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CindyeMerAld:
sure,your very much alive buh once in a while,u miss the company,holding hands with som1,som1 sleeping in ur arms at night and so many other great things...swear u dnt miss it?

truthsayer007:
hahaha Bros, you sef no get chill at all o, i knew CindyeMerAld was joking na ! But you took it too serious. E never reach like that abeg.

craigkoel1989:
1)You get to know the opposite sex better and how to relate with any woman
i was a shy guy before i met my girlfriend but since then i have learnt to talk to any female even linda ikeji lol
2)You actually start caring about your appearance
my dress mode has changed
3)You actually get to see female in their naturally form
my girlfriend does almost everything in front of me.but when she is dressed to go outside i will be like.is it this angel that has been with me throughout.even i will just be like wetin dey do guys sef wen they thank her for accepting them on facebook.guys no dey shame
4)You get to have regular sex
omo vaseline crew will not understand sey all those things u dey do.we dey do am steady.anytime including kissing,touching boobs.all dose things for film we dey act am life.and dont tell me she losses value cos i will get married to get anyday anytime even linda ikeji wey dey find husband no concern me
5)you get to see stuffs like their unclothedness.fragile period like menstraution and the rest
when i was growing up my mom and sisters always make sure we didnt see them naked.we just saw stained clothes and wonder what they were
6)You get to admire them more
unless you have a real girlfriend not those straffing olosho.you will know that to be a woman is not easy.during her days of pain(menses)will u understand what they go through every month
to that special girl i love u

dollyjoy:
Na play too

happy Sunday

Happy Sunday sweetheart



Hope you went to church today??

McBrooklyn:
Happy Sunday sweetheart



Hope you went to church today??

dollyjoy:


sure i did, you?

Yeah, I did



I even prayed for your well being too

dollyjoy:
The fact still remains that guys can't do without US.

icedbeatz:
Dolly how have you been? well to be honest guys can do without girls but its just the punk that we can't do without, if puni are sold in cans like other goods believe me most guys won't look twice at a girl. Another thing is that if a girl has a lot to offer mentally and otherwise, being supportive, responsible and smart then she's a goldmine but unfortunately most girls only have puni to offer which the in turn develop this nauseating sense of entitlement on the guys money and demand for making hair, nails, bags what about books? money to enrol in any self enhancing program? I look at these dummies and bimbos asking for iPhone 6 & 7 when they don't have a source of income that brings such amount the phone costs into their account. Most Naija girls are still in cave man era they have a long way to go. when will they start asking for money to invest than money for all these nonsense that makes no sense after you must have bought pheeew I pity them. Most naija girls are like cars that the only thing that works in it is the radio(puni) so how can I value a car that doesn't move rather the only thing that works is the radio? and mind you every car has a radio so there's nothing special about it.

Jdazzle:
Pardon ice but when a girl is got all the good qualities u mentioned and is ready n willing to offer them minus the option of sex which she feels is secondary to making a relationship work, why will a dude still decide to pass that up? Except of course, there's something more... which is really, the sex!!!

icedbeatz:
No maybe not actually the sex bro, if she's the complete yards of wife material like you said and holding sex back then the number one thing is why is she holding sex back? why? was she a retired prostitutee? is her puni wider then borehole? was she raped?( might be worst if she has psychological issues) is she a virgin?( hmm hmm hmm lawdy lawd who no go value a virgin :-) ) so the reason she's holding it back will determine bro. One thing I know is that I must lash and confirm before I buy the whole product, who will buy a car without test driving it?!

Jdazzle:
It appears she happens to be a virgin, with all those qualities but this guy insists on that! Now tell me, what much choice has such a lady got? If she dwells on that she'd just prolly think all guys are like that and really not worth the stress... you have just asserted that any guy would value a virgin but nope, not this guy.... so brings me to the question again, what go guys really want? Cos asides all those qualities it's like they expect something more which you all claim isn't such a big deal cos they could get it anywhere with cash!!!

