For more than a decade, in fact, since the start and days, there is this widely accepted saying that women are complicated, and there is just no sure way of trying to understand them or keeping them under a leash to some extent. Well, to some point, this may be true, but what bothers me is the fact that nobody is trying to do anything about it. It’s like we have all resigned ourselves to such disturbing fate, and just hope we get paired with a less irrational one. No way! I for one, can’t live like that.


So I began my search for freedom and boy, it wasn’t so easy to finally find a common ground in all ladies. To be sincere, you can’t use a selected few to generalized every lady, but what we can do is to find similar traits in most.

So here are some tips on how not to feel like a total idiot when the storm comes.

1. Don’t expect them to reason like you. Trust me, don’t even try to think or make them think that they can or should reason like most men. It will not work. Now we know men are more of a logical being, while ladies are more emotional, so while we men tend to act based on what we have calculated, women prefer to act based on what they feel, using the line, trust you heart, it can’t deceive you, as a defense. Now, most times, they actually turn out to be right, and this can so agonizing, because they won’t allow us to hear the last of it, but in the long run, they end up frustrating the male species. Have you ever wondered why anytime you get into a debate with a lady, you both end up see the situation from different points, and most times, you ask, “can’t you think”. Relax, you can’t really blame her, because somewhere in her head, she is also asking the same question. While we want to be logical, to have an explanation for every action, they, ladies, don’t need a reason to some things, once they feel it in their hearts and then bones, forget it, they will do it. So guys, next time, you get into a debate with a lady, don’t just push it so much, because , they are not thinking the same way you are thinking, and trust me, they love it that way.

2. Women can’t be direct. In fact, they hate being direct. It makes them feel less in control of their lives. Getting close to a lady, you will understand that when they come across a guy who can easily understand them without stress, a guy who can spot and tell them all about themselves in and out without any difficulty, they start to feel so uncomfortable around that person, especially when they haven’t decided if they want to trust that person or not. In most cases, they can decide to lie or pretend, just to make you look stupid for once. Trust me, I am talking from experience. I wish I can share that experience, but I promised her I will keep it a secret when she finally opened up to me. Most times I just wonder, why not just be direct and let’s make life less unbearable, but I found out that, with they behaving like that, life won’t so much be as interesting as it is. Almost everyone loves mystery, myself included, so we just have to let them spin around, make them feel in control, at least for the mean time, because most of them want to prove that this is not just a man’s world. So, next time you as a guy start getting mixed signals that makes you confused, chill, take a deep breath, and just play along. Your ability to play along, will determine what happens next, which of course, ladies believe they have to determine. They love being in control.

3. Don’t do unto women what they do unto you. Hell no! Don’t even play with the idea. Don’t. If you do, I can promise you one thing, the devils will practically come live in your home because you invited them. Yes, we know at times that these wonderful creatures called women can be so annoying, at times they do things that leaves us astonished, most times they hurt us in some weird manner and expect us to be cool with it, yea bro, I understand, but don’t in anyway think of you repaying them. Now we ask, why are they like that? Truth is, every lady want that guy they can be totally free with, someone they can ‘make fun of’ in a weird romantic way. Now, while we guys see it as unnecessary, these ladies see it as sign that that they can totally depend on you. Remember, they don't reason logically they way men reason, rather, almost everything they think and do has an emotional attachment. So, while we are wondering, what is she doing, just relax, if she was going to hurt you for real, she would do it without you realizing it.
Now that you know why she does the thing she do, don't ever try to play the same card on her, it won't work. Remember, she is not so logical like you think. You may mean no harm, but to her, you are capable of eating with the Devil.

The saying, “Women are complex”, does not necessarily mean that women can’t be understood, or that women can’t be consistent. No, rather, it means that for you to be in sync with that lady of your dream, it requires some amount of dedicated efforts. Now, shall we continue?


