious when she suddenly disappeared for days, I was worried as she refused to pick my calls or reply my messages. it was then I tried contacting some close associates of her, then I was told she got engaged some days ago and will be having her white weeding tomorrow in another state...

i don't know where to start from!
I was used when am about "changing"
I don't know what to do..
I'm lost...

take heart bro

Damn. I don't get it. How did she used you? You said it yourself she helped you financially and motivated you while you're down? Seems like she gave more. Anyway get up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. If anything you make me believe you pushed her into this. She told you clearly how she felt and even asked you out. She was also ready. You weren't. You were never frank you said it yourself. Now she's getting married and that's when you are ready. Ooooh cry me a river. Just wake up abeg.

Sorry bro...but the r/ship was clearly defined at the start so u can't blame her

Sorry

Uhmmm... Take heart bro, well I've known for long that ladies use guys too.

U made it an open relationship at first and now crying fowl AA

you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi? i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away
thats karma bro take heart

Na you do yourself.

you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi? i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away
thats karma bro take heart

I hope this ends your involvement in 'no strings attached relationships'.

How is it her fault?

Sorry bro! But no strings attached remember?!

so boys still talk about getting used,na WA o
anyways she is the person karma used to pay back for the girls u previously broke their hearts,now you know how it feels
don't worry you will get your own woman soon ok

some guys will love diss kind arrangement huh..the big issue is if she contact you wont you hit that ass again?

onyekachee:
so boys still talk about getting used,na WA o
anyways she is the person karma used to pay back for the girls u previously broke their hearts,now you know how it feels
don't worry you will get your own woman soon ok

fine geh, I like your laps... Pls come and use me too and break my heart...

This is just sad...this love thing sef can fall person hand,one sec. it feels great and the next ur world crumbles..take heart,sh.t happens...dnt sulk for long tho,find a hoe and bang her brains out,then move on to d next bae,but b wiser..

Motun03:
you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi?
i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away

thats karma bro
take heart

what's big d Oya come complete am now now

2dice01:
some guys will love diss kind arrangement huh

feel ya..

Akanbibabatunde:
fine geh, I like your laps... Pls come and use me too and break my heart...

come over here daddy let me use you [sub][/sub]

onyekachee:
come over here daddy let me use you [sub][/sub]

please be careful with my heart, its fragile... ... So where should we start from bebi

Start from the beginning. Shii happens

HMZi:
feel ya..

same bro...the one who love most get hurt

I was damn sincere with her, I wasn't expecting her to hide her relationship status with me... come on I know it might be a kinda karma bla bla, but in life, their should be fair play and she........

Slimzjoe:
Why exactly are you crying??

I'm not crying Mr, I'm just pained...

victomancer:
Sorry bro...but the r/ship was clearly defined at the start so u can't blame her

yea... I know bro, that's y I picked up from where she left and continue...

Lol.. Niggga got dealt with

Man up Chief.. You're gonna do the same to some boy someday probably. Wife his crush because he didn't act fast for reasons best known to him.

Perhaps the conditions of your relationship and the age difference meant the ride was temporary.

Man up. If your cards ain't in check yet, you may have another coming up front. Till you wife someone

Ayoolajumoke:
Uhmmm... Take heart bro, well I've known for long that ladies use guys too.

oh! thanks... but why didn't you alert me earlier...lol

Motun03:
you guys think you are the only one using girls for sex abi?
i bet she just enjoyed the big d while her fiance is away

thats karma bro
take heart

you are seriously vexing aunty... oh! I yaff take heart ooo

Akanbibabatunde:
fine geh, I like your laps... Pls come and use me too and break my heart...

Give the laps one new like nau.. I for like am but nah the second pair of laps wey vex me