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Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Olabestonic001(m): 3:57pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
nextstep: No sir, its not always because you ain't good for her. Guys, when a lady is not cooperating and you're sure you've got good agenda on her, then let her be! Don't put the blame on yourself. Sometimes, its because of her myopic view on your person or the fact that she's just expressing her right to say no. So, what of if she says NO? Let's learn this; its the prerogative of a man to make a "bid" and its her Right to reject. If you're that great a guy, then, your wife would one day thank GOD that "those girls NEVER say a Yes". I speak from personal experience. My wife always thank GOD that those girls rejected my overtures. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by McBrooklyn(m): 4:03pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Berlynn:Lol, I remember sweetheart Hope that is not the guy you gave the "today's date" that day |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by habsydiamond(m): 4:15pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Yeepa, that bae get sense no be small. 1 Like |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Nobody: 4:20pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Nigga when she is not into you then she's just not into you .Some guys be acting desperate and asking ladies for their phone numbers upandan. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by nkemdi89(f): 4:23pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Wrong of her though, just remind me about a story of a girl that gave a man a wrong number only for her to realise he was rich and she started running after his car to correct the number, it's either you tell him no or when he calls you politely let him know you are not interested and having your number isn't his right but a privilege. You can also tell him your man is a police or army officer that you don't want him to beat you on the ground of cheating on him. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Jackrich: 4:25pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Something of this nature only happens to those deaf and dumb guys that won't give up or change strategy when woman refuses to honor their romantic advances. They keep pushing until they get mocked. smh 2 Likes |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Jackrich: 4:26pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
nkemdi89:You've never met some desperate guys ,you'll regret giving out your number and they can actually ruin your relationship if you have one. As a guy , if you ask me she did the smartest thing. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Why give a fake number? If you don't want to, just decline politely, it's not by force, and the guy self needs to upgrade,guys these days just don't collect numbers and bounce,you dial it right there |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Nobody: 4:33pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Jessidaisy4: 1 Like
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Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by nextstep(m): 4:33pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Olabestonic001: I agree with your post entirely, and I think we're both saying the same thing... it's just that you're talking about an objective "good for her" when I'm talking about the more subjective "how she feels about you". But the result is all the same: if she passes on you, move on without too much fuss. Of course, you also have to be able to read her subcommunications - don't just leave after a weak effort, since she uses that to filter out unserious suitors. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by wristbangle: 4:34pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Ginaz: It won't work dear |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by nextstep(m): 4:35pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
cekhoe: Because dudes don't want to just go after a polite no. After dealing with this hassle everyday, a lady learns to be evasive and give whatever little she can to make the guy go away (and I've seen enough of it to understand from the ladies' perspective) 3 Likes |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by nextstep(m): 4:37pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
nkemdi89: But that's not cool either... just chasing after a man because he's rich. If the guy is just tricking on his wealth (i.e. has no real inner game to keep the lady engaged after they hook up), they're both setting each other up for disappointment down the line. 1 Like |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by sisisioge: 5:08pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
I stopped the wrong no thing the day I gave a guy a wrong no which he dialled there and then. Truecaller messed me up by bringing out "Alh. Idris" as the name. Guy looked at me with serious irritation and told me I should just have maintained my initial no instead of succumbing to give a wrong no. I apologise and gave the correct no...he never called.Ever since, it's either a no or I give the correct number. Thank God I have the option of blocking the person's calls if he spews woooobish! 3 Likes |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by jiksman3: 5:44pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Ginaz:And make I no see u for Rev. Father mbaka adoration prayer ground in 2 yrs time say u dey find husband... When u chase dem away now.... Nonsense fish brains |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Nobody: 5:46pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
nextstep:well, nobody will shoot you if you politely say "I can't give you my number", and some pests will be like "why",simply reply "because i don't want to",simple |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Ginaz(f): 5:58pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
jiksman3: Rude people disgust me. Take your bad prayer to your life. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by oyetpel(m): 6:00pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Nigeria babes dont have this kind of sense joor |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by oyetpel(m): 6:01pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
dainformant:Nigeria babes no get brain like this joor |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by nkemdi89(f): 6:03pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
nextstep:That's one problem with women, we are carried with looks, sometimes we snub people not based on hatred but so that people shouldn't have that impression of you being slutty because you are a giving a man your number in the public, sometimes it's good to just socialise and not having any negative impression about the opposite sex. That person might be useful to you in so many other ways. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by nkemdi89(f): 6:11pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Jackrich:I will tell you no outright, than that, because most guys will call it immediately in your presence, imagine how embarrassing it will be. This time there is no more trust in relationships that's why mere issues of another man calling your woman can bring crises, a man who trust his partner should be too busy to get upset over such especially if she narrates the whole incident to you. 3 Likes |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by jeff1993: 6:22pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Ginaz:..... use it n see urself in Shiloh camp next 10yrs b3ggin God for husband!!!! 2 Likes |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Ozzaa(f): 6:31pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
This so amazing. Best way to prevent unnessary calls. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by rhames(m): 6:37pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
a round of applause for you. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by Louiscutedude(m): 7:37pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Real street bae |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by STENON(f): 7:40pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
This is very funny. |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by doll912(f): 7:54pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
If you don't want to give him phone number, don't give him.... heaven will not fall if you smile, look him in the eyes and say " NO", and walk away. No need for small pikin play |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by ifeomaekol(f): 8:31pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
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Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by jojothaiv(m): 10:01pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
lonelydora:Man, next time wey we go meet i go personally buy iPhone 7 for you... Na guys like you dey give us hope again... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by fabulousvera(f): 11:17pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
nextstep:sir u are indeed mature. judging from the comments av read thank u 1 Like |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by rawpadgin(m): 11:22pm On Sep 30, 2016 |
Ginaz:then be ready to remain single for the rest of your life |
Re: Man Deceived By A Lady He Was Toasting Laments by lonelydora: 1:08am On Oct 01, 2016 |
Itzurboi: I bi nwafor Igbo. Igbo boi complete. |
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