4. Women can choose to lie to you, and yes, it for your protection. Honestly, this may seem weird, but truthfully, it is for your good, so don’t push it. Now, this is not me justifying any form of lie, no, in fact, don’t see it as a lie, see it as them withholding some damaging information. Imagine if all the ladies in this world decide to say what it is, as it is, oh my freaking goodness, this earth would have sunk a long time ago.
Now, there is a big difference between when a man tell a lie and when a lady do the same. Now, men tell a lie to save their head. Remember, men are more logical, so after much calculations, a man will come to the conclusion that if he dares say the truth at that moment, his life is in trouble (although, I wonder why men keep putting themselves in this position). For the women, who are more emotional, when they tell a lie, believe me when I say it is better that way. If she can’t see another way to put it or can’t find a subtle manner to say it, and she is being pressured to divulge, for sure, she will lie, and trust me, I am yet to see an exception. Understand this, not everyone is capable or mature enough to handle the truth at all times. Okay, don’t think I am recommending that they go about, choosing when to say the truth and when to lie, no, but if saying the truth at that time will hurt someone without repair, they refrain till a more convenient time, and for some weird reason, ladies understand this.
Have you ever been in a situation where a lady decided to say the truth, as it is? Especially when you know what you may hear could be terrible and damaging? How did you feel? Times like that, you start wishing they had just lied and save you the heartache. It is like, they can produce the most damaging effects a man’s mind can cope with, and this at times leave one wondering for a long time, that is, if one is able to recover at all from the shock of the truth.
Trust me, it is not nice to lie to people, but when a lady tell a lie at a particular time, just be rest assured, it is for your good.

5. Women love to talk. Honestly men, just be patient. Yes I know, most times this could be agonizing and unbearable, but this is one thing we can’t escape from. I don’t really know if this is a good thing or not, but this is one trait so predominant in them. In fact, on a second thought, I think it is a good thing that they talk a lot, and as weird as it may seem, I believe it is better this way. Now you may ask how? Let me show you.
Do you know why ladies talk a lot or argue so much (most times to a fault), it is because they care about something and someone, and as weird as it may seem, the moment they stop caring, they stop talking. Observe when a lady begins one of these episodes, there is something interesting you will see. To be honest, when a lady starts, if you look beyond the argument, you will notice the care in her voice, no matter how high it may be, the passion in her eyes, matter how red it may look, and the love in her behavior, no matter how dramatic she may act, and all these are because she cares so much about you to let you know what she feels. The day she decide to keep mute on any matter, not minding what you do, good or bad, don’t be too happy yet, something is going wrong somewhere. Although, men get frustrated with the way they go about it, in thinking, talking, and acting. Remember, they are more emotional than logical, so the way they argue their case is quite a wonder to most men. Now you may ask, how then is this useful? Let me show you.
Understand this, the female mind is like a black hole. Trust me, you can never fully know what these women think unless they tell you. Keep a lady in your house who doesn’t talk, I can bet you, world War 3 will happen right there in your room and you won’t know until you are almost dead. When they don’t talk, I bet you, their heart is almost no longer with you, and when they talk, they are trying to pass a message. So when a women starts talking, see it as an opportunity to know what she is thinking and the message she wants you to know. Don’t pray for her to be dumb (honestly it is hard not pray this prayer), just pray for grace to be patient. Seriously men, don’t interrupt them (unless you want to prolong your torture), instead, allow them, and when they are through, just ask them calmly, “Are you done talking?”, when they are through, then you can explain your own points. I know this can be painful, but this is how to handle these episodes (unless you have a better idea, I want to know). So, women talk a lot, yes, it is because they care. See it as a chance to know how they feel.

Now I still more ways to understand a lady, but let me stop here for now.

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I have seen threads about women and believe me, I will give you a 9/10...
Hope I am permitted to share your thread to people??
I won't plagiarize...

I have seen threads about women and believe me, I will give you a 9/10...
Hope I am permitted to share your thread to people??
I won't plagiarize...

Wow believe me my gf display most of this treats and what u profer as soln is wat i do. Thnxs

BiafraBushBoy:
I have seen threads about women and believe me, I will give you a 9/10...

