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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by HornyTiwa(f): 4:31am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:

This is the simple truth I typed and some nairalanders wanna eat me raw.

I think you understand perfectly what goes around in private schools unlike some people here who don't know jack bout what goes around there and then come here and support the OP.

No offence,but you are dull.

I pray you get slapped by your employer,or someone powerful than you.

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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Joepase(m): 4:40am On Sep 29, 2016

And what did you do?

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by ceejay80s(m): 5:42am On Sep 29, 2016

telemapreye1:
Good evening nairalanders
I work with kids thou it's a part time job,..
To cut short the long story..i had an incident with one of the children I teach and her little brother of 6 was there with me..i never knew he told his mum
So the next day she brought them to school and started warning me"i was shocked thinking of what I did"and she refused to tell me what I did..i stopped greeting her since that day until today I and her had a disagreement so I argued and talk back at her cos she was very rude to me...
The HM called I and her into her office and allowed the woman explain her own part and didn't even bother to hear mine,the next thing I felt a sting on my cheeks(The hm slaped me)i was so embarrassed to the extent that I cried for two hours
I got home and told my friend about it so she said she will helped me arrange some guys to beat her up but am scared,i don't want to hurt her but my heart needs revenge
Shld I forget about or revenge?

But I don't blame her i blame death...

Don't allow the devil to use u, what if after ur friends beat her up and she dies during the process or after sufering from the beating, u will just go to jail , I pity u,
My neighbor pikin beat his own brother to death just because he wear his shoe go out, he is in prison now and his brother don die and never to return

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by xtervaganza(m): 5:43am On Sep 29, 2016

kindklemz:

Hia....there is no need insulting, somebody make a point, you disagree on it,make it known without resorting to insult.
Remember, we don't all reasons alike, we are created so,thats what makes life sweet
Peace!

you're right, sir.

Buh what she said just upset my spirit.

Like how can a sane human being justify an assault towards an employee

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by michaelwilli(m): 5:47am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

I guess u haven't worked in a place where u av to deal with customers. Dats y u re talking dis way. However, make op tel us wetin happen btw ha n d child

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by chachanga: 5:48am On Sep 29, 2016

loobby:
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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by begwong: 5:49am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:

Lol
I'm sorry bout that.. Just try and like it a bit

Sweeriee, pls change the font color. Remember Jesus luvs you!

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by madjune(m): 5:52am On Sep 29, 2016

If the story goes as you put it.
Clearly, they don't have much respect for you.

You should have slapped her back right there and then, even if you were wrong.
No sane adult corrects another with a slap unless s/he doesn't have regard for the person.

Arranging people to beat her up might make her fear you though, but it shows how timid you are in the long run.

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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 6:02am On Sep 29, 2016

No justification for being slapped and humiliated in front of a parent. Write a resignation letter its d only noble thing to do.

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Royce704: 6:04am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

she had no right 2 slap her, no mata wat she did. Her attitude was unprofessional. 2 even tink she is d head of dat school is disturbin.

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Niyinficient(m): 6:23am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

So he deserves d slap cos he stood up to his dignity?

This kind woman go dey beat her husband for house.

Ladies are fond of doing to others wat they can't take.

Brother, don't revenge, it's part of life shi.ts, take it and let it go, but watch ur way wit d HM, never allow such situation to repeat itself and perhaps apologise to d parent cos any woman wud av done d same. Malice no good tho. DO NOT APOLOGISE to the HM and DO NOT REVENGE

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by AreaFada2: 6:29am On Sep 29, 2016

OP, your story is incomplete.

Did you beat the child? Did the child get injured? Complete that part.
If you did beat the child, then you were wrong.

Once the parent knew about it, you should have gone straight to the HM and tell her your side of the story. At least she would have heard your version.

Then you showed a bad attitude to the parent. It is not even whether you were wrong or right. The customer is simply the king. Even moreso in a private school, a competitive business. Teaching may not be your calling. Because it is a proper profession that requires proper education/training. That include people skills & techniques to deal with troublesome kids. Not just because there is no other job for now.

If parents withdraw their kids from your school, HM cannot pay bills & salaries.

