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Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by ericadianas(op): 8:19pm On Sep 23, 2016
Call a spade a spade and not a garden fork
I disagree!
Who knows, I could transform the cold metal spade into a garden fork.
So I would not limit its potentials by caging it inside a name.
We really don't have to call it a name.


No ring, no name

It's really not important
It's not a position but rather a restriction
A restriction of the mind and of our actions
We all want to be "The One" that the whole world recognises as the "special one"(Double classified)
The boyfriend or The girlfriend.
Our discussions always end in nomenclature
We often ask "what are we"?
We fail to understand that the precious "we" ends at the sound of "it is over"
So what's the point?
We really don't need to call it a name.


Let's go on dates; Let's take pictures.
Let's chat till night; Let's meet more friends
Let's know ourselves; Let's hold our hands
Let's play by the beach, Let's keep our secrets
Say no word to papa , Say no word to mama
Ignore the JAMB questions "are you dating"
Be by each other and fall in love each day
For real, what's the difference??
We really don't have to call it a name.


Let's go nights out, let's eat pizza
Let's make a play list and play our favourite songs
Let's watch sunsets and moonlight
Let's go shopping and take flights
Let's tackle and solves life's riddles
Let's be there to always support eachother
I still cant see a difference
So we really don't have to call it a name.


It is almost impossible this way-
To lose touch and fall out of love.
Cause the anticipation never gets boring as you have nothing to hold as stake.
You keep missing and wanting and needing
Till the day he's ready to go on his kneels, pull out the ring, get a yes and get a name.
But for now, we really don't have to call it a name

"What-are-we" is overrated


Agree or disagree??

Extracted from ERICADIANAS BLOG

http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/09/why-you-shouldnt-be-dating.html?m=1
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by rawpadgin(m): 8:43pm On Sep 23, 2016
huh?

Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by Zellie: 9:00pm On Sep 23, 2016
i endorse this message
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by victomancer(m): 9:20pm On Sep 23, 2016
I don't understand what's happening here
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by Laveda(f): 9:24pm On Sep 23, 2016
undecidedhuh
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by y3mi(m): 10:15pm On Sep 23, 2016
ericadianas:
Call a spade a spade and not a garden fork
I disagree!
Who knows, I could transform the cold metal spade into a garden fork.
So I would not limit its potentials by caging it inside a name.
We really don't have to call it a name.


No ring, no name

It's really not important
It's not a position but rather a restriction
A restriction of the mind and of our actions
We all want to be "The One" that the whole world recognises as the "special one"(Double classified)
The boyfriend or The girlfriend.
Our discussions always end in nomenclature
We often ask "what are we"?
We fail to understand that the precious "we" ends at the sound of "it is over"
So what's the point?
We really don't need to call it a name.


Let's go on dates; Let's take pictures.
Let's chat till night; Let's meet more friends
Let's know ourselves; Let's hold our hands
Let's play by the beach, Let's keep our secrets
Say no word to papa , Say no word to mama
Ignore the JAMB questions "are you dating"
Be by each other and fall in love each day
For real, what's the difference??
We really don't have to call it a name.


Let's go nights out, let's eat pizza
Let's make a play list and play our favourite songs
Let's watch sunsets and moonlight
Let's go shopping and take flights
Let's tackle and solves life's riddles
Let's be there to always support eachother
I still cant see a difference
So we really don't have to call it a name.


It is almost impossible this way-
To lose touch and fall out of love.
Cause the anticipation never gets boring as you have nothing to hold as stake.
You keep missing and wanting and needing
Till the day he's ready to go on his kneels, pull out the ring, get a yes and get a name.
But for now, we really don't have to call it a name

"What-are-we" is overrated


Agree or disagree??

Extracted from ERICADIANAS BLOG

http://www.ericadianas.com/2016/09/why-you-shouldnt-be-dating.html?m=1
I hope you don't mind me asking how many times has dating worked out for you ? As for me...'zilch' which has long brought me to the conclusion that DATING never fails for those who are truly compatible. Wouldn't you agree ?
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by ericadianas(op): 11:10pm On Sep 23, 2016
lol....did u read the post?
its not abouting dating per say, but about tagging it.
y3mi:
I hope you don't mind me asking how many times has dating worked out for you ? As for me...'zilch' which has long brought me to the conclusion that DATING never fails for those who are truly compatible. Wouldn't you agree ?
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by y3mi(m): 11:28pm On Sep 23, 2016
ericadianas:
lol....did u read the post?
its not abouting dating per say, but about tagging it.
Ofcourse I read it, tagging it how for I fail to see how the content relates with the title "Why You Shouldn't Be Dating"
Re: Why You Shouldn't Be Dating by Nobody: 11:37pm On Sep 23, 2016
hmmm.
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