Hope I am permitted to share your thread to people??

I won't plagiarize...

Sure you are

Presh900:
My Brother remove thah number 3 . I don't see why you have to treat a woman well while she treats you like crap... Your Logic is Flawed

Lmao... I totally agree with you. Why treat them nice and good when they treat men as crap? Well, for starters, they are ladies, and they reason that if you must be with them, you should be able to put up with their 'nonsense'. And no, you can't do to them what they do to you, cos, unlike men who always have a logical explanation for everything, they, being more emotional, may not and will not be able to strike a balance between play and rough play.

BiafraBushBoy:
I have seen threads about women and believe me, I will give you a 9/10...

Hope I am permitted to share your thread to people??

I won't plagiarize...

Okay

Women love to talk?

They cant reason like men?

Can't be direct?


Then what am I? . Cos am total opposite of your points

akaahs:
Wow believe me my gf display most of this treats and what u profer as soln is wat i do. Thnxs

Thank you.

Diddyydiva:
Women love to talk?

They cant reason like men?

Can't be direct?


Then what am I? . Cos am total opposite of your points

Like I said, not all women can be generalized, but haba, tell, me sincerely, you really think you don't have one, if not all, of these traits? No lie o

theorbiters:


Like I said, not all women can be generalized, but haba, tell, me sincerely, you really think you don't have one, if not all, of these traits? No lie o

I have like two sha


The points I omitted

I disagree with no.2 Op

theorbiters:


Lmao... I totally agree with you. Why treat them nice and good when they treat men as crap? Well, for starters, they are ladies, and they reason that if you must be with them, you should be able to put up with their 'nonsense'. And no, you can't do to them what they do to you, cos, unlike men who always have a logical explanation for everything, they, being more emotional, may not and will not be able to strike a balance between play and rough play.

i quite undestand what you 're driving at buh when i say ''crap'' i don't mean when they get all hormonal and illogical, what i actually mean is when she actually treats you deregotively while she'z in her right senses... If i gv you 50%, i expect nothing less..

Diddyydiva:
Women love to talk?

They cant reason like men?

Can't be direct?


Then what am I? . Cos am total opposite of your points

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OP just made a hasty generalization, BTW you're a transgendered

Presh900:

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Ahahahahah


That's a very funny joke there !!!

Diddyydiva:
Ahahahahah

That's a very funny joke there !!!

. :>

Diddyydiva:
I have like two sha


The points I omitted

now we are getting somewhere.

Aderola15:
I disagree with no.2 Op

Women can't be direct. Hmm, indulge me for a moment, so you are saying that you are as straight forward as a textbook, and you don't like the feeling of being chased?

Presh900:

Now you are being logical, and I am afraid that ladies, who are more emotionally controlled, even in their right senses, may not see it as you do.

theorbiters:




Women can't be direct. Hmm, indulge me for a moment, so you are saying that you are as straight forward as a textbook, and you don't like the feeling of being chased?

I'm very direct, I say it as it is except I know you can't handle the truth but then i hardly mingle with people like that. So I'm mostly direct. Chased I don't get chased. If you have interest in me and you make it known, you get your answer immediately. It's a yes or no affair. Ain't nobody gat time for cat and rat bness

Aderola15:

I'm very direct, I say it as it is except I know you can't handle the truth but then i hardly mingle with people like that. So I'm mostly direct. Chased I don't get chased. If you have interest in me and you make it known, you get your answer immediately. It's a yes or no affair. Ain't nobody gat time for cat and rat bness

Lol.. Okay love.

nice one mehn.

theorbiters:

Lol.. Okay love.

Tell me the whole truth now and always, i ll bear the pain. Worse Worse relationship go end. If you choose to lie to me about something really important, and the truth reveals itself 20 years down the line; Believe me, things will never remain the same, even if you are my source of livelihood.

are you done talking? seriously. she fit roast you alive o