As it is, if you want to keep the job, just mellow. Especially your action in the "incident" was wrong. But start looking for another job.

If your action was legally correct & you do not want the job anymore, go see a doctor to get an official certification. Then take legal action against your HM. For distress & pain inflicted on you.

Take no illegal action like getting her beaten up. It can easily become hiring killers if you are unlucky. grin

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Harwoyeez(m): 6:52am On Sep 29, 2016

I laugh at the way some people said she deserves the slap and these same ladies especially will be the one to shout no man has d right to beat/slap a lady even of she's rude or did something bad......your hm has no right under d sun to slap u for any reason and if Carr isn't taken that's d beginning of more slaps to come op....its really painful cos u r scared of been sacked here.....next time comport yourself and don't take shit u won't wanna take from anybody....Pele baby

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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by delishpot: 6:56am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

No one deserves to be hit for miss understandings.

OP, it was a bad move to keep malice with a pupil's parent. Haba, if I we're that parent, I would withdraw my Ward or get the class changed. If he keeps malice with me the parent who can deffend myself, then he must be treating my child who is helpless in school like a lepper. How can the child even focus and learn?
A simple apology would have resolved most of the initial problem but you dragged it until it exploded out of your control.
Sorry, go talk to your Him. He should call another meeting with you and the woman and apologize to you while you and the woman make peace.

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Abbey2sam(m): 7:06am On Sep 29, 2016

telemapreye1:
Good evening nairalanders
I work with kids thou it's a part time job,..
To cut short the long story..i had an incident with one of the children I teach and her little brother of 6 was there with me..i never knew he told his mum
So the next day she brought them to school and started warning me"i was shocked thinking of what I did"and she refused to tell me what I did..i stopped greeting her since that day until today I and her had a disagreement so I argued and talk back at her cos she was very rude to me...
The HM called I and her into her office and allowed the woman explain her own part and didn't even bother to hear mine,the next thing I felt a sting on my cheeks(The hm slaped me)i was so embarrassed to the extent that I cried for two hours
I got home and told my friend about it so she said she will helped me arrange some guys to beat her up but am scared,i don't want to hurt her but my heart needs revenge
Shld I forget about or revenge?

But I don't blame her i blame death...

My people are judgemental, I don't care what you did in this case,like everyone saying you omitted what you did,nothing warrant a slap from an employer. They even refuse to see where you blamed death, well I just want you to be strong and keep pushing,keep doing your work while you search for another.

I'm so sorry dear, please don't revenge
Leave the HM and the woman to karma

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by tsamson(m): 7:09am On Sep 29, 2016

telemapreye1:
Good evening nairalanders
I work with kids thou it's a part time job,..
To cut short the long story..i had an incident with one of the children I teach and her little brother of 6 was there with me..i never knew he told his mum
So the next day she brought them to school and started warning me"i was shocked thinking of what I did"and she refused to tell me what I did..i stopped greeting her since that day until today I and her had a disagreement so I argued and talk back at her cos she was very rude to me...
The HM called I and her into her office and allowed the woman explain her own part and didn't even bother to hear mine,the next thing I felt a sting on my cheeks(The hm slaped me)i was so embarrassed to the extent that I cried for two hours
I got home and told my friend about it so she said she will helped me arrange some guys to beat her up but am scared,i don't want to hurt her but my heart needs revenge
Shld I forget about or revenge?

But I don't blame her i blame death...

sue him and get a lifetime pension

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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by achieverme(m): 7:12am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:

She wouldn't have gotten that slap if she had acted with manners, that slap will help give her a re-set.

Next time, she should learn how to handle parents except she wanna quit teaching.

So,an employer slapping an employee is a norm where you came from? Growing up in a lawless country has tampered with your reasoning and mental state. Your sense of right and wrong is destroyed.

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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by bharkarh(m): 7:16am On Sep 29, 2016

bigtiny10:
Op. Pepper don rest be that o. Sue her for assault. Demand financial restitution. Tell the judge you had to go all the way to India for a surgery. Then back to USA to see another specialist.

wake up...wake up....oya kan go fetch water grin

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by vislabraye(m): 7:48am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

Na wa for you. How can you slap an adult because she works for you ? Why are you supporting what is wrong ? In a civilised world, she could sue the employer of millions but in Nigeria it's not so.
I'm not supporting what the lady who was slapped either. She could have handled the situation better before it escalated.