icedbeatz:
I like that you used the word "it appears" which is no confirmation that she's a virgin, BTW remind me what the guy is insisting on? having sex with her? I still stand by my word that puni really ain't shi+ rather the personality of the beholder of the puni counts more. see what guys want. we basically want someone to love, enjoy life with, Bleep and eat but let me break it down.
1. A loyal girl that is trustworthy,
2. A girl that will be and do all the crazy wild sexual acts, "all" that the guy desires and try to do it that time we want it and not later unless she's sick, I mean she's have to be our personal whor* and do wild wild things that will blow our goddamn brains out and make us run back to go and meet her. very important or else another girl might occupy the position.
3. A girl that respects us and doesn't lash out at us but will find a mellow way to tell us what what we did wrong that they didn't like or how we wronged them it goes a lot deeper than when you girls shout we don't listen when you females shout it only repels you from us. Our moms and sisters been doing that ish we hate it.
4. Nagging?! HELL NO HELL NO HELL NO if you want to chase us away from you as fast as a cheetah then just start nagging us we will look for another female to confide in, care and even love. Nothing kills a man's love faster than nagging. Better cool down and "communicate" with us than shout because we won't listen to shit immediately a female starts shouting.
5. A girl that can handle things, that can take care of things even when we're not around we can relax about somethings because we know we have you and that you can handle it.
6. A listener and supporter, most times before a guy talks to you about whatever is troubling you he already has plans of how he's going to solve it but just want someone to share his trials and tribulation with. When he knows that you got his back and you actually demonstrates so automatically you're now golden and he won't let anyone mess with you, he can murder for you if he believes and knows that you got his back there's nothing he won't do for you.
7. Don't pester him for money all the time, if you're observant you will be able to know when he's got dough and when he ain't got dough.
8. There's like two more but let me stop here but basically someone we can truly trust, that believes us and our goals (no matter what the goal is), that respects us and never CHALLENGES US or goes at a thug of war with us if we are mad and burning let us go off don't challenge us that moment we're red let us calm down then "communicate" to us about our bad act if we were wrong that simple act elevates you to the peak, we might do some crap but won't let no one fk with you........

dollyjoy:
See them, asking who gf epp like they can do without US.

Jdazzle:
Oh I see...

So y'all only want subservient?

Well, good luck with finding such a girl cos really for any girl to wantu to all of these, shez got to have motives... I mean she must really feel some deep stuff for sucha brother else... dang now way she's doing all of the above... between have u ever really thought about what the average sassy, witty, good girl out there wants? n not just the kinda ladies u describe the Naija girl to be like...

Anyways I can guarantee u before any lady has to go all out then she has to be sure of the dude in question and this is bottomline...is he gonna be serious with her, is he gonna want to take the time to study her n no wassup b4 proposing intimacies, u know stuff like that and just like u mean every reasonable lady out there is got expectations as well, trust me and it's not that complicated as the men folk think...

a girl just wants to know you care and how u show it speaks volumes, she wants to be treated right and be made to feel special, hey, it's nothing outta the ordinary, it's just a natural makeup and really, if she likes u, she doesn't bother much with whether u bankroll her often or not! Just do the right things andd see which girl will not be morethan willing to go all out, I know of none...

and hey, the girl in question is actually virgin...

icedbeatz:
Guess you're the girl in question then, yeah we all have expectations dear I understand that but now its kinda a game of who is to show commitment first. About the doesn't care whether you bankroll her part unless you're talking about a girl that knows herself, knows she's responsible for herself and has no sense of entitlement to her man's money but an average Nigerian girl comes with that silly sense of entitlement which is irritating some ask their guy to put them on a payroll from his salary for doing what?! being his gf?! is it now a profession? I wish a mofo would ask me for that kinda thing, I'm not saying a guy shouldn't show love to her girl. Personality plays a big role dear, as relationship goes on both partners should observe each other you will know who's good for you and who's trash. Nature gave the male folks an upper hand in these kind of things for instance he's the one to make a move in switching the relationship to the next level. We all have to compromise at a certain time, ladies are like the goods and guys are like the buyers ( no pun intended) so the goods have to be outstanding than the other goods to win the buyers interest, dating is like advertising we show what we got to offer and if its awesome its being. At the end of the day no one should marry out of pity.

Laveda:
See them..

Last last you go see them dey chase woman.. Check their chats.

iranu