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Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Rajosh(m): 8:06am On Sep 29, 2016

I'm not in support of your HM slaping you but remember while going on a revenge mission, dig two graves.

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Nobody: 8:16am On Sep 29, 2016

bharkarh:
wake up...wake up....oya kan go fetch water

I no hear you o. The slap affect my ear too grin

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by mikkypel(m): 8:30am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

You started well but ended poorly, well what do I expect from a female... I am very sure the HM was a female, Females lose their tempers and likes to proof themselves when they are put to head or own an organization, No matter what, the HM has no right to slap her employee, She has no right at all... Instead of revenge, arrest him for assault... One happened hete in Ilorin and the HM paid painfully for the assault... What happened to sack or punishment by deducting salary or probably other allowances but SLAP is a NO NO NO

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by guyla: 8:31am On Sep 29, 2016

"You had an incident with the child you didn't know that his 6years old sibling was watching " isn't that statement indicting enough

If I were to be the parent in question the school will have to choose between you and my child

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by iberibe1(m): 8:36am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:
You should have known that the mother of the child was warning you because of the incident you had with her child, what you should have done is to keep apologising no matter what rather you decided to keep malice with the mother of a child you teach at school. That's bad of you...

Don't you know your salary is being paid from the parents for your pupils, the slap is well deserved. Next time you learn good manners.

Revenge at your own risk! Go and apologise to your HM for being rude to a parent and stop acting RAZZ.

na your type dey pour hot water on house girl sake of say dem make ur pikin cry. what kind of HM would do that to her employee, what happen to official ways of addressing erring staff and subsequent dismissal if the service is no longer needed?

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by Iseoluwani: 8:43am On Sep 29, 2016

MzPecs:

Lol
If you know what goes around in a private school, you'll understand my point better! Does the OP know what her HM went through to get those kids registered in her school? Then she comes from nowhere to bring her success down by being rude to a parent.

School is a business and they're all in a competition. Teachers have got this one unique trait and that's patience buh she lacks it!

Schools are in competition, the HM was just trying to impress the woman who pays him School fees. He doesn't want to loose customer grin

But still slapping is not allowed. Suppose say na advance country, he will loose his job n license sef. We have teaching
Rules which must be followed

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by DrMuzungu(m): 8:46am On Sep 29, 2016

let me get straight to the point. Physical contact between the employer and the employee should be forbidden, except if it is by accident (like handing over the documents, tools etc). In the OP's particular case, what I would do is to wait for like a month or so, for things to become forgotten... then gather some brothers, male cousins and friends, and nicely ask them to explain to the eediot employer that it is not nice to slap anyone, and especially not a woman and to, if possible, do all that in front of all his staff.

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by maxti: 9:01am On Sep 29, 2016

nma24:
.... Nigerian school system though. Wonder why they skip Comprehension exercise for students

Your point exactly.

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by lurdkriss: 9:09am On Sep 29, 2016

U hav wasted too much time already, nxt time slap back immediately, abi na she bring u come lagos?

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by MzPecs(f): 9:11am On Sep 29, 2016

begwong:

Sweeriee, pls change the font color. Remember Jesus luvs you!

Okay

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by guyla: 9:13am On Sep 29, 2016

@Dr Muzunga, it is not nice to slap an employee, but it is worse to have an employee that kills the business that feeds you, what guts she had to keep malice with the parent of a child she teaches, obviously she is not teaching that child despite the huge amount we pay as school fees in recent times,

How does she report the child's progress to the woman she deliberately would not say good morning to every morning she brings her child to school

Re: I Was Slapped By My Employer by MzPecs(f): 9:15am On Sep 29, 2016

HornyTiwa:

No offence,but you are dull.

I pray you get slapped by your employer,or someone powerful than you.

My dear, my God is not dull so i'm not dull either.

I'm a polite person so I can't do what the OP did to get that slap. Okay?

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